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Not experienced.
15/f. For 7 months I was with my girlfriend. About 2 months ago we broke up & I was heartbroken, it's taken me a while to get over this, but I am finally ready to move on.
My best guy friend has always been there for me, and now he tells me that he likes me a lot. Now I am a lesbian, but I have feelings for him. I'm willing to try it out, but he is really experienced as in sexually. I've done pretty much nothing but make out with guys.
Do you think it's a good idea for me to be with him? Could I still be a lesbian and be attracted to a guy?
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Hey there girly, i know how you feel i went threw the same thing last year. I was only a lesbian But now im a Bisexual. I mean eather way its perfectly normal i think you should just experiment with bolth gendger's and wich ever one you like go for it im up for what ever you want to do, Id say just be honest with him and tell him you are not so much experieanced in sex. And im more then postive it will be ok.
lot's of love,
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P.s if you want to tell me how everything goes comment me back ok??
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Well, you could be bi or bi-curious.
You never really know if you're attracted to them by influence, as friends, out of pity, etc, etc. So, hmm, try something with him, and if you don't feel comfortable, ask him to keep it a secret. If you don't like it, you're not commited to him or being straight or bi. Just try things with both genders. If you like both, you're bi. If you like guys, you're straight. If you prefer girls, you're a lesbian.
Hey, you can never fully know until you've tried enough things with both genders to compare
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well then ur just not a lesbian ur bisexual! which is perfectly normal! and if you like him then by all means go out with him just tell him if hes trying something otha then making out that your not so experienced! and he will so understand!
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I think labels are so confining. Why consider yourself a lesbian? Why not just be a human being? I don't think someone your age should label who you're going to be for the rest of your life. You're so young and have so much life left to live. You're going to have so many experiences. Why close off so many opportunities by hiding behind a label? I think you should just be you. If you have even the slightest interest in this guy, go for it. See what it's all about. Just because you date someone doesn't mean you have to sleep with him no matter how sexually experienced he is. If he wants you, he has to play by your rules. So don't hesitate to take things slowly. Be yourself and have fun. :)
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Hey whats up,
Yes definitely you could be a lesbian and you could still be attracted to a guy, and thats because your not a lesbian, your actually BISEXUAL, meaning that you could hold a relationship with both guys AND girls.
And now, its totally no problem to give it a try with that guy, because obviously he likes you and you have feelings towards him, and that is also the perfect chance to seriously move on with your life and start something new with someone else and try to make things right in this relationship instead of the last one.
Umm.. I'm not sure of something though since you didn't mention it, does he know that your bisexual and that your last relationship was with a girl, cause if he does, then thats a good thing, tell him what you just said, that you've never gone as far with a guy but to make out only,and its cool, i mean he'll understand, and when it comes to sex later on, he won't mind that your not experienced cause he'll understand why, and he'll give you a chance most definitely till you know how its done and perfect it and when time passes, you'll be totally experienced in it.
On the other hand, if he doesn't know, which i don't think is possible, since he's your best guy friend, then i think you should come clean and tell him about it, because apart from liking you and wanting to be with you, he's your best friend and should know about it.
Thats it, so you should definitely go for it since there is likeness and admiration on both sides,and just give it a try, if things work out, then take a step further, but if not, you'll both be backing out just like you went in for it, and there won't be any broken hearts or hurt feelings cause its just a nice new experience your trying out for.
If you need any further help, please be free to contact me. I hope all goes well. Goodluck:)
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