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Too Shy
I like this boy soo much and I was planning on asking him to hang out this summer on the last day of school but I chickened out.
I can't say that I know for sure if he likes me too, we don't really talk but we exchange glances and stuff I guess.
I don't know what to do.
I added him on msn and I think he blocked me. Should I take that as a bad sign?
I talk to his sister (her and I are kinda friends) but I don't want to impose on her and make her feel awkward. She knows I like her brother and shes fine with it but thats as far as it goes.
I don't know what to do to get a hold of him.
I'm not friends with his friends, and im not one to randomly call him up.
Should I just let go of him this summer and try and move on? I've liked him since April and its now July. I FEEL SO LOST. Just looking at his picture makes me nervous, I can't even look at it for more than 10 seconds without looking away or breaking into a ridiculous smile.
I know it sounds scary and lame but hellppp.
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Unfortunately, sometimes being too shy can have consequences. While you think that you and he are sharing cute, awkward glances with each other, he could be living in fear over the girl who appears to be stalking him because she won't quit staring at him. I'm not saying that's how he feels, but that could be how he interprets it, and because you are too shy to speak up, you'll never know.
The MSN thing is not a good sign at all. I would take that as my cue to move on. It doesn't guarantee that he doesn't like you, but it looks that way. Or he could be just as shy as you are. If that's the case, I'd still move on because two shy people together don't get a whole lot done. Take this as a lesson learned and don't make the same mistake again. You'll find someone else. :)
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If he blocked you, thats definitely not good. Maybe he only glances back because you looked first. I'm glad you aren't using his sister, that's a very mature thing to do. If calling is the only way to get a hold of him, then just do it, you might as well do it and find out whether he's even interested or not, and therefore you can move on and stop wasting your time or make a move.
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