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possibly interested


Posted Sunday November 4 2007, 11:49 pm

Okay basically:

I'm gay. I'm into this guy who is "confused". He has a girlfreind, but has liked a guy before. He always acts like he's flirting with me, and it confuses me so much. His girlfreind knows all about it, we talked it over, and she told me to talk to him about his feelings. I already tried talking to him about it, but I didn't get a straight (or gay, hee hee) answer out of him. I want to get this answer out of him, but I don't know how. I don't really want to flat out ask him, but that would be the best way because I'd get the result I want, but awkwardness after that. AND I have no clue how I'm going to get over this guy. I have so much hope about going out with him, but deep down I want to keep myself ...

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Are mixed CDs overrated for your boyfriend?


Posted Sunday November 4 2007, 10:45 pm

I wanna make my boyfriend a mixed cd. We are in a long distance relationship and I want to mail him a mixed CD that I plan on putting together with great thought. But he's in college and I'm in highschool. Would it seem too "highschool" of me to do that? Do college kids even make mixed CDs for each other? Or is this a cute idea? I want to suprise him with the CD in the mail. Tell me what you think!

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non-christian guy


Posted Sunday November 4 2007, 10:04 pm

i'm 16/f. i really like this guy who's a year older than me and i know he likes me too. we hang out at school some and after my soccer games. we've only been on one date - out to dinner after a game. he's not a christian, and i'm a very strong and dedicated christian. he's into partying. i'm not at all. he's already hinted about having sex, i'm for sure saving myself until marriage. i really like him, but is this too much of a risk for myself? i might be able to help him change for the better, but i might end up being brought down. i'm really not sure of what to do right now. any advice would be helpful. please give me some honest answers. thank you so much! <3

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BOY or FRIEND


Posted Sunday November 4 2007, 9:33 pm

I have this guy and we have gone out 3 times. I broke up with him again because he has alot of friends that are girls and I feel that he treats me the same as them. Also some of them like him and he flirts with him. Well we broke up and he wanted to get back together with me. Everyone was like don't go out with him again!!!!! Well one day we were talking about "us" and I asked what would we do different going out than being friends because we don't do anything special. He said I can think of something but he wouldn't tell me. I got mad at him and we got in an arguement. We made up but I told him we should just be friends. We are friends but I askd him what he was going to say and he says it doesn't matter anymore and won't tell me...

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the ex


Posted Sunday November 4 2007, 9:26 pm

out of nowhere my ex texted me last. i didn't even know he still had my number because i surely didn't have his. it's been 2 years since we broke up and it was a mutual decision after he found someone else. he's still with that other person. how do i respond to this? is he just trying to catch up as friends?

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i'm leading him on :/


Posted Sunday November 4 2007, 9:16 pm

15/f i'm inexperienced at dating guys or even getting asked out and 2 days ago, this guy professed his love to me online and said that he wants me to go out with him. and he kept on flattering me and i was like whoahh, you know? too much attention.

i don't like him. he's sweet but just not my type.

i didn't know what to answer him when he asked me out, so I said i'll think about it. and now he's assuming that i meant that its a maybe. that he has every right to hug me or do stuff.
its not a maybe. its a no.
i just dont want to break his heart. he told me the last girl who rejected him broke his heart. and he gave me all this bs about how im the right one, and how he can't live without me.
...

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lyrics for love songs


Posted Sunday November 4 2007, 9:10 pm


I'm into hiphop & pop music. what are
some good love quotes from songs in
those genres?

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Does he even know?


Posted Sunday November 4 2007, 8:58 pm

it seems long but it's really not, it's just becuase i had to break it up.

Alright, so me and "Billy" have had this thing? I guess you could call it a thing, but it's been about a month and a half now, and nothing has happened.

My friend told him i liked him, but that was a long time ago, and he said he needs to get to know me.

and at homecomming people were telling me to dance with him, but no one would tell me that he said anything, so i didn't.

i regret that i didn't take my chance when i could have.

and i don't know what to do.

i think he likes me because like he doesn't talk to me unless we are alone and wouldn't that mean that he's ner...

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Sex is getting boring !!


Posted Sunday November 4 2007, 8:08 pm


me and my Bf has like 4 years thogether ,From the first time I did sex I really didn't like it at all but I just did it because off him
But now is extra boring and I really never want to do it ,...he asked me what was going on and I couldn't answer him
It's not that I don't love him anymore ,but I don't want to have sex
I even sometimes cry because I don't want to do it and if I do it and did want to ,...I ussualy cry afterwards in the bathroom

Is this normal ?


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xmas present for my boyfriend! boys answer too please!!


Posted Sunday November 4 2007, 6:53 pm

16/f
Boyfriend=18

Okay, well my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 14 months. So by chirstmas it will be 15 months. I have no idea what to get him. I already got him a necklace for his birthday and a ring for our one year.

For christmas last year, I got him a hoodie, and a bunch of shirts. I made him a scrap book of our pictures and such. And I got him candy. I just seem to ran out of ideas!

I was thinking an x box 360 game, a build a bear, cloths. I have no idea what else.

Sooo guys, If you are/been in a long relationship like I am. What did you like when your girlfriends got you things? Also, hes a football player for college. If that helps any.

&...

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cheating/breaking up


Posted Sunday November 4 2007, 6:33 pm

my friend is madly in love with his girlfriend. they both love each other and were planning on getting married when they grew up. they were gonna go to college together, get married, and have a family. however, she went to a party without him and got very drunk. some guy took advantage of her and they hooked up. she apologized to him (my friend), and told him how much she regretted it, and how she would never do it again. should he break up with her?

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what am i doing wrong?


Posted Sunday November 4 2007, 6:26 pm

hi my name is elizabeth. my question is about what am i doing wrong as to why can i get a boy friend? i have had some boy friends befor not many but some. all i can really remember was how happy i was when i had one. its been almost a year since my last boy friend and i HATE it i mean yeah my school has got a lot of good looking guys. i try to get there attintion but it seams like it never works. i mean im a nice girl,i get told alot im pretty,sweet,and caring so why cant i get a boy friend my longest relashonship has only been months and year sometimes boys message me on facebook or somthing saying thay think im cute and we should hang out. yeah some of them are my age but i dont like them like i dont think there cute. am i just being sel...

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who do i choose?


Posted Sunday November 4 2007, 5:52 pm

ok, i have a bf. but he never tlks 2 me. then this other guy came... i guess i fell in luv with him. and i luv him more than my bf!! the new guy always tlks 2 me, flirts with me, and all of that junk, u kno. but my bf doesnt. i dont wanna break up with my bf cause i dont wanna go breaking anyones heart... WHO SHOULD I CHOOSE!?!?!?! pls help me!!

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determining love


Posted Sunday November 4 2007, 5:37 pm

this question is preferably for guys to answer, but if a girl has a good answer then that would be great too! What are ways to tell a guy really loves you. Other than him just saying it, what are some things that could really determine it? thanks!

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new guy?


Posted Sunday November 4 2007, 4:45 pm

Well, a bit over a month ago, me and my ex broke up. He was a total jerk about it. I was upset for a couple of days but got over the initial upset very quickly. Then the next week I met another guy who was really sweet and lovely. We've started "seeing" each other - we aren't really going out but we act exactly like boyfriend and girlfriend. He's asked me out a couple of times and I've been like no, I'm not ready for that yet, but if you want to stop seeing me I understand.
The thing is in the last couple of days I've really started missing my ex again. I don't know if it's really fair on my new guy to keep seeing me. The thing is, he REALLY likes me - and I like him! I wouldn't want to break up with him (or stop seeing hi...

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Cant make up my mind about these three girls


Posted Sunday November 4 2007, 4:26 pm

(1st girl)
Ok ive liked this girl since the first time i saw her three months ago, and not once did i go to talk to her every now and then i saw her starring at me but we never talk,we knew who we each were but never talked, i finaly gave up and decided to move on, (if you could help me with any ideas i apreciated)

(2nd Girl)
well shortly after i invited somegirl to the movies i was going to ak her out but something happend on that day that stoped me,its i kinda like her and well most of the times i see her as a freind but she realy likes me,(also my freind also likes her so it also stops me from asking her out,) If you got any ideas with this one help me out.

(3rd girl)
She is the oneconv...

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How to let him know I exist


Posted Sunday November 4 2007, 3:08 pm

Well there is this guy at my school who I think is cute and seems to be nice. His locker is right across from mine and I am not in any of is classes. I see him at lunch also. I want him to notice me. When I say notice I don't mean going out with him then and there. But becoming friends if the friendship seems good, then possibly consitering going higher into our friendship(taking it slow). If it doesn't seem possible then we could remain friends. What my question is,is what's the first step into introducing myself(please don't give me any advice letting him know I like him.

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how do you talk to girls on AIM?


Posted Sunday November 4 2007, 3:06 pm

i can easily talk to girls in person or on the phone, but when it comes to AIM, 'm terrified.

i just hate it when they dont reply for a long time and leave me hanging..

someone give me some awesome tips plz!

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Admitted past cheating with new flame


Posted Sunday November 4 2007, 2:17 pm

I recently met a wonderful, mature guy in his forties (I'm in my thirties) and we spent a great night together and a long late breakfast the next afternoon in which we told each other quite a lot about our past relationships. I divorced four years ago after a marriage of seven years. This marriage was to my first boyfriend, my first sexual experience, and turned out to be somewhat abusive. I tried to get out of the marriage twice, first by simply telling him I wanted out. I stayed that time because I couldn't handle how much it seemed to hurt him to leave. The second time, I went off to an artists' colony for a month and actually cheated on him, the first time I'd ever done this before or after. I told him immediately and it was the e...

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can some one tell me what alot of signs a girl likes u pleas


Posted Sunday November 4 2007, 2:12 pm

any one who wants to answer please do i need to find out what she thinks about me b4 its to late

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