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losing both of them
GUY1: A little less then year ago i met this guy online and we instantly captured feelings for eachother. Well a month after we started talking he went to jail for nothing that needs to be said but it wasnt anything to bad. We stayed in-touch thru letters. Well he got released from jail on monday and he sent me a text as soon as he got out.
GUY2: like 3 weeks ago i met this guy off the internet again. And we fell hard for eachother in just a week. He always called me his man, and say he thinks about me all the time, he doesnt need anyone else, he wants to be with me. Well about three day ago he had a change of heart he stopped calling at night (the only time we really had time to talk) or if he did it was short. I was looking at his myspace and he put another girl as his first person. He told me that they are just friends and that i am not his man and i am not his girl and that this girl finds him very attractive but they are only friends. This is killing me completely because he still has my picture on his page and the caption says your the only one i need.
well i told GUY1 that i only wanted to be friends and he said thats fine but you better still talk to me. Well its not happening im losing both guys. GUY1 i care about so much but he wont say a word to me unless he wants to. GUY2 says he still cares about me and always will but he can't do the distance.
GUY2 is moving on with his life. I need to move ona nd if i am going to i want it to be with GUY1 but how do i get him to talk to me?
Am i being selfish please help me...
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you just don't know what you want. clearly you were misleading guy number one. like, now you want him back just because guy number 2 doesn't want you? yes, it's selfsh. i say, give both guys space and see who talks to you first. then decide who you want, and be sure, don't keep messing with their heads hon.
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