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Why does this happen? I feel sick
When I am with my boyfriend and he does something I really like sometimes I feel like I could throw up. For instance he will kiss my neck and after a while I feel like, not nauseous but... well this will sound gross but whatever is in my stomach feels like it will come up and I have to like take a break from doing that for a minute. Is there anything I can do to stop that? It's weird and I wish it didn't happen!!
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here is the answer that will blow your mind. the reason why you feel sick when being parshly intimite with your boyfriend, is because your consients is trying to tell you that you need to slow it down a bit. in your mind, you are thinking that this feels good, and you are ready to take that small step. but in reality, in the back of your mind, you know that you are not ready. your body knows it, and it is telling you to slow down. it is really funny how that works. but i know that feeling. it is the feeling where the pit of your stomach is just aching, and you are afraid that your boyfriend is gonna be wearing your lunch. when i felt this feeling, i would take a break. and then i would start again. and eventuelly you get a little used to the feeling, thinking its supposed to be like that. but really, for me, it never went away. and it is because i wasn't ready to take that step. my advice to you, is to take it slower then you are. let your body get used the fact that you have a boyfriend, and then when you really know without a dougt you are ready for all that neck-kissing, then try again, and if you still feel sick, you might consider who your boyfriend is. because your body could be telling you to back off of him. but don't jump to conclusions, just take your time, and make the sick feeling go away, because thats not a normal reaction to have. and remember to keep on smiling.
nina :)
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i know this sounds dumb, but maybe you're slightly uncomfortable with what's going on. that doesn't mean it's bad, or that you don't want to do it, it just means that inside you might have some weird feeling about doing that stuff. i have that same feeling about other stuff that i'm not completely comfortable with. i'm not telling you that you don't love your boyfriend or anything, don't get me wrong. i think it will get better over time if it's the uncomfortable thing, because you'll get more used to it. i'm not sure.
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Go to the doctors for a check up and tell he or she whats wrong and they will tell you why.Courtney
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Well , I have never heard of this before but Maybe you feel like this because you are not ready for what he is doing,Alot of people feel that when they are uncomfortable.
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if it makes you sick you shouldnt let him kiss u but if you want it to stop drink a glass of water before u kiss
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