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Friend hates the boyfriend.
So a few hours my friend asked me out and I said yes.
Except he and my best friend have never gotten along. That's all fine and stuff, and even he doesn't care I'm friends with her.
But she's getting really pissed off. In those short few hours she's been getting a bit narky with me, and she actually said to me when he goes overseas she wants him to find another another girl to be 'her problem'
I think she also may be jealous I found a guy and she hasn't.
What the HELL do I say to her to get her to pull her head out of her ass?
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All you can really tell her is that you like who you like & she has no control over it. Just because she doesn't like someone doesn't mean you have to drop them just to keep your friendship alive. Give her an ultimatum [harsh, but necessary] & tell her that if she doesn't get over the fact that you like this kid, then she needs to get out of your life for a bit until she can pull her head out of her ass.
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The fact that he's willing to live with the situation and she isn't is a clear sign that he's more mature than she is. Tell her that you want to be with him, and if she is your friend she should accept that. Also listen to her advice though. If she thinks all these negative things about him, ask yourself why? Does she have a point? Is it you being stubborn or her? Give me more information on him and on her, and I can help you more. Just don't let your friend potentially ruin a relationship, but also don't let her words fall on deaf ears, every now and then people really will be looking out for your best interests.
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I know what you mean. My friend and boyfriend don't get along either. Your friend does sound a little bit jealous, or she's just a bitter person. Tell her straight up that it's not okay for her to talk like that. If she doesn't like him.. fine. She doesn't have to. But she can respect you being with him. If you like him and want to date him, you should be aloud to. Her opinion should not affect your decision. Or you could just tell her to pull her head out of her ass. haha ;]
hope i helped
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