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Coping w/ Rejection
I'm 22 years old. I reunited w/ my old high school crush after 6 years. He never knew I liked him because I was his exgirlfriend's friend. I hated how she treated him. He was such a nice down to earth guy. When I saw him recently he still seemed like that same guy. We got drunk & ended up having mind blowing sex. The next day we were laid back (both had a hang over) we went to the movies & spent as much time as we could before he had to drive back home. I was curious to know what was going to happen after he left, so I asked. He then asked me what I wanted, I was honest. I mentioned that I wouldn't mind trying to have a long distance relationship. Mind you, there's an hour distance between us. He seemed comfortable w/ the idea. I didn't pick up on any akward vibes from him. That was a month ago when this all happened. I haven't heard from him at all. I'm feeling completely rejected. I've made an effort to calling him, left a couple of voice messages "Hey call me back when you have a chance". I even sent him a myspace message asking him if everything is alright. It's evident to me that he's ignoring me on purpose. What the hell happened? He was the last guy that I would have guessed wanted a one night stand. I'm wondering if his behaviour has anything to do w/ the fact that he's been hurt a few times in his past. I know that his exgirlfriend cheated on him as well as his exwife. I don't know what to do exactly. He was in the Navy as well & my friend commented that it's quite common behaviour for military men to just throw themselves in work & not pay attention to anyone else. I feel that if I saw him again I'd kick his ass. I don't know what the best way to go about this. I feel used. I shouldn't feel like this!
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My husband was in the military and he threw himself into his work and forgot everything while he was. He might just not know what he wants, he might be a little paranoid & not be able to trust, because the same thing happened to my husband. Give him some space, if he wants to come to you he will. If he did use you, then that's his loss, and he'll pay for it in one way or another.
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