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I need advice. . .
I need to know if i'm in over my head. I have this boyfriend, that I love very much. But there's a problem. When he's not around, like going to a friend's house. I like freak out. I start crying for a long time. and I call him as soon as he leave's. I didn't want him to go. But the day after that I left and spent the night over my cousin's house. and I felt bad about going some where. and not letting him go any where. He went but he came back and got me, and I went will him. Is that bad? I can't do anything without him. That I can't be away from him for a day. I don't know what to do. I'm losing my mind. What do ya'll think?
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I don't know how long you've been with the guy, but don't confuse that with love, that's just obsession. Serious attachment like that can't be healthy for the relationship. Unless he's that kinda guy, i'd be careful about being so clingy. Just remember that you were brought into this world alone, and that's the same you're leaving, so while you're here you don't vitally NEED anyone to survive. But that's just my opinion...
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i think you might be emotinally unstable. im not sure what caused this but you should first find out why you cant go one day without him---it could be your not getting the love you need from your family---youve never had a bf treat you good and you might blame yourself so your doin everything to make sure this one works! im not saying any of these are the reasons but just think about them! i think what you need to do is take time away from him! being to clingy can scare him away and i know you dont want to loose him! one thing a guy treauseres is his privacy and personal space like a woman does also and when woman start interfearing with that they get upset! i know being away from him will be extremely hard mentally and maybe physically for you but you have to learn that he isnt going to be able to be with you every second of everyday and once you learn that youll be much better off! hope this helped! best of luck!
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