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Should I tell him or not?
Ok so my freshman year one of my close friends told me he "liked me" and I didn't like him back so that was that. But he still liked me for a while. Then last year, I started to like him, but he had gotten over me so he didn't like me, and even though he knew I liked him, he didn't make a move or anything. Then, at the beginning of this year, I think we were kinda hitting it off, and I think we both liked eachother because we were both dropping hints, but then I think I kinda screwed it up because I was really distant for a few days, and he started to go out with this other girl.
Ok, this girl has been IN LOVE with him for 2 years. She thinks he's the hottest guy she's ever met and he has known the whole time that she is obsessed. And he hasn't made a move until now, even though he had nothing to lose.
And now that I see him with another girl, it makes me sad..everyone always tells me that we should get together. His friends, my friends, everyone! And the girl he's with is a sophomore and I'm a junior and she is really annoying so we aren't friends and it bothers me that the guy and I can't spend as much time together anymore.
And he still flirts with me all the time. He rests his head in my lap, and puts his arm around me while he's standing with me, and today we were standing like that and then his girlfriend walked up and he just completely turned around and started talking to her and ditched me.
It makes me sad...and really confused.
Should I tell him? Or just wait until this whole relationship blows over.
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ok i know i am going to sound like a bitch but i am not... well until recently...lol. anyhow sometimes you have to look out for number one and those that matter to number one. you, and the guy that matters to you.
so... i am proposing give it a shot, YOU have nothing to loose, if in case he says he dsnt like you (and i think other wise i;ll get to that in a min) just say its probably that you knew he liked you before and you kind of liked being liked and so you began convincing yourself you liked him back and its nothing.
ok now to the juicy part. unless he's gay, then he totally is giving you signs he still likes you. the arms the jokes the lap all that stuff. the closer he gets (when you feel his heat or his breath or are close enough so that you can't fit someone in between let alone force someone you know he wants to be with you) the reason he goes off with his gf when she's around is coz shes his GIRLFRIEND. this guy is decent, i mean what kind of an asshole would he be if he just blew her off and went with his "friend" (no offense but you dont want that behavioral pattern to repeat itself with you right)...
lol i mite be over exaggerating here but it seems to me he's pulling a classic clark gable/rhett butler i-told-you-i-love-you-once-i-still-do-but-but-will-not-say-it-again
so its your turn now, hey cut him some slack girls and guys are more alike than you think... he has dignity and he's been rejected. plus he i guess he doesn't want to screw it up with you and loose your friendship.
chances are he may say he likes you too and dump the girl. and chances he may not because he doesn't want to hurt her, or he may even not have feelings for you anymore. for the latter just tell him what i told above...
anyway if you decide to tell him, what you can do is take him aside one night like on the football field or something or go for a walk and when the time's right (meaning you see signs like him hugging you or getting real close or stuff like that) say it. avoid crowds, and DFNTLY his Gf ....really its all about timing and body language so stay alert! oh one more thing if he says he dsnt like you that way when your out alone and after you say what i told you change the mood... if you were kind of quite crack a joke, if your still move... that'll avert attention from awkwardness.
GULUK HUN!
guluck hun.
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