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man you just dnt no i realy like him


Posted Thursday September 13 2007, 8:29 pm

miss bad luckok i have this boy who i realy like but every time im around him my oldest brothers enbares me in front of his face but tthey dont no i like him do you think if they find out tell stop and oyeah should i tell the boy i like him please i need ur help anyone

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losing both of them


Posted Thursday September 13 2007, 8:24 pm

GUY1: A little less then year ago i met this guy online and we instantly captured feelings for eachother. Well a month after we started talking he went to jail for nothing that needs to be said but it wasnt anything to bad. We stayed in-touch thru letters. Well he got released from jail on monday and he sent me a text as soon as he got out.

GUY2: like 3 weeks ago i met this guy off the internet again. And we fell hard for eachother in just a week. He always called me his man, and say he thinks about me all the time, he doesnt need anyone else, he wants to be with me. Well about three day ago he had a change of heart he stopped calling at night (the only time we really had time to talk) or if he did it was short. I was looking...

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liking my BFF's ex and my ex-bf BFF


Posted Thursday September 13 2007, 8:24 pm

I need answer ASAP!
Ok so this can get kinda confusing.
My BFF went out with a guy "Mark", and then he broke up with her last year but she has never stopped liking him. And Mark is also my ex's best friend. I didn't think Mark and I would still be friends because, of my ex, but today I ate lunch with him and some of my firends and I had a balst with him, and we were both kind of flirting with each other. I like him but I don't know if I should or not cause of that whole "girl code" thing. What do I do???

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I'm nervous as hell!


Posted Thursday September 13 2007, 8:07 pm

Ok,today right after my after school program I got to see one of my friends,whom I have'ent seen since summer break and she's in high school while I'm a 8th grader.Anyways we hugged,talked about what was going on our lives and things like that.Well I soon started telling her about my secret crush i still have since my last days of being a 7th grader.Well when i told her his name and how he used to look like and how he looks like now,when she was trying to picture him I saw him right behind us and he was'ent that from us either.I felt my heart sinking cause I really think that he heard me cause when i saw him he was looking at me!When he walked towrads a kid who called him i tried to convince myself that he did'ent hear a thing but my friend...

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OK QUESTION FOR THE MARRIED MEN THAT HAVE GIRLFRIENDS.


Posted Thursday September 13 2007, 7:46 pm

If you are unhapply married and you find a girl that maked you happy and you know that you want to be with them you want them in your life. why do you stay with your wife when you know that you are not happy at all.

and when the girl is trying to move on because she knows that you are never going to leave your wife why don't you just back off.

and maybe my friend kar wouldn't cry so much.
i know then why dosen't she back off well how can you when there is a baby involed.

i think that if you are going to get married make sure you are in love, i know that sometimed it doesn't work out but don't invole anyone else untill its over for sure.

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my friend is going to hook me up with her guy friend.


Posted Thursday September 13 2007, 7:30 pm

AH! 15/f...I have this guy that I FELL IN LOVE WITH at the beginning of the year. Just infatuated though, lol. I never talk to him. Because I'm too shy. But I really really really like him. And he always makes eye contact with me and smiles.

So yesterday, my friend comes online and tells me "I'm going to make it happen for you and [his name]. for sure. I got your back ;) I can make the connection between you two because you both are my friend"
And, of course, anyone would get SUPER excited. And I was. But now I'm beginning to doubt this. Has anyone on here ever been set up by a friend to be with a guy? I really want to be with him. It's like killing me inside. Self-confidence is a big issue here though. I'm...

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kissing/breathing


Posted Thursday September 13 2007, 7:28 pm

14/f and I've never kissed a boy on the lips before. I've heard that you can practice against your hand or a wall or something, so I practiced once and a question came to mind, when you're kissing... are you supposed to be breathing?? if so, then through your nose or mouth?? how exactly do you breath when your kissing, cause i don't wanna stop every 4 seconds taking a breath, or breathing through my nose and having air being blowed on his skin. so could someone explain all of this to me??

also maybe any other helpful first time kissing tips and stories??

please no links! thank you!

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Over a year relationship and I need adivice


Posted Thursday September 13 2007, 7:20 pm

This is pretty long.
First time asking a question here.
I’m 16/f
I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 1 year and 3 months. He’s my first boyfriend. We started dating towards the end of 8th grade and we’re are now in the beginning of sophomore year in high school. Towards the beginning of our relationship he was the one who would always want to hang out and he always said really nice things like “you look beautiful”. And then a little later he would tell me he loved me a lot. I always said it back and I meant it. Then towards the middle of our relationship I was the one who always wanted to hang out and he always had plans with his friends who I used to be good friends with and liked at the time. Well back in mi...

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picking a fight for no reason


Posted Thursday September 13 2007, 6:48 pm

18/m

okay well about 7 months ago i got out of a 8 month relationship and with that girl i found myself always trying to pick a fight just so i could be mad and angry with her
and i hated it but i figured it was just because our personalitys clashed or something because it seemed like she did the same thing sometimes (that wasent what ended our relatinship tho)
oh and i never loved her only liked

but now i have a girlfriend that i absolutly love more than anything and i have been with her for about 5 months but i have been good friends with her for a cpl years
but anyways im finding myself starting to do the same thing i did with my ex. where im starting a fight for no reason
and im...

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girls...


Posted Thursday September 13 2007, 5:41 pm

ok just to start i am a man..ish lol (16 years old) but the thing the proceeds to allways piss me off is the way i see other guys looking at girls as if they are mindless sex objects, damn i hate it. one of my freinds freind today was lookin at a girl across the street going oh wow looka her ass i'd bone that bitch and crap like that. am i missing something? because its demoralising as hell and i hate it... how do i just tell him that he is doing something that pisses me off to no end without being so... oh how to put it harsh... well maybe a little to show him a bit, but i dont know ime confused about it i just need a good one liner that will tell anyone i meet like it in the future.

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im shy and not sure if im ready for a relationship


Posted Thursday September 13 2007, 5:31 pm

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost two weeks, I know that's not long but we havn't even kissed yet and we're both shy.
We've madeout before but that was at a party when we were drunk and it was before we were going out.
And it's really weird cause it's almost like we're not going out cause we hardly act like it.
And I've loved him for so long now and I don't want to give up just because we're both shy, but nothing seems to be happening.
I don't know what to do.

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is it to soon!??


Posted Thursday September 13 2007, 3:20 pm

well I DID go out with this guy for 9 months and last friday we broke up and surprisingly i got over it not fully but i dont feel the same for him as i used one cuz hes a jerk now and two hes not talking to me but there is this reallllly cute new kid who i talk to all the time he already knows i like him and he likes me . we talk all the time like to the point where people are wondering if we are going ouT! but theres the thing i do want to and he does too i think but idont know if its to soon to do go out should i just date like hang out a while or just wait a month and then go out with him???!

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My heart is broken...


Posted Thursday September 13 2007, 3:10 pm

I have been with my boyfriend for over two years now. He's always been so good to me and I love him so much.

A couple weeks ago, I went on his computer and saw that he left a comment on this girl's picture saying how beautiful she was. I can't explain it, but this literally broke my heart. Probably because it was so unlike him to do something like that. I confronted him about it and he said it didn't mean anything and it wasn't a big deal and he was sorry. I believe him. I really do. But I can't understand why it still hurts me so much to think about it. It still kills me inside even though he really didn't do anything that horrible. Sometimes when I'm talking to him I'll remember what he did and I'll get upset about it all o...

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Promise Ring!


Posted Thursday September 13 2007, 2:59 pm

Ok...so my boyfriend and me have talked about a promise ring. We've been together for a year and a half and we know that we truly love each other and want to spend our lives together. We both decided that we would wait a few more months before taking this step! Do you think this is too soon? Or can you really put a time on these kinds of things!

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Why does this happen? I feel sick


Posted Thursday September 13 2007, 1:32 pm

When I am with my boyfriend and he does something I really like sometimes I feel like I could throw up. For instance he will kiss my neck and after a while I feel like, not nauseous but... well this will sound gross but whatever is in my stomach feels like it will come up and I have to like take a break from doing that for a minute. Is there anything I can do to stop that? It's weird and I wish it didn't happen!!

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sadly. i like him


Posted Thursday September 13 2007, 9:10 am

hey everyone dis will be pretty long but i justreally need a answer quick.. please.. ok
well i really like this boy and all and last year he always used to look at me always used to talk to me and stuff and i really started ot like him i mean badly anyway he went to amerrica and stuff and then he came back
and asked for me and stuff and my sis told him when i ws comin to skool anyway this year you kno when you first go to skool and stuff and you havnt seen people in a long tmie and you get nervouse and scared and you kno what im saying anyway i was like to him heeey then i saw my friends behind him i was soo dammn exited to see them and stuff and so then BY MISTAKE honest mistake i just ran away from him and hese like why ...

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what do u think? (sorry its long)


Posted Thursday September 13 2007, 3:23 am

I never knew that I become bisexual I never thought of women in a sexual way before I meet my best friend Jane 7 years ago. It was a big shock to me that she is my only first crush I ever had in my life, yeah I had pervious boyfriends in high school but I used them to get over her, I didn’t like the fact I was doing that to them so I broke up with them. I only told my older sister and my friend Josh too. They are supportive to me and try to help me when I ask questions. I told Jane about how I felt about her in our senior year she didn’t say much but was shocked. After we graduated I was busy with work and junior college same with her too, we are good close friends and we hang out with each other and others too. I still like her and I w...

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The circle.


Posted Wednesday September 12 2007, 11:09 pm

My ex and I have had a long history together. Over a year and some months. So we are pretty close even after that. I was giving him advice about his girlfriend. She just started high school. She's rather immature and flirty. He talked to her about it and things changed but the flirting.

Today my boyfriend told me that they have a class together. For some reason my ex's girlfriend bit my boyfriend in a playful way. My ex and I= both jealous types. I was going to tell off my ex to keep his girlfriend under control but he didn't know about this. So he doesn't know what to do. Last night, she opened up and told him everything... then she did this flirty thing.

Any advice? I know it's hard to date someone who is f...

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i need advice


Posted Wednesday September 12 2007, 10:48 pm

is it right to have a bf or a gf, and yet flirt just for a change

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rejection..how to handle it.


Posted Wednesday September 12 2007, 10:27 pm

16/f
i liked this guy named Kasey for a year and
we were good friends for awhile then we just stopped talking after he found himself a girlfriend.
he started doing bad stuff.
so ive liked him for awhile now and i finally decided to tell him.
i sent him a message on facebook and told him and i got no reply.
he told his friends and my best friend.
so what should i do b/c i really really liked him and its all over with now.


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