I am in love with one of my friends. We're not best friends, but I really do love him. But the problem is, even though he's fit and tan and beautiful, he likes fat chicks. I am so sad. I am naturally thin and small-framed, and I feel pain any time I see him flirt. I can't just become something I'm not, and I feel so terrible that I can't do anything. I don't know what's wrong with him. I am beautiful, and fit and we would be perfect. But we're not because he can't see me as I want him to. What should I do?
NinjaNeer answered Monday October 29 2007, 8:08 am: I'd say forget about him.
I'm a biggish girl. One of my boyfriends was the same way, and I thought it was great... until he broke up with me for someone bigger.
He is no less shallow than a person who dates exclusively stick-thin girls. If he can't see past your 'imperfect (in his eyes' frame, and to the great person behind it, he's not worth dating. [ NinjaNeer's advice column | Ask NinjaNeer A Question ]
lexusm answered Monday October 29 2007, 12:17 am: first of all he likes fat chicks and just because youre skinny does not mean you cant pull a nigga dont get sprung or say you love someone thats not pay attention to yo ass now listen dont let him bring you down because youre not a certain size love yourself and if he cant except you the way you are then i say FUCK HIM!!!! because gurl i wen threw the same thing but i had to learn the hard way basically what im tryin to say is love yourself and dont let nobody brong you da fuck down bye and try to find a boy that meets your standards tell me what ou find out send it to me in a message mah e-mail adress its TTNIEBROWNIE@YAHOO.COM bye and good luck [ lexusm's advice column | Ask lexusm A Question ]
mmm_Candy123 answered Sunday October 28 2007, 10:17 pm: I think if you are beautiful and have a great personality he will fall for you. flirt a bit and tell him how you feel maybe things will work out.
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