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BOY or FRIEND
I have this guy and we have gone out 3 times. I broke up with him again because he has alot of friends that are girls and I feel that he treats me the same as them. Also some of them like him and he flirts with him. Well we broke up and he wanted to get back together with me. Everyone was like don't go out with him again!!!!! Well one day we were talking about "us" and I asked what would we do different going out than being friends because we don't do anything special. He said I can think of something but he wouldn't tell me. I got mad at him and we got in an arguement. We made up but I told him we should just be friends. We are friends but I askd him what he was going to say and he says it doesn't matter anymore and won't tell me. I do want to be with him but what can I say to tell him what I want. How do I get him to tell me. He knows I still like him and he still like me. Also sometimes he just flirts with his other girlfriends and acts like i'm not there. It makes me mad cause he just ignores me. at least 3 other girls like him.
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On again-off again relationships don't work. Trust me, I'm speaking from personal experience.
What also factors into my belief that this relationship won't work, is the fact he won't tell you whatever it is you want him to tell you. He should be able to tell you anything, and not feel the need to hide it from you. I know this sounds terrible, but maybe he's just saying he thought of something that might be different if you got back together, so you will get back together and he can say he has a girlfriend or something along those lines.
Again speaking from personal experience, whenever a guy says he knows something will be different this time, all it means is it really won't be different. If that makes sense. Like, he says he'll try to make it work, but he really just wants to get back together with you, and not neccessarily for the right reasons.
Maybe you could make this work, but I really wouldn't reccommend trying it though. =/
-Laura. (15-f)
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Maybe its kissing? that's what i would think. whats the point in dating him if you dont think its going to go anywhere anyway? People are always dating but its so stupid if you know its not for any specific reason except have someone to couple up with or whatever. Dating has a purpose and thats finding your true love, your one and only, and people just d it to have fun and be 'cool'. Just be friends and look for someone to truly have a relationship with. Hope i helped ;)
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Maybe he's embarrassed, because it's pretty obvious what he meant....
Plus, if you're just friends now, there's no reason for you to know anyway. You're just bringing up the past and he probably feels it's unnecessary - because it is.
If you want to get back with him, just tell him. If not, don't dwell on the past and annoy him with it.
P.S. He's probably ignoring you because
1. He wants to make you jealous.
2. He's not interested in you as girlfriend material anymore.
If it's seriously bothering you, and he wants to, have a good, deep conversation with him. You will be able to sort things out from there. You should be able to talk to him about anything, especially if you've dated him 3 times. Don't be embarrassed to say what you really feel. Let it all out. In person or online - it doesn't really matter.
Good luck anyway.
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