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i don't know.


Posted Sunday September 23 2007, 5:34 pm

I always seem to like someone, and I hate it. I also seem to hate it when guysu like me too. Don't know what is wrong with me. Help?

I just don't like commitment.

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How do I get him to notice me?


Posted Sunday September 23 2007, 5:33 pm

Okay, there's this guy I like. He's one of those guys that everybody is in love with. All of the girls who like him only like him because they think he's hot (which he is, he's GORGEOUS) but I like him because he's sweet, friendly, funny, smart and kind. No one else likes him for his personality, but I know him really well so I do? How do I get him to understand that I'm the only one that likes him for him?

Thanks for any answers or help!

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What happend to us??


Posted Sunday September 23 2007, 4:39 pm

ok well i used to have this boyfriend.. we broke up last december.. and we were friends since we broke up and we were fine in the summer.. now since schools started, hes been really mean to me and i have no clue why.. i didnt do anything that would make him feel so angrey at me.. the only thing that i can think of is the way i dress now?? i mean i dress kind of punk//rock now,, but i dont know.. not being some ones friend just because of the way they dress?? thats pathetic..

i appreciate any answers thankss =]

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bff or bf?


Posted Sunday September 23 2007, 3:49 pm

This is gonna be long, sorry!!!
Theres this guy. Let's call him Jim. He's been one of my best friends since i was about 3. It's because his dad used to work with my mom. his parents are from england and have heavy british accents. however, Jim doesnt. I used to sleep over at his house, i almost used to live there. his sister, (lets call her Polly) now lives in London. Jim goes to London to visit his grandparents every summer. Oh, did I mention that i am in looove with anything british? I want to go to London so badly and a british accent is one of the hottest things i have ever heard. Jim is kind of short and i am really super tall. idc about that though... anyways, i dont see him a lot anymore because we go to different schools. Als...

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Could he be trying to make me jealous?


Posted Sunday September 23 2007, 3:27 pm

Idk about this kid anymore (he's a sort of ex), but here's the situation.

All I wanted to do was the talk to him (I told a friend to tell him to call me, since I have no classes with him), and he was like "No..she's going to ask me to homecoming".

After he said that, I was just irritated, and said "You know what? Screw you, jackass. Just so you know, I have a boyfriend, and I'm already going to homecoming with someone. I just wanted to talk to you."

According to my friend, he was really shocked and he acts all awkward around me now, but whatever.

Now, I hear that he admitted to liking this girl that's been, like, stalking him. i mean, she's a nice girl and all, ...

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Likes One, Loves Another?


Posted Sunday September 23 2007, 3:12 pm

Okay, My names Jasmin, I'm 14 and live in Kentucky. I'm dating a guy named Chad, while I like a guy named James. Me and Chad's only been datin a couple of days, and I cant seem to get my mind off of James. I've dated James before and I'm inlove with him, or atleast I feel like I am.& I feel guilty if I date someone else, I feel like I'm doing him wrong. The thing is, we go to different schools, and we hardly ever get to see eachother, while me and chad go to the same school, my parents dont really approve of chad, and when i ask whats wrong with him they say look at his family? I'm like okay, not everyone turns out to be like their parents, which there isnt anything wrong with his parents, his dad just drinks occasionally. My father say...

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boy problem!!!


Posted Sunday September 23 2007, 1:53 pm

ok so im eighteen years old and ive probably only had 4 boyfriends, but they werent even serious.
and i've had sex once.
im a timid girl and whenever im with a boy i like, i cant seem to make the first move, but i really want to.
what are some pointers i can have to make me come out of my shell?
and how do i know if im doing a certain move the right way?
i dont want to suck at it! ahh please help!!!!!

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dreams


Posted Sunday September 23 2007, 12:19 pm

Ok last year i liked this guy Matt but i stopped likeing him towards the end of the year but now i keep having dreams about him sounds weird i know but i dont know why i'm dreaming about him because when i have dreams i dont dream about the guys i like i dont even dream alot but the past few night i've been having dreams about him and i dont know why does anybody know?

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Is this doing TOO MUCH?


Posted Sunday September 23 2007, 12:07 pm

I don't usually look on myspace for guys but anyways...
I was talking to my friend and I lookd at her top and there it was.... a cutie pie! I asked her about him and she said he's really sweet AND just got out of a relationship AND it was bad. *His gf slept with his best friend!* So I backed off. About two months later I noticed my play cousin knew him so I told her to HOOK me up! She said that he said he was going to look at my page. But my cousin went out of town and didn't have service for about a week. She called him & he said she was irritating him (she can be) so he hung up....... he sends out bulletins saying to IM him and leaves his screen name. Would it be doing too much if I instant messaged him? I don't usually do ...

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Bad Kisser


Posted Sunday September 23 2007, 11:47 am

Last night I was hanging out with this guy and I really was starting to like him. We've been pretty good friends the past couple of years but we've been hanging out alot more recently. We were laying in my bed then starting kissing... he's a horrible kisser. I'm not really sure what my question is. That just really threw me off and I'm all confused now. I really liked him but does anyone agree with me that being a good kisser is kind of a big deal? I'm not sure how I feel anymore or about what to do. We're both 15, turning 16 in a couple of months.

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hook ups and relationships.


Posted Sunday September 23 2007, 11:35 am

15/f hello...well, recently in class, the people around me and I were discussing relationships. and then somehow...it got to "hookups." what's the difference? and also..how come when I told people that I've never had a hookup, their reaction was "O_O" lol...? are hookups considered bad or something? thank you in advance [=

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abusive guys - question


Posted Sunday September 23 2007, 3:04 am

okay i already asked a question about this before, but now i have another question. the other day when my bf and i were fighting he grabbed me and started shaking me. so my mom is like totally freaking out about it. she says if he's doing this at 13, its just gonna get worse and he's gonna end up being an abusive wife beater. but my dad says the opposite. he says that my bf is just immature now and hasn't learned how to control his temper, but he'll probably learn how as he gets older. (its not like my parents think we're gonna get married or anything... they're just talking about it in general). so who do you think is right? is this a sign that he's gonna get worse, or is he just immature and he'll get better? and btw he does get ...

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Dealing with losses of every kind.


Posted Saturday September 22 2007, 11:11 pm

In one day .. I lost my best friend to her old drinking habits with the wrong crowd, my boyfriend of eighth months and I broke up, and my grandma died. I feel so alone, my boyfriend moved on in one day. He claims he still loves me, but he's already asked another girl to the dance. He finds every way to rub it in my face. I try not to let it get to me but its so hard. I think about him all the time, despite the fact I'm the one that called it quits after months of emotional abuse. Why is it that he was the one that made my life miserable, and he's getting the happy ending? How do I get over this and become happy again?

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Coping w/ Rejection


Posted Saturday September 22 2007, 9:22 pm

I'm 22 years old. I reunited w/ my old high school crush after 6 years. He never knew I liked him because I was his exgirlfriend's friend. I hated how she treated him. He was such a nice down to earth guy. When I saw him recently he still seemed like that same guy. We got drunk & ended up having mind blowing sex. The next day we were laid back (both had a hang over) we went to the movies & spent as much time as we could before he had to drive back home. I was curious to know what was going to happen after he left, so I asked. He then asked me what I wanted, I was honest. I mentioned that I wouldn't mind trying to have a long distance relationship. Mind you, there's an hour distance between us. He seemed comfortable w/ the idea. I di...

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GUYz..ENOUGH SAID PlEASE HElP


Posted Saturday September 22 2007, 7:37 pm

ok let me start by saying i am a freshman
and of course i have a huge crush on this guy name cameron and he i think he likes me and he is older den by i think he is a junior but anyways i talk to him everyday and he is so sweet but the problem is he is going to his ex girlfriend's homecoming wit her(she goes to a different school)..and its basicallly killing me inside but what can i do he is not my boyfriend but he always flirts with me but i dont want anything to do with him if he still has feelings for his ex
PLEASE HELP!

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He was hurting me, what should i do?


Posted Saturday September 22 2007, 7:34 pm

ok well the other night me and my bf were in a fight and he got really mad and grabbed my arms and started shaking me. i yelled at him to stop and he did, and then later we worked out what we were fighting about. but anyway. i told my mom about it and she said i shouldve left right then and told him if he ever did anything like that again it would be over. and she still wants me to tell him that, and ya i know shes right. but now i feel weird about bringing it up cuz it happened a few days ago and everythings fine now. so do you think i should still say something about it? and how should i bring it up? or should i just wait and see if it ever happens again and then tell him that? we've been together for 2 years and thats the first time hes ever done something like that.

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Am I a needy girlfriend?!


Posted Saturday September 22 2007, 7:18 pm

A couple of weeks ago I noticed a change in my bf's behavior... he started acting like my affection was bothering him, and it felt like he was avoiding me. When we were together he was silent or he would talk about stupid unimportant things, as if we couldn't have a meaningful conversation anymore. He was so distant, but every time I asked him what was wrong and why he was acting differently, he would go mad and say that I was creating problems when there were none. So I broke up with him, and it was a hard decision. I thought he lost interest in me and I didn't want to be a burden. But ever since he's been telling me that his feelings for me haven't changed. Actually that's what he says, but he's still acting weird. And when I told him tha...

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I am curious about your love life!?


Posted Saturday September 22 2007, 6:18 pm

I want to ask you all, (it doesn’t matter if you are straight or gay whatever) please share with me.

I want to know have you been or right now in a relationship with your best friend? How long have you been in the relationship or when did you break up? Were they your first (sex)? Were you nervous and/or giggling when you to shared the first kiss? If you broke up are you still friends? Please share with me because right now I MIGHT be in a relationship with a friend.


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what did I do?


Posted Saturday September 22 2007, 6:04 pm

So I've been with my boyfriend on and off now for almost five months. Lately though he's been acting really .. off.
I don't really know how to explain it. Like usually he's really funny and sarcastic and he used to call me every night.
But for maybe the past two weeks, he barely talks when I see him, he's hitting the ignore button when I call him, and he won't tell me what's wrong!
The "I'm tired" excuse isn't flying anymore because I know that's not it. And I've been bugging him about what's up but he refuses to tell me. I don't know if it's something I've done or what. Because honestly, there's only one thing that I can think of that he could be upset about.
This guy who's a junior keeps flirting with...

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Whats wrong with him?


Posted Saturday September 22 2007, 5:38 pm

im a little confues. I talk to this guy at school and i really like him we talk every day and hes just real cool. The problem is that ive been crazy in lobe(yes with a b) with my best guy friend around my way. He has a girlfriend but hes says hes just waiting for the right girl. Sometime trying to say me. Any way I tell him everything even about the boy in school (we go to differnt schools). everytime i talk about him he gets all lovey dubby with me and just hugs too much. I told him i loved the guys eyes at school cause the were green, and the next day he wore hazle contacs. Its funny thow cause i mean I know how he is and i dont wana say my feels twords him because i dont wanna mess up our friendship, because everytime i say that the boy ...

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