ok well i used to have this boyfriend.. we broke up last december.. and we were friends since we broke up and we were fine in the summer.. now since schools started, hes been really mean to me and i have no clue why.. i didnt do anything that would make him feel so angrey at me.. the only thing that i can think of is the way i dress now?? i mean i dress kind of punk//rock now,, but i dont know.. not being some ones friend just because of the way they dress?? thats pathetic..
thelaura answered Tuesday September 25 2007, 10:15 am: Are you sure you haven't done/said anything which may have offended him? You may not necessarily have meant it, but he could have taken something the wrong way.
You never know, it could be the way you dress. Yes, it is pathetic.. perhaps he doesn't like it or wondered why you changed all of a sudden?
It's impossible to tell.
If I were you, I'd ask him. Don't be scared. You have a reason to know.
If he carries on and hasn't got a reason, he's not worth your time. Just ignore him. [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
skylalou_1 answered Tuesday September 25 2007, 8:13 am: i don't know..that is mean though. maybe you should just bluntly go up and ask him why he treats you the way he does now.. if it is because of the way you dress, that is kinda pathetic. b/c if you didn't do anything for him to treat you that way, then he shouldn't do that to you. but if he continues to do that, then I wouldn't worry about him b/c he's just being a jerk. but, i really do hope ya can patch things up between each other..so just talk to him about it .. hope I helped * Skyla * [ skylalou_1's advice column | Ask skylalou_1 A Question ]
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