As for hand placement, let the guy do what he wants with his(unless he is doing really ridiculous stuff). I tend to put my hands on the guys hands and just let that take us where it may.
If worse comes to worse, look at what other girls are doing, and try to emulate that. Unless it looks ridiculous or slutty.
kaylakrum answered Monday October 29 2007, 2:45 pm: Oh i know that you wouldnt go up to a dude and do that but i was just asking and i told you about it ok well sorry if you took it personal i was just wondering. [ kaylakrum's advice column | Ask kaylakrum A Question ]
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