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Posted Monday October 29 2007, 7:22 pm

you make me so hot-make me wanna drop-youre so rediculous i can barely stop...etc. from avril lavigne's 'hot' what exactly is this refering too?

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Birthday Present


Posted Monday October 29 2007, 6:42 pm

Hey im 16 and my boyfriend is 17 turning 18 ( We've been going out for 8 months almost 9) , and i really dont know what to get him for his birthday. Anyone have any idea.. please dont say "get him something he likes" because it really doesnt help me =[ im soo stuck. I want to get him something that a guy dreams of getting from his girlfriend.. ya know .. ( GUYS opinions appreciated ) also anyone whose in a relationship or past that gave an awesome birthday present, please shareee =]...


Thanks :)

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very long distance love


Posted Monday October 29 2007, 6:26 pm

16/f
i've fallen in love with the foreign exchange student. he's from france, he's a senior and i'm junior in high school. he came in august and was staying with a friend of mine so i got to know him pretty well. he was in my gym class too. anyway he's only staying until he graduates and then he's going back to france. we kissed over the summer and have talked about a relationship but we're really not sure if it's worth it or not. he's so sweet but if we get into a relationship and it really works out and then he moves back to france we're both going to be heartbroken and devestated. i love france and i've been there before but it's a completely different country! how do i handle this?

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so... this boy


Posted Monday October 29 2007, 5:34 pm

so im basically in love with this boy and hes is honestly absolutly amazing he is my world<333 but im tired of always having to be the one to do things, im starting to feel like im their for his ego which sucks, he tells me he loves me, that he isnt exactly sure what love is and he isnt sure if this is it or just a huge highschool crush but he has nvr felt this way about anyone. for a while we were dating until he broke it off cause he didnt want a relation ship or a build up to one he still doesnt, but we are dating again,and i dnt know at first he was like i think about you all the time and i cant get you off my mind i just cant stop thinking about you, and he would send me text messages but, now its like i have to be the one to talk t...

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myspace relationship and bad friends


Posted Monday October 29 2007, 4:43 pm

so i started school this year at a big highschool, and i've been making a lot of new friends and stuff. and i usually add people on myspace that i've seen at school to extend the circle.
so i added this one guy kevin, because a few of my friends are friends with him and i figured "why not". but we've been talking a lot and now i think that i might like him. the only problem is we're both REALLY shy so we barely ever talk in person. we flirt alot and stuff, but just on myspace. i know, gay.
and if i ever told my friends who know him they'd automatically tell him and make it really awkward, even if they promise they won't.
so now, my friend katie added him and now she's flirting with him A TON and it's so annoy...

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welll


Posted Monday October 29 2007, 4:07 pm

well, a few monhs ago i broke up with my boyfriend, and we had told each other that we loved each other and i really did mean it, i wouldn't just say something like that, but he had said it to other girls and hadnt meant it, but this weekend we were hanging out and i asked him if he did mean it and he said yeah i was his first love, but four days after we broke up he started going out with another girl and now theyre been going out for 3 months or so and he says that he loves her now. do you think its possible for him to love her now even though just three months ago he claimed that he loved me?

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There's this popular guy......


Posted Monday October 29 2007, 3:07 pm

O.k well this guy I like is kind of in the popular crowd. Like alot of the really popular guys talk to him. I try to stay in the middle so I'm not known to well so my name stays away from rumers. Anyway I like him and I think he likes me too. I want to ask him to be my bf, but I'm afraid that he will laugh in my face like he was dared or somethin cuz him and hiz friends do that alot. I think he really does like me thou because We are always joking and laughin and we sit together in all my classes. One time during a silent project he chunked a dictionary at my leg so I threw it back. We laughed. Another time my teacher asked his friend to write names on the board and he hates me so he wrote my name on there. He said NO erase it! So he did. H...

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Jealousy


Posted Monday October 29 2007, 1:14 pm

15/f

I really need help to overcome my jealousy problems or I think it's going to ruin my relationship.
My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 6 months now and we really love eachother. But both of us have some problems with jealousy. He's not comfortable with me talking to other guys, just as I'm not comfortable with him talking to other girls. I don't know why I don't like it.. I know he loves me, but I'm always afraid that he may be attracted to someone else. He's very good looking and I think that may have something to do with it. I'm afaid just any girl could try and take him. I'm afraid that when I'm not around that he may be checking other girls out or talking about other girls with his football budd...

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How do I stop thinking about him with another girl?!


Posted Monday October 29 2007, 9:17 am

I've just broke up with my boyfriend and it's official it's over. I don't want him to get with another girl but obviously it's inevitable he will. I just can't stop thinking about his hands over a girl and him "doing things". I know I'm torturing myself and I feel so sick about it. I've tried keeping busy and even when I'm at work I imagine it. All I wanted was for him to care and love me and he went for no reason. I know he isn't worth it but that doesn't make love go. I know time will only do that but how do I control the girl thing? n e suggestions?

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whether to continue hoping for a relationship


Posted Monday October 29 2007, 8:39 am

hey..see i love this guy who lives 2 or so hours away from me..we used to go out but he dumped me because he couldnt handle the long distance..i was devasted and..its been 2 years but im stil not over him ,then one day he phoned me and said he wanted to be friends..but i know he has feeling for me and recently admitted he loved me..but doesnt want to form a relationsip because he feels it will be too hard...what should i do??? move on? or keep hopin?i really need advice please!!...ps i am 17 yr old girl

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OH MY GOSH HELP ME!


Posted Monday October 29 2007, 12:14 am

okay. I'm kinda freaking out right now.
let me start from the top...
on sunday the 21st of october, i started birth control for the first time. [[ One week ago ]] the Nuva Ring. and i'm supposed to wait for 1 week before having sex.
well last night my boyfriend stayed the night.. and well, we couldn't help ourselves. lol. and we had sex about 10 hours before it would be 7 days. so i waited 6 days and 14 hours... but we did use a condom. THEN this morning we did it again, in the heat of the moment, I just figured it would be fine. it had been 7 days. so we didn't use a condom [[ we were out of them anyway ]]
but i'm really nervous about the whole thing. If I get pregnant, it'll ruin both of our lives. we're only 1...

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What should i do about him?


Posted Monday October 29 2007, 12:07 am

Ok my bgf and i r super close. We know each other so well and hes like i totally know everything about you and he does know me super well. Like better than anyone else. He just gets me. And everyone says we're perfect for each other. Even his MOM was joking about it. His whole family knows me even his sister and bro who r out of college and live away. He took me to his grandparents (formal) 50th anniversary and it was like this big thing and i was his date and he took me behind back and was like holding me and stuff. that was this summer.

and we've gone through a lot with each other. and at our church (where we mostly hang together) everyone there says we r perfect for each other and always have flirted with each other even ...

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does he like me? (guys if you see this try and answer!)


Posted Sunday October 28 2007, 10:44 pm

15/f

I was at my friends halloween party saturday night when everyone decided to play suck and blow. you probably know the rules...if the paper falls you have to kiss that person. well i couldn't suck the paper right so i had to kiss this guy. after i did i sort of smiled and then he shrugged his shoulders.

it was my first kiss! the guy i had to kiss though i sort of have a crush on. he is in a couple of my classes and we talked a lot during the party and when i asked him to take a picture with me at the beginning of the party he agreed and put his arm around me and everything.

at one point i was watching this one guy do something stupid (he got dared) and i guess the guy i kissed thought i was ...

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grinding


Posted Sunday October 28 2007, 10:19 pm

15/f

I asked a question like this earlier... but my answers were not good enough. So i'm asking it again

How do you grind? (motions and where do you put your hands?) and is there any way I can practice? Thnx

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Awkward...


Posted Sunday October 28 2007, 9:25 pm

Okay, I'll try to make this short.
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I'm 15/F
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There's this guy named Taylor, he's 17 and we've always been really good friends ever since school started this year. We have two classes together; Show Choir and theatre production. Last month our choir conductor/teacher chose us to do a duet together for our next show. The whole show was kind of rockin' roll/grease themed (and he's really good singer) Anyways we got together a lot to practice and we were together a lot for rehearsal...so we got really close. He started flirting with me a lot according to other people I was flirting back? Anyway I started really liking him as more than a friend.

Yesterday at rehearsal he asked me out...and I said ye...

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How can you tell when a guy flirts with u?


Posted Sunday October 28 2007, 9:22 pm

Ok,i'm a 14/F and I'm CLUELESS when it comes to flirting!So how do u know when a guy starts flirting with u?What does he say or do?I know i sound stupid but I just dont know how the whole flirting thing goes.I know werid for a 14-year-old girl not to know when a guy starts flirting with u.So can u tell me?XP

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whats he doing?


Posted Sunday October 28 2007, 9:06 pm

okay so last year i was at a water fountain when this guy came up to me and aid " hi want to be my friend?" And so i said sure and we both walked off. I thought it was a joke really cause it was soo odd. Then we met again in theatre and i was suddenly crazy for him. We hung out and flirted and he was 17 and i was 15. So we'd hang out at after school and talk on the phone about so much stuff and sometimes he'd just call to say hi. I was just soo in love with him. and so i told him how i felt and we talked even more and he was like..." well I like....like like you." and so then we talked about kissing and we said we'd see who lasted longer. so one day i kissed him and then the next day he texted me and was like " i do...

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this boy


Posted Sunday October 28 2007, 6:57 pm

Ok so I have a "friend" who lives like 8 hours away. We've been friends but i just recently moved and now we've been talking. We are like bf/gf but not actually. He and his chick friend[she has a bf] came to my place to visit so we could go to a theme park a few weeks ago and he slept with me and she slept on the couch. And we had sex[i'm 19and he's the second person i've ever had sex with..and i'm his 3rd]. They only stayed a day and then they had to go back home. I expected that we would finally be official but he told me that he was confused and he didn't know if it would work..he's also going into the army in like a month.And then the other day we talked and he still said that he really really likes me alot but he doesn't know...

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this one girl likes my boyfriend?


Posted Sunday October 28 2007, 6:55 pm

13/f.

well last night at the fair me and my boyfriend kissed for the first time. it was really cute. btw, his name is brandon.

ANYWAYS, theres this girl. lets just say her name is alex. she says she dosnt like brandon but i think she does. heres what she does & says.

- she went over to his house.
- she used to like him.
- she calls him all the time.
- she send him pictures of her.
- she wanted to ride rides with him.
- she says hes her BESTFRIEND.

all i know if whenever i have a bestfriend thats a guy, like him a somepoint. and ive told her to back off but she hasnt really. i trust my boyfriend, so i know he wont like her back or anything. w...

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doesn't want me


Posted Sunday October 28 2007, 5:54 pm

I am in love with one of my friends. We're not best friends, but I really do love him. But the problem is, even though he's fit and tan and beautiful, he likes fat chicks. I am so sad. I am naturally thin and small-framed, and I feel pain any time I see him flirt. I can't just become something I'm not, and I feel so terrible that I can't do anything. I don't know what's wrong with him. I am beautiful, and fit and we would be perfect. But we're not because he can't see me as I want him to. What should I do?

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