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boy problem!!!
ok so im eighteen years old and ive probably only had 4 boyfriends, but they werent even serious.
and i've had sex once.
im a timid girl and whenever im with a boy i like, i cant seem to make the first move, but i really want to.
what are some pointers i can have to make me come out of my shell?
and how do i know if im doing a certain move the right way?
i dont want to suck at it! ahh please help!!!!!
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Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
So since this is a very open-ended question, I have to ask:
What is the goal here, and what first move are you trying to set?
Are we talking about sex, asking out a boy, kissing/making out, flirting, being more confident with yourself or all of this, or D all of the above?
I think humor is what boys most love in girls besides. intellegence. You have to be able to be free-spirited, fun loving, and be comfortable in your own skin. A while ago I read that people are more attracted to confident people and started thinking about the people I hang around with. I noticed that it was so true... People can really see that light inside. So if you want to impress someone else you have to work on yourself first. That's one of the biggest and best things I can think of for you to shed your shell. Get through those layers of fear and find the you that's waiting to be exposed.
As Elenor Rosevelt said "Do one thing every day that scares you"
Goodluck.
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