well, a few monhs ago i broke up with my boyfriend, and we had told each other that we loved each other and i really did mean it, i wouldn't just say something like that, but he had said it to other girls and hadnt meant it, but this weekend we were hanging out and i asked him if he did mean it and he said yeah i was his first love, but four days after we broke up he started going out with another girl and now theyre been going out for 3 months or so and he says that he loves her now. do you think its possible for him to love her now even though just three months ago he claimed that he loved me?
Thief answered Tuesday October 30 2007, 1:49 am: Sorry to hear about your recent break up, it usualy happens from time to time. Sometimes men and or women will say what people will want to hear just to get what they want and like dopes we believe them. If he claims to love this new one now then he's probably just saying the word "love" liek an empty blank word that we usualy use day in and day out. it's rare to find people who say i love you and truly mean it, when you look deep in their eyes and you see something no man or women can see, the inspiration that says " you are my world" then whaen he says i love you, he means it. Emotions are a lil complexs in the minds and hands of men and women a like, sometimes we're dooped by both and don't realize it. It's the new "norm" unfortunitly, we say i love you when really we have boyfriends or girlfriends just becuase everyone else has one, and when we don't people look or stare asking why we don't when we just bealy reached elementary school.. ahahaha isn't that weird? we live in an age were having relationships are as common as the penny on the floor. im sorry to have gone off. i can see that you are someone who's still hurting a lil but that's life, it hurts, it sucks, and there's no escape. You're a strong person so i know you'll get thorugh it im sure, just take each day lil by lil. Just erase him from your mind, till one day when you do find a man or women you can totaly forget about him, also if he comes back just look him in the eyes and just say " im sorry? do i know you?" that should get him. Being forgotten is worse than death. Anyway i hope this helps, take care now ^^ [ Thief's advice column | Ask Thief A Question ]
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