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I think I'm seriously being used
Posted Saturday October 20 2007, 3:59 pm
Ok, so, a few days ago, my boyfriend tried to finger me, but it didn't work, which is good, because I didn't really want it too. And like, he really wants to have sex, but I'm not ready. Well, apparently, he told people he fingered me and stuff. I feel like he's using me to be able to tell his friends "oh my god i did this with a chick!" or something. Like, lets say we had sex. What if he told people? They're already thinking Im a slut, which Im not. I'm like, really shy, and I don't "confront" people, I guess you could say. what do I do? It's killing me.
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I need advice. . .
Posted Saturday October 20 2007, 3:27 pm
I need to know if i'm in over my head. I have this boyfriend, that I love very much. But there's a problem. When he's not around, like going to a friend's house. I like freak out. I start crying for a long time. and I call him as soon as he leave's. I didn't want him to go. But the day after that I left and spent the night over my cousin's house. and I felt bad about going some where. and not letting him go any where. He went but he came back and got me, and I went will him. Is that bad? I can't do anything without him. That I can't be away from him for a day. I don't know what to do. I'm losing my mind. What do ya'll think?
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What am i going to do about this boy
Posted Saturday October 20 2007, 3:22 pm
There is this guy that i think im in love with..we're not together anymore but i think about him alooooot..i want to be with him a little and i still like him a little. but he has a habit of flirting alot and talking(trying to get with) other girls..sometimes it makes me sad but i dont say nothing to him about it. He was trying to get back wit me a while ago but he also was wanting to hook up with other girls to..but i havent asked him why he did that. on his birthday i kissed him n he pretended he wanted me back but i dont know...and he asked me to type a paper cause he doenst have a computer i did it and then he wanted to make out but didnt talk to me a couple days after...i dont noe wat to do i want to move on but im lonely and miss him being my boyfriend..but he hurts me soo bad
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love triangle
Posted Saturday October 20 2007, 3:00 pm
okay. so this is a long story but theres a point!
soo. my friend isnt really being a friend and shes moving at the end of the year.. well i kinda like this guy and she just thought he was alright and the next thing i knew they were talking and she was saying stuff like i didnt know him like she did and they really like eachother and all this other stuff.. now theyre not talking anymore because they got in a stupid fight and they dont evn say hey or anything and i really want to get to know him but idk what to say.. he doesnt know i like him and she doesnt know either.. were total opposites-- hes in a metal band and im a Varsity basketball cheerleader-- i dont know what to say to him.. what should i talk about.. i mean its not...
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i like someone but i dont kno if he likes me
Posted Saturday October 20 2007, 2:41 pm
i used to be friends with someone and now he says we are friends but i cant talk to him on the computer and everyone says that he likes me but i dont think so but everytime i pass him in the hall he always looks at me and he talks to his friends about me i dont know if its good or bad though and if i go up to him and try to talk to him he always says in a rushed way i got to go ok, i got to football practice. and he doesnt play football any more.
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Should I give up?
Posted Saturday October 20 2007, 12:42 pm
I have been hanging out with this guy. The first night we hung out it made the moves on me and we hooked up. I didn't plan on that happening cuz that is kind of whoreish but whatever.. anyway we kept hanging out and it seems like every time we hang out we have sex. He says that he really likes me i had a feeling he was just using me but he says that he really likes me so whatever. He said that we would date but I'm too young.. we are like 7 years apart. I really like him but if we cant date for 3 years idk if i should stop messing around with him and just be friends i've tried that but i can never stick it out. I get jealous when he talks to other girls like he talks to a lot of girls he lives in a college town and goes to parties. He has ...
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I have just realized my boyfriend has been abusing me, Menta
Posted Saturday October 20 2007, 12:35 pm
I met my boyfriend about a year and 5 months ago.
I needed a place to stay as my family is 5000 km's away from me and i have no friends or family here.
So i moved in as a roomate.Then we started to have sex and after a while we were a couple.
Lasy year in Novembe i was raped, and at this time i was such a mess from the rape and still am.
My boyfriend, was careing and helped me do everything as i was to afraid to even let my dogs out for the longest time.
Now that i am getting better as this rape happend 11 1/2 months ago, I have cleared my head AND I CAN NOT BELIVE THAT I WAS So STUOID TO HAVE NOT HAVE SEEN WHAT HE WAS AND IS DOING TO ME.
Before he used to tell me nice things hug me.
Now all ...
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orgast
Posted Saturday October 20 2007, 12:14 pm
how can you tell if a girl is having an orgasm? and how do you help her get one?
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Was I a Joke to him?
Posted Saturday October 20 2007, 9:34 am
I'm in 10th grade, 15/f & we'll call him Joe. Joe is in 11th grade, 16/m.
Background on Joe: He's very sweet,nice,caring, and a cheery person. 2 things that he does that note that he REALLY likes the girl are: talk about her a lot to everyone & leave a [(Name of girl) <3] on his away msg even if he is not going out with them.
Long story short: Joe told me that he really likes me a lot & he kissed me at homecoming that was on 10/6. I heard from random people that he really likes me and that he's been talking a whole freaking a lot about me, many times from my best friend who is also his best friend. My bff also told me that he wanted to ask me out but only if he knew I was going to say yes. I lik...
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good ways to meet good guys.
Posted Saturday October 20 2007, 1:52 am
20fcanada.
lately my love life has been a complete mess.
ive never been 'single and looking' before in my life... so now i find myself alone in a new city with very few friends and i was wondering if anyone had good ideas on ways to meet quality guys?
(i work at a lingerie shop, so i dont have the chance to meet guys at work, and im taking some sewing/fashion classes... again, no -straight-guys )
Thanks. xo
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boyfriend
Posted Saturday October 20 2007, 12:25 am
my boyfriend, logan, seems to not like me as much as he did when we wernt going out. all of his friends say that to me. im really good friends with all of his best friends. and today, his friend philip, said that he didnt think he liked me that much anymore. and even clarissa said it( my bff )
i want to ask him whats up and talk to him about it, but im to afraid that he will get mad at me. cause he gets mad at me alot! please give me advice!
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Should I ??
Posted Saturday October 20 2007, 12:16 am
my friend used to go out with this really cute guy. she likes to flirt, && i guess she flirted a little too much, so they broke up. they don't talk anymore && got in an arguement. i think it's been over a month, && he's trying to talk to me. at first he requested me as a friend on myspace,&& he messaged me. he told me that he liked me, && asked me for my number. we started talking && realized that we had a lot in common && he asked me out. i don't think it would be right for me to go wit my friend's ex, even though she did him wrong...he likes me && i like him too. should i go out with him ??
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seeeeex
Posted Friday October 19 2007, 11:53 pm
heyy. so im in highschool 10th grade
having sex.. blah blah blah..
well i dont know how experienced you are or what ever. but i dont know what to do when i am on top.. like i need advisse.. some help please. if you know anything about this subject, i would really appreciate it if you could help me! thank you so much! your awesome
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he was my other half
Posted Friday October 19 2007, 11:08 pm
I'm having a difficult time dealing with a horrible breakup. It happened over time so it wasn't a quick heartbreak; more slow and painful. I lost my motivation for school and basically for life. My biggest fear is not being able to find someone better. I'd describe him as my perfect type and irreplaceable. How do I deal with this? It feels like I lost a huge part of myself that I can't get back. (F/19)
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letter for the soldier who is currently deploy in Iraq.
Posted Friday October 19 2007, 11:07 pm
Alright,my problem is very simple.
My boyfriend is currently deploy in Iraq and I got a letter from him yesterday.Everything's fine with him.I want to write back a letter for him but right now I live in different state,different place.My question is should I have to go to the post office if i want to send him a letter or can i use my regular mail-box?And what kind of stamp i have to use?I really want to know cuz i can't wait to write a letter to him cuz I sure he will be waiting for my letter.And i'm not a native speaker so if you find something weird grammer in my question...please forgive me and answer my question.Thanks...so much!
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He is absolutely amazing...but I can't have him...
Posted Friday October 19 2007, 11:00 pm
Ok so there is this guy that I really like and I hang out with him a lot...But he has a girlfriend?... and well I spend more time with him than she does and yeah I really don't think she knows how good she has it with this guy!!! He is truly amazing!!! He plays the guitar, does motor cross and he is a life guard and like a million other things and I don't know what it is about him that gets me but I absolutely love everything about him!!! His smile and the way he teases me about the stupid things I do...Ahh I just don't know what to do because he has a girlfriend and I would never break up them...any couple...I really need some help with this one?...
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relationships make me nervous
Posted Friday October 19 2007, 9:33 pm
so this me and my guy friend roger, have been hangin out alot. and he really likes me. and i like him to, but relationships make me nervous. so i have been reluctant to date him, even though he's asked. and i want to, i just in the past have second guessed saying yes and turned around and dumped the person. i dont wanna do this to roger.
and it's not that i dont like roger, but part of me is confused too because this kid laun that i work with has been hangin out with me randomly. like showing up at my house and suprising me and hes really funny, and last time he was here, and he held my hand. and i think its dangerous for me to bearound laun cus i could see him ruining things, but i like his company.
so...
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almost 15 and I havent had a boyfriend
Posted Friday October 19 2007, 9:02 pm
Hi Im almost 15 and I havent had aboyfriend yet it may be becuz I am fat but I was wondering if I willl ever have one I feel so lonely and confused That all my friends have had one and I havent!!
plzzzz tell me why im so unwanted!
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My boyfriend enlisted in the army..
Posted Friday October 19 2007, 6:17 pm
so for starters im 17. My boyfriend left about july 10th to basic training, i wrote him for about a month and a half and he never replied back, i missed him like crazy. He got back about 10 days ago he didnt call he didnt message me or anything. My friend said she had talked to him, and he seemed really happy. So i had her ask him what his problem was, and she said that he said that he never got any letters so he thought i moved on... so i finally talked to him and now he says that he doesnt want me to worry about him all the time, and always having to wonder when the next time we would talk... so he said we should just be friends..but i was like how can you be friends with someone who you were absolutely in love with. i dont know what to d...
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does she like me and should i say something to her no matter
Posted Friday October 19 2007, 5:38 pm
ok well theres this girl i like and she knows i do but i dont know if she likes me well looks at me almost as much as i look at her and she smiles at me and she does look nervous and just latley she had to take a test in my homeroom for my homeroom teacher and she sat 2 seats behind me the other one was already tooken by someone probaly but i try to say something but im just not sure what to say
i think she does like me but how do i talk to her more cause this year we have no classes together last year we did
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