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Awkward...
Okay, I'll try to make this short.
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I'm 15/F
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There's this guy named Taylor, he's 17 and we've always been really good friends ever since school started this year. We have two classes together; Show Choir and theatre production. Last month our choir conductor/teacher chose us to do a duet together for our next show. The whole show was kind of rockin' roll/grease themed (and he's really good singer) Anyways we got together a lot to practice and we were together a lot for rehearsal...so we got really close. He started flirting with me a lot according to other people I was flirting back? Anyway I started really liking him as more than a friend.
Yesterday at rehearsal he asked me out...and I said yes. The problem is he'll be my first boyfriend. Guys have asked me out before but I've never really liked any of them, and I've gone out with guys but they were never my boyfriend.
I don't know how to act around him now? How are girlfriends supposed to act? What am I supposed to do? I'm really nervous and I don't want to screw up? He's been in relationships before but I haven't...any advice? What a good girlfriend should do? What I should expect at school?
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OK don't worry about this, my boyfreind and I were best freinds before we started going out. Just be yourself, most of the time it is just like we are friends, but every now and then we talk like we are really going out, like saying how much we like each other or how we want a hug, or how we miss each other and stuff like that. THe main thing is just be yourself, he asked you our for you not for someone else.
Hope this helps,
AlyssaBT4T
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Hello ! be your self
Me and my boyfriend we're like bestfriends and lovers at the same time treat him like your bestfriend just theres kissing and other things lol but just treat him like you usually would don't be too embarrassed around him.
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Lets start with be yourself. Be cool and of coarse don't let him know he's your first boyfriend. Guys hate when girls get too attached and show it. At school, if he has a mushy girlfriend always by his side...his friends might make fun of him. Hsng out with him, but keep your distance. Hang with your friends too and eventually if it lasts long enough, your lives will merge. Don't let him get to know you too fast. Keep his attention by doing spontaneous things. Is he affectionate in public/at school? If so, go with it. If not, wait it out!
Good Luck
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The only thing you really need to know is to just be yourself. you should never change for a guy so don't do anything different then what you usually do. Just hold hands in school is the only thing that would be different. but there is nothing that you should change or act like. just be yourself, that is who he asked out, not a compleatly different person right? so jsut be cool and have fun...that is all you need. and by the way, school should most likely be the same. nothing really changes except teh feelings for eachother. just be yourself. good luck
~sealgirl~
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