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doesn't want me


Question Posted Sunday October 28 2007, 5:54 pm

I am in love with one of my friends. We're not best friends, but I really do love him. But the problem is, even though he's fit and tan and beautiful, he likes fat chicks. I am so sad. I am naturally thin and small-framed, and I feel pain any time I see him flirt. I can't just become something I'm not, and I feel so terrible that I can't do anything. I don't know what's wrong with him. I am beautiful, and fit and we would be perfect. But we're not because he can't see me as I want him to. What should I do?

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LagunaBabe answered Wednesday October 31 2007, 9:52 pm:
If he can't like you for who you are, then he doesn't even deserve you. I wouldn't worry about not being with this guy too much, he really isn't worth you time. Forgive me if I'm being a little harsh, but I don't want you to get hurt over some guy who definitely isn't worth it. You'll find you a good guy one of these days, who will want you and only you.

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NinjaNeer answered Monday October 29 2007, 8:08 am:
I'd say forget about him.

I'm a biggish girl. One of my boyfriends was the same way, and I thought it was great... until he broke up with me for someone bigger.

He is no less shallow than a person who dates exclusively stick-thin girls. If he can't see past your 'imperfect (in his eyes' frame, and to the great person behind it, he's not worth dating.

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lexusm answered Monday October 29 2007, 12:17 am:
first of all he likes fat chicks and just because youre skinny does not mean you cant pull a nigga dont get sprung or say you love someone thats not pay attention to yo ass now listen dont let him bring you down because youre not a certain size love yourself and if he cant except you the way you are then i say FUCK HIM!!!! because gurl i wen threw the same thing but i had to learn the hard way basically what im tryin to say is love yourself and dont let nobody brong you da fuck down bye and try to find a boy that meets your standards tell me what ou find out send it to me in a message mah e-mail adress its TTNIEBROWNIE@YAHOO.COM bye and good luck

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mmm_Candy123 answered Sunday October 28 2007, 10:17 pm:
I think if you are beautiful and have a great personality he will fall for you. flirt a bit and tell him how you feel maybe things will work out.

hope things do work out:D

& hope i helped.

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