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Could he be trying to make me jealous?


Question Posted Sunday September 23 2007, 3:27 pm

Idk about this kid anymore (he's a sort of ex), but here's the situation.

All I wanted to do was the talk to him (I told a friend to tell him to call me, since I have no classes with him), and he was like "No..she's going to ask me to homecoming".

After he said that, I was just irritated, and said "You know what? Screw you, jackass. Just so you know, I have a boyfriend, and I'm already going to homecoming with someone. I just wanted to talk to you."

According to my friend, he was really shocked and he acts all awkward around me now, but whatever.

Now, I hear that he admitted to liking this girl that's been, like, stalking him. i mean, she's a nice girl and all, but anyone with a brain can tell that he doesn't like her.

But anyways, he admitted to liking the girl to one of my best friends (the same best friend who told him to call me)

Is he trying to make me jealous? I know full well that he doesn't like this girl. About a year ago, he supposedly told her "I used to like you, but not anymore". He looks hella bored when she tries talking to him. Yet, he is apparently going around telling people he likes her, and has convinced my best friends that he does like her.

But I don't believe it at all. This girl has liked him for two years, and he's known that. It just seems odd to me.

Your thoughts?


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Razhie answered Tuesday September 25 2007, 8:43 am:
Why does it matter? At all.

He is obviously a bit confused, doesn't seem to want to talk to you, and it doesn't sound like you much want to talk to him.

It doesn't matter what the hell he feels for her, or for you, or what his motivations are. You have a boyfriend. You've moved on. Ignore him.

Stop letting him, and your friends, get you caught up in totally pointless drama.

You can never really know what he feels, and it's his life, he can do whatever he wants with it. Just let it go.

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iammow answered Tuesday September 25 2007, 2:55 am:
3 things....:
One, I totally disagree with that first 'make him jelous back' comment. What are we, in grade school??
Secondly, he may actually like her but you can't really see because your too into the whole you and him thing. He may actually have moved on... If so, just accept it, because you have moved on as well.
And third, if he HASN'T moved on and is actually lying, its because he was hurt you were so blunt with him. It was something he wasn't expecting you to tell him, and he was expecting to have the upper hand. Since you put him in his place he has a bit of a bruised ego, and you know guys-they have to act tough and pretend they don't care. This shows he does. If he's pulling this, he's taking the easiest target (a.k.a. Miss.Obsessive-Pants) and using her to cover the truth. He's telling everyone he likes her because he knows it will get back to you and he doesn't want to pull the whole 'tell you off' thing, because you already did. He'd just feel lame telling you right back off because he knows it would show your right and that it hurt him. He doesn't want that. Ah... Hope any of my ranting made sense. Lol.

Goodluck.

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luvbug555 answered Tuesday September 25 2007, 12:59 am:
Hes soo trying2 make u jelous!! Make him jelous back!!! If hes gnna play that way, get him double

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babiiesarah07 answered Tuesday September 25 2007, 12:17 am:
hey,
okay some boys get weird trying to talk to you especially when you have a boyfriend and when there your ex-boyfriend!
maybe instead of ignoreing this problem you try to talk to whether if its in peron,on the phone,or even myspace!
because i'm thinking that he doesn't like that other girl and maybe he does still have feelings for you but he just doesn't want to tell you!
hope i helped!
love sarah!

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