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I think I'm seriously being used
Ok, so, a few days ago, my boyfriend tried to finger me, but it didn't work, which is good, because I didn't really want it too. And like, he really wants to have sex, but I'm not ready. Well, apparently, he told people he fingered me and stuff. I feel like he's using me to be able to tell his friends "oh my god i did this with a chick!" or something. Like, lets say we had sex. What if he told people? They're already thinking Im a slut, which Im not. I'm like, really shy, and I don't "confront" people, I guess you could say. what do I do? It's killing me.
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He's obviously the "get nowhere but lie & say you did anyways" type.
Dump him. He'll say a whole bunch of shit & ruin your rep. Slander is bad & will get you nowhere, darling.
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break up with him and forget him. he's stupid, and no guy should do that. that's horrible. i pretty sure that if he were to have sex with you, he would blab to his friends. And you don't need that, so please, break up with him.
if you need any more advice or more of what I think on this feel free to talk to me
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OMG break up with him right now! It's not right AT ALL for him to be making up these stories about what you and him did...especially when you didnt do anything (even if you did do it, it doesnt give him the right to tell people). You can't trust a guy like that, he should respect you, and he should also respect your boundaries. If you're not ready to go farther...then don't, its as simple as that. There is no law that says that you have to get to a certain point with a guy before a certain age...its whatever YOU are comfortable with....i know its tough with peer presure and such...it sucks, i'm going through it to, but at the end of the day, you are the only person that has to live with what you do and you might as well do what makes you proud of yourself, because 20 years from now, it wont matter what your "friends" think of you, it will only matter what you think of yourself.
Good Luck.
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