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almost 15 and I havent had a boyfriend
Hi Im almost 15 and I havent had aboyfriend yet it may be becuz I am fat but I was wondering if I willl ever have one I feel so lonely and confused That all my friends have had one and I havent!!
plzzzz tell me why im so unwanted!
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I let my younger sister with the same problem answer this, and here's what she wrote:
Don't worry, a boyfriend will be walking through your door soon.Just let the boys think "wow,look how confidant she is!". Only the right guy will exept your weight. Don't rush it,let them all know that you're alright with your weight.Also just think that some guys are going through the same problem.
--in addition to what she said, I have something to add... You have to be happy with yourself first before someone else can be happy with you. If YOU think you're fat, work out a bit, but if you're okay with what you look like then you just need someone who loves you for who you are and who you are inside. There is no rush to be in a relationship.
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As cliche as this may sound, other people can't love you until you love yourself. Maybe guys notice your lack of self esteem, and most guys see that as a turn off. So gain confidence, maybe run a couple laps or eat healthier, you'll feel amazing about yourself, and you'll look great.
good luck.
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Not everyone judges people by their looks,i know allot of people who haven't had a bf or gf until they were 17 so don't worry so much you will have one and if you think your fat i cant say if you are or not cause i don;t know what you look like maybe you should try to lose weight if you want to but people dont judge others by their looks don't worry so much. =]
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I didn't have one (girlfriend) until I was 19. Sometimes things just don't happen fast. If you feel lonely, you should try to just make some more friends, that's how you end up knowing people and meeting really special ones who you want to go out with/want to go out with you.
Also, you say "I am fat" in your question. I'm not saying that you are, or are not, because I don't know, however you making that statement gives me the impression that you personally think this is a detriment that would make guys not want to go out with you. There are two ways around that; find a guy who doesn't care about extra weight, and don't be shy because of it, because that's how you end up not getting to know people; or, try to lose it.
Not having a boyfriend or a girlfriend isn't particularly about being wanted or not, it's about finding someone who matches you. Sometimes that's trickier than it sounds, especially if you're as strange as I am ^_^.
Good luck
-K
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You are young and you have many years ahead of you. I'm sure you'll get a boyfriend eventually.
I can't really tell you why you haven't had one yet since I don't know you.
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