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good ways to meet good guys.
20fcanada.
lately my love life has been a complete mess.
ive never been 'single and looking' before in my life... so now i find myself alone in a new city with very few friends and i was wondering if anyone had good ideas on ways to meet quality guys?
(i work at a lingerie shop, so i dont have the chance to meet guys at work, and im taking some sewing/fashion classes... again, no -straight-guys )
Thanks. xo
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The last thing you want to do is try the bar scene. That is a dead end, right there.
Try going to libraries, cafes, museums, etc. It sounds corny, but you are likely to meet some decent people in places where people are sober and not expecting to prey on young, drunk girls. Anywhere in public with lots of people, really.
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I was in the same situation a few years back when I moved to Atlanta from Boston. I signed up for some dancing classes. You meet some very nice, and reasonably sincere men.
Try it, if nothing else you get a good workout and keep in shape while searching for Mr. Right now.
Good luck.
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If you're in college, just spend time on campus. I have a friend who is 22 and graduated, but hes taking a few classes here and there towards his masters (like 1 a semester) while he saves money for the rest of the courses.
Going to that class gives him reasons to be on campus. Just being there increases his chances of meeting someone hes compatible with. Worked for him before.
Bars arent generally a great idea. You cant get a decent sense of someone else in a bar. Everyones got the facade on. The best people to say hi to in a bar are the ones who look like they were dragged there by a friend.
Other than that, develop a hobby. Pick something up if you dont have any social ones. People will throw out "grocery store" or "gym".
Truth is, find something you like to do that can involve strangers. You then get to meet people who have something in common with you. Sometimes all you need is a firm foundation for that first conversation.
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to meet a good guy you could join a church (ew) or a gym or even a club or bar sometimes there some good guys there and make yourself known meet new people go to partys and stuff but dont over do it and get stupid with it
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