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what did I do?
So I've been with my boyfriend on and off now for almost five months. Lately though he's been acting really .. off.
I don't really know how to explain it. Like usually he's really funny and sarcastic and he used to call me every night.
But for maybe the past two weeks, he barely talks when I see him, he's hitting the ignore button when I call him, and he won't tell me what's wrong!
The "I'm tired" excuse isn't flying anymore because I know that's not it. And I've been bugging him about what's up but he refuses to tell me. I don't know if it's something I've done or what. Because honestly, there's only one thing that I can think of that he could be upset about.
This guy who's a junior keeps flirting with me and being really touchy feely whenever I'm around him, but my boyfriend KNOWS that I love him. We've been through so much together, I don't believe he could doubt the way I feel for him.
What should I do? I don't want to pry into his life, but I hate seeing him upset. :(
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I honestly, don't think your boyfriends upset. I think he doesn't like you anymore. I've had like 5476547437 billion relationships before, and thats how it ends. I mean even I do it. you just kinda start to ignore them, little things they do bug you, you just get sick of them. Its not you guys are like gonna be with eachother forever. i just think you should both move on. and it seems that other guy already likes you.
boys don't usually get jealous over that stuff. i even tried it on guys before. lol and they even told me, that they know where they stand. guys usually are very confident. ATLEAST the ones i have dated.
however. i dont know you. or your boyfriend. so i could be wrong. maybe he has very little confidence ,and he is jeaous. if you think thats the case, then just tell him that you really care about him, and that you see soemthings wrong between you too. and if he could please tell you what it is. do it in person. he cant like hang up on you or anytihng. he'll have to be honest with you.
so yeah, its up to you to decide how he is.
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Don't bug him about it. When he wants to talk to you he will. He probably IS tired, he would probably have enough brains to say some other excuse if he were ignoring you. That junior needs to back off you and know you have a boyfriend. And you need to tell him that and show him / let him know. He's not going to back off unless you tell him. If he doesn't stop, go to the principal about harrasment; yes. That's harrasment, it might seem childish, but if anything it will show your boyfriend you don't like this guy :D
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maybe he is just tired. and knowing that this guy i realy flirty bothers him. give him some space. when hes ready to talk to you he will honey. be more patient though. (:
i'm sure it's not your falut. maybe he's just going thru a rough patch right now with school
and everything. good luck, godbless.
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