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whether to continue hoping for a relationship
hey..see i love this guy who lives 2 or so hours away from me..we used to go out but he dumped me because he couldnt handle the long distance..i was devasted and..its been 2 years but im stil not over him ,then one day he phoned me and said he wanted to be friends..but i know he has feeling for me and recently admitted he loved me..but doesnt want to form a relationsip because he feels it will be too hard...what should i do??? move on? or keep hopin?i really need advice please!!...ps i am 17 yr old girl
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You know..you r only 17..u have plenty of time to find someone else. but if you really like him then go for it. long distant relationships don't always work but if you love him, or he loves you then i am sure it would work out. if you both are into it then it will work as long as there is a good conection. good luck and i hope everything works out the way it should. and by the way, dont' get upset about it if it doesn't work. it has been a while since you talked and stuff so even tho he is far away don't give up if you really care about him. your choice to decide but the wise thing is to jsut follow your heart and do what you believe. good luck
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With long distance relationships you need to ask yourself a few questions before deciding whether or not to continue with them. First off, two hours is not that far. Next year you will have a lot of freedom if you go off to college and you will be able to see each other a few times a month if not every week. If he needs to physically be with you to, be in a relationship with you, maybe the relationship is a little too sexually based. Also, you have to be tight enough really trust him, and he has to trust you. When you don't live close to each other, there is nothing to go on other than your partner's word. You need communication. Phone calls, emails, send pictures so that he knows what you are doing while he's not around.
Talk to him about these things along with your feelings and any concerns you may have. If he's not mature enough to talk things out, then he's saying your not worth a 2 hour drive and a 30 minute conversation. You can find much better guys than that.
My girlfriend lives in another continent and we're still strong after 4 months apart. I prefer a phone call from her to sex with any girl close by that will never be as important to me as she is.
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