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lying about stupid things .
okay , so i went out with this boy named alec for about 4 months, then we broke up and i found out the reason was not because "we never saw eachother" it was because he liked this girl brittany . and they started going out the same day we broke up . and brittany happends to be my bestfriend's boyfriend's sister . yeah weird ... anyways . he told me he was going to the beach tommarow with his "brother , dad & step mom" then i looked on his myspace comments and saw this from his "girlfriend" brittany , it said "tomorrow is gonna be fun ur not tackling me into the water either!!!" hmm.. why would he lie about that to me? does it mean he still has feelings for me ? or what ?
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I think he lied about the beach thing because he didn't want to hurt your feelings. He probably figured you'd feel bad if he told you he was going with his new girlfriend. It's the same reason he used the "we never saw each other" excuse, rather than saying he liked another girl. He was trying to be a nice guy and spare your feelings. That doesn't necessarily mean he still has feelings for you, though. (If he did, he wouldn't have broken up with you in the first place). It just means he's thinking about your feelings and trying not to hurt you.
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I'm sorry to tell you this, but he doesn't have feelings for you. He told you that to get you off of his back. He doesn't want you intruding on his new relationship so he just told you that, because it was the easiest way out. He's moved on and so should you. He clearly isn't worth your time anyways. Good luck, I hope you find someone who is honest and has the balls to tell you the truth.
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It means he's a jerkface. If he's that shallow that he has to lie to you- then it isn't worth caring about. Trust me, I've dealt with lying exes and it is the stupidest thing to do. Just ignore him and let him live his shallow and untrustworthy life. He'll end up hurting someone really bad and you'll know that it wasn't you that was hurt. Let him be.
--Jack
(15/m)
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