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Confused on feelings.
Posted Thursday September 20 2007, 8:11 am
I am 15 years old. my ex boyfriend is 17.
1. when we first got together about half a year ago he was infatuated with me. he said he didn't want to lose me. i know he was sincere.
2. after a while things started to deteriorate but i was falling for him hard
3. neither of us broke up with each other it just fell apart but straight after we met up and hooked up .. it was like everything was usual. we stopped speaking for a while but then hooked up a couple of months ago again
4. 2 weeks ago i lost my virginity to him
i am so confused. i know he cares for me but i just dont know what he wants. when were together its like old times we bring up things we used to find funny etc but then when were...
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Too close to my boyfriend
Posted Thursday September 20 2007, 7:39 am
Michael and I have been dating seven months now, we litterally spend all day with each other. (We text before school, see each other after every class/eat lunch together, then hang out after school until 9:30 every night) Its exhausting, I've lost so many friends and I'm sure he has too. We try to hang out with other people too, but he's usually with other girls which causes jealousy fights. Things are just better when we're together. But now, I'm getting worn out always making sure he's happy and were together. I'm not sure what I should do.
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Boyfriend
Posted Thursday September 20 2007, 5:40 am
My boyfriend and i always fight and argue and im so sick of it and i always end up in tears i hate it so much :( ok well this what happened yesterday and i need help.
Well My boyfriend lets name him John and his friends name bob ok Bob is my boyfriends friend and Bob was flirting with me the day before and next week im going out and
Bob-Im comming
Me- lol COME COME
Bob-lol i will
Me-bring JOHN xD
Bob- lol
Me-BRING HIM !
Bob-I think i should i will
Anyways ok and his friend asked for my number but i didn't give my number and he was just kinda flirty
So i told my boyfriend the story and he got mad at me ='[ and i love him so much loosing him is like...
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This is so Important to me
Posted Thursday September 20 2007, 3:10 am
I'm in love, and the guy is a jerk and doesn't like me back.
Why he's a jerk? Because he's cooler than me, and he feels that and that's why he rarely talks to me. BUT he will stare deep into my eyes, ask me for massages (but he never gives me any, but I never ask) make small talk (sometimes) cuddle with me (rarely, at a swim meet, and there has to be other girls present, and he doesn't like any of them). But sometimes if I go to swim in his lane, even if there's people present, he'll go to another land. Once we were having a fun day at swim practice and he was doing dives in the deep section and he was alone. When I came over there he went away. Sometimes he answers my questions warmly, sometimes he's cold.
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Should I tell him or not?
Posted Wednesday September 19 2007, 10:39 pm
Ok so my freshman year one of my close friends told me he "liked me" and I didn't like him back so that was that. But he still liked me for a while. Then last year, I started to like him, but he had gotten over me so he didn't like me, and even though he knew I liked him, he didn't make a move or anything. Then, at the beginning of this year, I think we were kinda hitting it off, and I think we both liked eachother because we were both dropping hints, but then I think I kinda screwed it up because I was really distant for a few days, and he started to go out with this other girl.
Ok, this girl has been IN LOVE with him for 2 years. She thinks he's the hottest guy she's ever met and he has known the whole time that ...
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vagina
Posted Wednesday September 19 2007, 10:02 pm
is it normal to have like bumps under the skin on the inside of your vagina, like little seeds??
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he is extremely jealous
Posted Wednesday September 19 2007, 9:33 pm
started talking to rob two months ago. he moved an hour away but we manage to stay together, and hang on weekends. its ben rocky lately because hes extremely jealous and its so bad that its to the point where he is mean sometimes.i want to show him im only interested him him, i was thinking about getting him a few nice sweatshirts or whatever. is it too soon, would he be weirded out?
thanks
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buying him stuff?
Posted Wednesday September 19 2007, 9:27 pm
started talking to rob two months ago. he moved an hour away but we manage to stay together, and hang on weekends. its ben rocky lately because hes extreely jealous. i was thinking about getting him a few nice sweatshirts or whatever. is it too soon, would he be weirded out?
thanks
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Ex...
Posted Wednesday September 19 2007, 9:09 pm
Long story short, I have a ex who dumped me for his ex and wanted me back and what not and it's been a long while since we broke up, although i still have some sort of feelings for him and everyone knows that.I avoid ever going back out with him. I wouldn't now or the near future.I'm with someone for 5 and half months. I haven't talked to my ex for months now and he showed up at my school (he graduated already) and he was at my lunch. I was really surprised to see him there considering I thought I wasn't going to see him.. in a long time.Since he's not in highschool anymore.I got a weird feeling in my stomach and I just couldn't believe how much he effects me. I thought that feeling was gone or most of it.It surprises me that he could still...
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Everything is so confusing.
Posted Wednesday September 19 2007, 8:44 pm
So I've had this boyfriend for a year and a half and for the first year of being together I truly thought he was the one and I loved him so freaking much. After that things went downhill...we started to be sexually active....and started arguing about everything. I had the worst jealousy issues with him.... anyways about a month ago I met this guy who pretty much changed my life. We hungout for a few weeks and got close. I felt like i had more of a connection with him then my own boyfriend...because my boyfriend would barely ever open up to me no matter how much i tried. So I broke up with my boyfriend for many reasons and started hanging out with this new boy. 3 weeks after breaking up with my boyfriend I said yes to dating this new boy. We...
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A big mess, I know. HELP!!
Posted Wednesday September 19 2007, 8:37 pm
Okay, so where do I begin. March the 23rd I met this wonderful guy. He was so kind to me, and we started hanging out. We flirted a little bit, and he had told my friend that he though I were really cute. Then after a few weeks I found out that he has a baby, a little baby daughter and I GIRLFRIEND! And I were like, "oh no, i must of gotten all this wrong, the wrong signals etc" So I though that I could be just his friend. But then that they came, the day when he gave me our first kiss. I was so confused. so I asked out this girl of his. And he told me, that it was'nt going good between them, and that their relationship just were fighting, and the only reason that they we're together was because of their baby. So we have been kind...
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on the rocks
Posted Wednesday September 19 2007, 7:35 pm
Im 16/f my boyfriend of 7 months (17/m) have been fighting alot and we just cant seem to get along. (I'm his first girlfriend) He doesnt' really know how to handle situations where he gets stressed out about things. He just seems to tkae it out on me, and then when i get mad or do soemthing he doesn't like he just gets mad and we're constantly fighting. We took a break a couple months ago and that was just a disaster. But we finally got back together and we're just always fighting and not getting along. Its came to the part where he says why dont we just break up. But we're so in love we dont want stupid fights ruining our relationship. What do you suppose we do, any tips on how to get along better, and not fight so often? Thanks. Much appreciated
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i'm really shy. he's really shy.
Posted Wednesday September 19 2007, 6:48 pm
so my boyfriend is equally as shy as me, if not more, and let's say i'm on the short side of outgoing stick.
we were ok hanging out with each other and talking to each other before we were dating, but now that we are, it's all akward.
i don't know what to do about this.
anyone have a solution to my problem?
PS: saying "jus go over and talk to him" or something to tghat degree won't help. i've tried that and i'm still trying it.
thanks in advance. :D
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realtiionship heLp
Posted Wednesday September 19 2007, 5:49 pm
ok me and my boyfriend have been goin out for a about 6 months and someweeks , & our jelousy thing has N0T went down at aLl , i mean we know were aLL each other needs and wants but we stiLL get mad at each other when one of us taLks to a nother boy/girL , give then a hug or even taLk to them & its not just one of us , its both .... Like we can never taLk to other peopLe with out each other getting mad ; i mean he gets mad when i taLk to boys & i do the same with girLs ; weve tryed to taLk it out but nothing chances ? heLp,, advice ?
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CONFUSION!!...
Posted Wednesday September 19 2007, 5:44 pm
soo theres this boy who i have been talking and well last june we started talkin like everyday and got realli close like bestest freinds coz he toldme evrything and meto him! until november wen my best freind went out with him and then i started feelin bit jealosus! but he kinda gaveme the impression b4 hand that he likd me coz he would say all this sweet stuff! anyway, he stopped talkin to me in december for some reason - when everi ask him hes like i dnt like 2 talk bout the past anymore!
soo.. recently he started talkin to me sayin tha he dont want 2 keep a grudge with anyone..he used to go to my skul but left because he failed and had to go sum place else..evry time i talk to him i get a rush of feelings..but i dont tink about hi...
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whose flirting??
Posted Wednesday September 19 2007, 5:37 pm
14/f
my boyfriend and i have been dating a year this friday.
i love him to death, like id really take a bullet for him to death. And yes i really mean that.
Well he kinda flirts with other girls. (he used to be a "playa" before he met me)
well when im mad at him, or i want someone to notice me because he doesnt, or because i thought he was flirting with another girl, i tend to flirt with guys,normally these two specific guys, just to make him jealous sometimes, that and i want attention. Well today he kinda brought it up.
He said him and his other friend were talking about how they noticed it last year too. he didnt say exactly what i did or who i did it with. but im pretty sure...
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frustrated
Posted Wednesday September 19 2007, 5:31 pm
Hi, I just moved and I really like this boy in my new school. He used to be in all my classes, but now he's only in 2. He's never talked 2 me before, except to say like "excuse me" in the hall or something. I really REALLY want to ask him out, but I just can't. Like today, I was going the same way as him in the hall, so I figured, what the heck I'll ask him out now, cuz nobody knows me anyways. So, I go to ask him, but I end up stepping on the back of his foot!=( I got so embarrassed I could barely say sorry. (But, noone else saw, it was just personal embarrassment) I REALLY want to ask him out, but I just can't, and I don't have many friends yet. PLEASE help me!
by the way, I've never asked a boy out before, or had a boyfriend before.
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so sick of this
Posted Wednesday September 19 2007, 4:45 pm
This guy and i have liked eachother for like 9 months now. He is getting mad at me because i won't go out with him but i dont want to because of how he ahs treated his other gfs and he isnt treating me too well right now. Well I found out today he kind of likes this other girl and I am so upset! But then i am so sick of everything he is doing to me(like things like this) and it's like i don't even know if i like him. I almost don't want to. I still have feelings for him and I want him. What should I do?
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telling him
Posted Wednesday September 19 2007, 4:16 pm
how do you tell a guy that you like him more than friends but not in an awkward way...if possible, i want to know what i should say word by word! i have to tell him soon, so please help me!
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how can I get his attention?
Posted Wednesday September 19 2007, 4:09 pm
15/f Well, I'm a very shy girl. I'm not high on confidence. And I wouldn't consider myself the ugliest thing alive (lol) Generally, people tell me I'm good-looking. (Whatever XD). But yeah. I like this guy. He sits like across from me. I barely know him, but I know his name. And I think he's really cute. He knows my name, I think. But we never even talked. How can I like...you know...make this "work out"? lol..=/ unless it's impossible. Should I like try flirting? X_X
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