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Boyfriend
My boyfriend and i always fight and argue and im so sick of it and i always end up in tears i hate it so much :( ok well this what happened yesterday and i need help.
Well My boyfriend lets name him John and his friends name bob ok Bob is my boyfriends friend and Bob was flirting with me the day before and next week im going out and
Bob-Im comming
Me- lol COME COME
Bob-lol i will
Me-bring JOHN xD
Bob- lol
Me-BRING HIM !
Bob-I think i should i will
Anyways ok and his friend asked for my number but i didn't give my number and he was just kinda flirty
So i told my boyfriend the story and he got mad at me ='[ and i love him so much loosing him is like loosing my life ='[ and i know if i talk to him it's just gonna end in a fight and i dont think his gonna go on msn now and when i text he dosnt text back and im not calling so dont tell me to call him but i just really want to talk to him and sometimes we just argue over the most stupidest things any help and also any advice on how to stop our little arguments ='[ ?
Sorry it's long.
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Your boyfriend could be mad because what your version of flirting is and his are probably very different, ei he is probably not quite understanding whatever happened and therefore is overreacting. Instead of telling him you were flirting, tell him how you acted. Tell him how much he means to you and how much you actually don't have feelings for this other guy.
Since you are arguing a lot for no reason, you should probably address this. Tell him that it's not fun when you fight, or tell him that you are concerned about it. You need to communicate with your boyfriend that sometimes you enjoy attention from guys, but don't want to ever make him uncomfortable. Although he is mad and needs some reassuring, you also have needs and one of them is being able to live without him always being mad about it.
Although you really do love your boyfriend, it may be unfair to be restricted/ someone that he is mad . Hopefully talking to him will help, but you have to also look out for yourself, and make sure that you are in a relationship that is making you happy instead of one making you upset.
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I'm in the same situation with my boyfriend right now. It really sucks. :(
I think the best thing to do would be to find some way to talk to him. It sounds like he's got some jealousy issues. You've just got to make sure he knows that he's the only one you care about and not his friend 'Bob'. If he really loves you, he'll trust your word and maybe stop picking fights as much.
Good luck, let me know how it goes!
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