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whats he doing?


Question Posted Sunday October 28 2007, 9:06 pm

okay so last year i was at a water fountain when this guy came up to me and aid " hi want to be my friend?" And so i said sure and we both walked off. I thought it was a joke really cause it was soo odd. Then we met again in theatre and i was suddenly crazy for him. We hung out and flirted and he was 17 and i was 15. So we'd hang out at after school and talk on the phone about so much stuff and sometimes he'd just call to say hi. I was just soo in love with him. and so i told him how i felt and we talked even more and he was like..." well I like....like like you." and so then we talked about kissing and we said we'd see who lasted longer. so one day i kissed him and then the next day he texted me and was like " i don't understand why you would rush me into that." and i sobbed and he came to my next class and just watched me cry really and said " its fine." Then suddenly torwards the end of the play he ignored me and started letting this other girl just fall all over him. But he'd still call me to come up to his house and friends houses to hang out.then i noticed that during the play and stuff he'd watch me and he was soo nice at all the cast parties we went to. And over the summer he still called and we hung out and then it was like he dropped off the face of the earth but his cell phone would " accidently" call me. Then he appeared in my college prep class and he's always watching me and using me as examples for stuff. But i found out from his older brother that he ot back with his old gf who he cheats on all the time and who he wants to break up with but can't cause she threatens to kill herself, which is why he cheats on her to get her to break up with him till she's a bit sain again.

My question is: Did it sound like he had feelings for me or that it a possibilt we could date? Im not worried about the cheating part because his friends, old girlfriends, and brothers tell me that he had like four girlfriends before who he never cheated on and that its just that this girl is soo disturbed and insaine that he has to get away somehow. Sorry its sooo long:)


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Ignatz answered Monday October 29 2007, 2:40 pm:
What's he doing?

Playing with your head, it seems. It's a pretty common thing: we all do it at some time or another. We figure out that we can play games with people, and we see how far we can take it. His ex is playing with his head by threatening suicide. (I had an ex like her. Bad news.)

Anyway, if you like the drama, and you want to star in your own little soap opera, then date him. If you want a fun time with as little drama as possible, then go find someobdy else.

Hope this helps,

Ignatz

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scootermclisle answered Monday October 29 2007, 12:58 pm:
wow. umm..this guy definately likes you, or at the very least, is passoinate about you. either that or he's crazy. i guess you'll just have to wait and find out =P

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