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very long distance love
16/f
i've fallen in love with the foreign exchange student. he's from france, he's a senior and i'm junior in high school. he came in august and was staying with a friend of mine so i got to know him pretty well. he was in my gym class too. anyway he's only staying until he graduates and then he's going back to france. we kissed over the summer and have talked about a relationship but we're really not sure if it's worth it or not. he's so sweet but if we get into a relationship and it really works out and then he moves back to france we're both going to be heartbroken and devestated. i love france and i've been there before but it's a completely different country! how do i handle this?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
You dont live your life now based on possible hurt later.
So many people are unable to do that, to even the smallest nuances of their lives. Look at how much some people on here agonize over just talking to the opposite sex. People act as if every rejection was the last chance they will ever get with anyone.
Yeah. The guy or girl you are looking at may be the last person you ever date. The last person you will ever need. They could also be someone you dont remember their name a few years from now. But either way, why would you trade the possibility of good memories to avoid pain later.
Pain is part of life. Its going to come one way or another.
Another thing to note. In a year, who knows what can happen. Not you, not I.
Take more chances with your life. Date this guy. If nothing else, you will hopefully have some wonderful memories.
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