soo. my friend isnt really being a friend and shes moving at the end of the year.. well i kinda like this guy and she just thought he was alright and the next thing i knew they were talking and she was saying stuff like i didnt know him like she did and they really like eachother and all this other stuff.. now theyre not talking anymore because they got in a stupid fight and they dont evn say hey or anything and i really want to get to know him but idk what to say.. he doesnt know i like him and she doesnt know either.. were total opposites-- hes in a metal band and im a Varsity basketball cheerleader-- i dont know what to say to him.. what should i talk about.. i mean its not like he likes me.. i feel like im invisible to him.. give me some ideas please because hell be on i/m in a while and i really want to talk to him and really do get to know him and prove her wrong..
Additional info, added Sunday October 21 2007, 1:32 am:
okay so now my friend and i are better but she still doesnt know that i like him... but i was talking to him for a long time and we had a good convo.. then everything was ruined. she knew i was talking to him so she started talking to him and h stopped talking me and started having an attitude so i stopped talking to him and she had to add every detail that he says.. :(
but if you could care less about keeping in touch with her(outa sight outa mind) then tell your 'friend' and take your time and be yourself and let fate unfold, as for stuff to talk about math class, colleges, football, military and how often does he do things for the people in his life this will help in knowing what type of person he is! good luck:) [ honest2t's advice column | Ask honest2t A Question ]
teardrops7 answered Sunday October 21 2007, 9:46 am: okay okay calm down.. all i can say is be his friend first, lover second,,,your friend likes him and he likes her-you gotta respect that or he wont respect you..just talk to him like a normal person, like he has been your friends for years, and so what if you dont got nothing in common talk to him and find somethin..whether it be lil or big it is still a foundation for the frame of the house. you just got to build the house peice by peice...hope i helped
xoxo
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