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buying him stuff?
started talking to rob two months ago. he moved an hour away but we manage to stay together, and hang on weekends. its ben rocky lately because hes extreely jealous. i was thinking about getting him a few nice sweatshirts or whatever. is it too soon, would he be weirded out?
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Well.. if he's the jealous type, then he may possibly assume you did something wrong, and that you're just trying to kiss up and make up for what he doesn't know is going on. However, it doesn't seem like you are trying to buy something in order to make him feel better about his jealous, more so just a nice thing to do. I don't really know why buying him a shirt would freak him out, just don't buy him jewelry. haha.
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If you're going to buy him things just so he'll stop being mad at you, don't. Buying him expensive gifts will not kill his jealousy or his anger at whatever he's pissed about at that time. Over time, he'll realize that you buy him stuff every time he seems to get angry at you and will trick you into thinking that he's mad at you just so he can get free clothes/cd's/etc. I have first hand experience with a guy like this and I couldn't even see it until a friend pointed out the obvious. So I stopped buying him stuff and guess what? He dumped me. So don't buy into the lies that guys will like you more if you buy them stuff they want. They don't like you more, they like your credit card.
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it's not weird at all. buy him some. but maybe make something from the heart. write him a sweet letter 'bout your feelings. :)
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