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This is so Important to me
I'm in love, and the guy is a jerk and doesn't like me back.
Why he's a jerk? Because he's cooler than me, and he feels that and that's why he rarely talks to me. BUT he will stare deep into my eyes, ask me for massages (but he never gives me any, but I never ask) make small talk (sometimes) cuddle with me (rarely, at a swim meet, and there has to be other girls present, and he doesn't like any of them). But sometimes if I go to swim in his lane, even if there's people present, he'll go to another land. Once we were having a fun day at swim practice and he was doing dives in the deep section and he was alone. When I came over there he went away. Sometimes he answers my questions warmly, sometimes he's cold.
I am really truly in love with him, and I just don't know what to do or what to think. I have tried dating other guys, but they just don't live up to him. I feel grossed out if I imagine myself kissing anyone but him.
I can't tell him how I feel because he gets scared off easily. A couple girls told them that they liked him and he doesn't talk to them anymore. I have no idea what to do. I love that he is a jerk, by the way, I would never change that about him. Also, he is not a player (he only had one girlfriend, although he does have quite a few lady friends.) and he is not really a flirtsy guy.
I don't know how to interpret his actions. He smiles at me sometimes, but sometimes he acts like he hates me. =( Can somebody help me out? Do you think he likes me? He teases me.. in a friendly way. I guess the best way to describe his actions towards me is that he treats me like a little sister. But not quite.
If I talk to him too much he gets scared away. I'm sorry this was so long, but I've loved him for four years now. It started out as a crush, but in the past two years grew into something way more.
Please don't tell me to just ask him how he feels or tell him how I feel. It will be so akward, and we see each other nine times a week. Not to mention it will probably freak him out.
Help!! =/
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Tell him its really getting lame, the way he's treating you, one minute he's asking nice and flirty towards you and the next he's not. Say all that to him and he'll get the jist of it. You don't want to like a guy who only likes you back on his own time and when he wants right? Thats what it seems like hes doing. Telling him how you feel isnt bad. Hope I helped!
-Brina
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