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I went skating with my friends and my boyfriend..
And he had to leave early, and my friends when he was there were all comming back and forth back and forth to us.. and we didnt skate but I could tell he wanted to.. and I didnt but I should of for him.. but I didnt even wanna be there because skating is boring as hell.. and I just wnated ot see my frineds and get out with Alex.. but it was the worst day.. because after he left my frineds kept leaving me and I tried calling my bf form a damn pay phone but ti wouldnt work.. and when he left he just said bye and I'll see you on monday.. and my friends (NAme) and (Name) just got a boyfriend and thye already hugged and kissed ont he cheek, and me and my bf have been going out for liek 5 days and he hasnt kissed or hugged me.. I reeeally love him but I duno.. what do I do??!!!!! (link)
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ok first of all if u have only been dating for 5 days than u probably dont really love him. Also it dosent matter if you havent kissed. Just come one day and kiss him on the cheek. Im sure he feels the same way. start talking to him more often. hug him then im sure he will start making moves too. well peace out homes^
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Yo,
I have question and you may think that it is the same ol thing but i need anvice!
This "guy" that i crushed on for like 3 years and i finally got the guts to tell him he told me that he doesn't like me. well i lived but its like now i act like he is an idiot and stuff. but now he seems to be the one watching me and like he is really weird around me. he seems to stare at me when he thinks im not looking and stuff. see i know guyz send mixed signals cause this guy did it to me for 3 years. i don't know if he likes me now that im acting like i don't like him. the other problem is my best friend has a crush on him now and we are very honest with each other and i've told her that he is all hers but still like him. and i don't want him to end up liking her instead of me. so ya see my prob? im confused!
please give some advice!
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hey so had this problem before. The probably dosent really like u. he just stares at you and stuff because he feels guilty. And if u and yuor friend are open and honest maybe you need to let her have a chance. after all she is your friend. If he dosent like your friend either you should try it again. Just come out and ask him if he likes u if he says yes hey go for it. If he says no say ok and dont think about it anymore u dont want to weigh yourself down. Keep it real lots of live.
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Hey,
I am a 16 year old female.Thank you for taking your time to actually read my question.Now My question is that, I have a boyfriend that I am really into but a couple days ago I was around an ex-boyfriend and friends and we kissed.Now I feel as though since I really like my boyfriend that i should tell him what i did but.The problem is I don't know what to say. I really want to be with him but I'm scared that maybe if I tell him that though the kiss ment nothing he will think I still have feelings with my ex and we will break up.I have had thoughts of not telling him but then I will feel guilty and it might be a way that he find out from someone else.Oh my goodness I need help on what to say Please help me!
Thank you,
AppleBottom** (link)
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Hey u should tell your boyfriend id not it will eat away at u. Just tell him u was out and all of a sudden things got out of hand and u kissed him. Tell him u are really sorry and u hope he can forgive u. Lots of love.
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Is it wrong to hump when your in a really Godly relationship? im 15 and im a female (link)
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im sorry but yes wait a little while
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My friend *George* told my other friend *Jill* that something bad happened to him but he didn't want to talk about it. I really care for George and I want to be able to comfort him. BUt I'm also really worried that like something REALLY bad happened to him and he is too afraid to tell anyone. I'm really worried but Jill told me not to talk to him about it. How can I get him to come clean with me? (link)
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You need to get him alone and talk to him. Tell him if its something serious u can help him. Tell him u will always be there for him know matter what his problem is. Tell him if it is something serious he really, really needs to tell u
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One of my best friend in the whole word really needs help. lets call her 'Katy'
Ill start from the beggining:
He mother commited suicide when she was a baby and she now lives with her stepmum and dad. Her stepmum is so horrible she doesnt let Katy out of the house she throws away all her make up, mobile and other stuff, she beats her up and everything. ( the dad stays out of it and if he has to takes the stepmothers side.)Katy is so lovely but shes getting into drugs and shes tryed to kill herself loadz of times - she came into school with big slits on her wrists on Friday. She has social workers, councilers and the school are involved (but none of them no about the drugs and the suicid attemps) but they dont seem to do ANYTHING to help her.
What should i do i treally worries about her!? (link)
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You really need to tell someone about this, even if u dont want to tell because she is ur friend if u dont something really bad could happen u also need to tell about her stepmom peace homie G hope u use the advice
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I am a 21 year old female and I have been with my 26 year old boyfriend for 4 years now. We are in love (at least I think he is still in love with me.) In four years he has done more for than anyone would do for just a 'girlfriend'. I love him more than anything in the world but last year I was supposed to move in with him but the day before he told me we shouldn't which left with another year lease at my apartment. Now we are supposed to move in together this fall. Im wondering if he will change his mind again. If he does should I break it off? Another thing is that I am ready to get married and him being 26 should at least start thinking about it. He keeps telling me to be patient. But how long am i supposed to wait? I don't want to be unmarried forever. Please help. (link)
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Hey not to be to all up in ur cool-aid but its kinda sounds like he is cheatin on u. Dont think he is yet but remember keep it in the back of ur mind. Look for clues other womens stuff and if u want to go to the extreme put a camara in his house of cource without him knowing well i hope the best and if he breaks it off this time i would defientely check into the chaeting thing well peace out homie G.
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Im so scared because I just had my period a few months ago and Im 12 yrs old. thats not what im worried about though. i fingred myself and I dont know how deep i went but it wasnt that deep i dont think, but then I went to the bathroom and i saw that i was bleeding from my vagina but i don know if its from my period or not...its almost around the time when i usually have it but im scared because did anything bad happen when i fingred myself? or is it just my period? (link)
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EWWWWW Ok first of all you need help for fingering your self and second of all its probably your period
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Currently, I have been single for one month, but I still love that guy. We broke up becuase he said he needed time. But to all that there is this other girl with two kid and she is only 18 years old. She work with him and on New Years, I went to Cali for vacations, when I come back I heard that he picked her up becuase they are friends. I know he cares and loves me too but I feel so betrayed. What should I do?
Sincerly, Beautiful in Love (link)
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Hey its sounds like to me he dumped u for the other girl. Maybe u should forget about him and find some1 else peace out homieG
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OKAY....
I turn 14 Mar. 9 and there is going to be a HUGE dance and stuff Mar. 12-13 and there is this guy *Darin* [sigh] ALL of my friends are always saying he asking about me and saying he is going to ask me out when I get older and he plans to ask me to dance the 12th. Plus I keep catching him looking at me and then turning his head away like he wasn't lookin' am I just making this up in my head or does he like me? he is 16.
I am just TOTALLY lost. I don't know what is goin' on!
PLEASSSSSSE!!!!!!! answer this Question! IM LOST!
signed
Lost (link)
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Hey it sounds like this guy likes you, you should wait and see if he asks you out it sounds like he will peace out homieG
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2years ago my mum went on hoilday and left me at home with her bf. one night ewarly in the morning i heard my bedroom door open when i leend over to see it was her bf in a shirt and undies. i screamed and he shouted sorry and slamed the door but i new it wasnt a dream coz you have to lift the door to shut it. I was so scared . now i lock my bedroom door and cart sleep i have to fall alsleep to the tv. last night he was at my door saying he didnt no who to go to bed with me or my mum how sick i cart tell my mum i no ur goin to say i much but i dont no what to do i have a bf but i cart talk to him hes older and lives in london he said i could go live with him but i dont have the cash i wanna get out of here i cart stay with my dad coz he died when i was young help (link)
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Hey I really think you need to tell your mom. I know you dont want to ,but it will do you better in the long run. He could end up raping you. You really need to tell your mom. If you dont bad things can happen. Or if you dont want to tell your mom tell the cops or a friend or someone. Before something bad happens. I hope the best!!!
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Is it bad to have wet dreams? (link)
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WOOOOOOOOOO That is a weird question maybe u need a cycoligist
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Toady I had my first kiss with my boyfriend. I guess I kinda wanted to do it but I wasn't 100% comfortable. I thought it would be really great but now I think that it was totally horrible. And to make it worse my friend got online afterwards and told his I liked it...ew. What should I do, I dont want to break up with him...maybe i do...oh i dont know! Help! (link)
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You should probably not be that girls friend anymore. You should defiantly keep the guy peace out home g.
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ok, 4-h is having a camp out of town. my grandma is afraid i'll get homesick. and she doesn't trust everybody. Life is such a drag! She says I can't go unless she is a chaperon. My friends get to go. I told her that they get to go. She says I'm the boss and you're gonna listen to what I say. (i live with her) My friends' dads are chaperones and one's mom is a chaperon. I told her that and she said I'll think about letting you go. I askedmyfriend what were the odds of my grandma(who is 63) of becoming a chaperon. She said 0 out of 10. What do I do? Please don't tell me to wait because i already have waited and asked her about every 5 days. She keeps saying I'll think about it. I know that means no. If you have the odds of her becoming a chaperon or even the chances of me going please tell me even if its stupid. Im desperate! If u nowhat i should do tell me that, too. thanks. :) (link)
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hey. You could tell all these great things. You could also try to get on her good side. By cleaning the house.Doing good in school. you know. The chances of her being a bouncer [chaperon] are not big so try to win her over get your friends parents to call and tell your grandmother everything will be ok otherwise sorry to tell you, you wont be going
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Lately my boyfriend is being very cold to me. He doesn't want to hug or hold me, he barelly calls. I try to be very affectionate with him but it hurts when you get no affection back. He constantly thinks that I am either lying or cheating on him, which I am doing neither. I love him very much and I want things to work out between us but I don't know what else to do to show him I am good to him. What should I do? (link)
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It seems that your boyfriend is unhappy. Maybe you need to tell him that you need to talk. Set him down tell him how you feel. If it still dosent work out you probably need to take a break.
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I recently just became boyfriend and girlfriend with this really nice guy. I really like him and I know he likes me, but he doesn't want people to know about us yet. A dance is coming up and I REALLy want to slow dance with him but I also don't want to give him away to all his friends. I also heard him telling someone he doesn't like anyone when i was right there. I respect that he doesn't want people to know...But i do. What should I do? (link)
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It sounds to me that if he truly likes you he should want to tell people. I dont think he is right for you. He shouldn't be ashamed of you.
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I have this friend. She gets on my nerves a lot. She gets really jealous when me or anyone else isn't payin g her any attention. She is spoiled(no offense.) and always tries to make people feel bad. I don't want to be her friend, but she keeps on saying that she has problems and she's gonna kill herself because life is so bad. I have 2 questions. Is she my real friend? And is there any way I don't have to be friends with her? (link)
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You should probably tell a school conselur or someone who can help. She probably is your friend but its hard for her right now you really need to tell someone soon
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I have been dating a guy now for about 2 and a half years. We are both shy and moral people so we haven't done anything but kiss and cuddle together. I think that I love him because when we are close together and when he kisses me I get a feeling like no other (like electricity is running throughout my whole body constantly), but when we are not together and when he is not being loving toward me I feel like I want to end the relationship. We have a lot of differences in our personalities and our likes that constantly get in the way of the relationship, and I am always the one who gives into what he wants. He is a spoiled only child with parents who are close to being rich and I am a mature only child who was taught at a very early age the value of a dollar and my parents are divorced so we don't hve as much money (and my mom is kinda cheap). I am getting really tired of him trying to control me and always getting his way, but everytime I think about breaking up I can't do it because we have been together so long and I think I am ultimately afraid of being single the rest of my life if I don't stay with him. (I don't have any other guys that are even flirting with me at work or college) Do you think I should end it with my boyfriend or continue the relationship? (link)
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Its obvious you are in love. You need to teel your boyfriend about these things that worry you. If he truly loves you he will understand and you will work everything out.
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I like my best friends 3 day ex.... and she is going to tell him to ask me out.... but i don't want him to hate me will he evn care that it's that early? (link)
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hey you woory to much of cource he wont if he likes you
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ok we get our yearbooks on the last few days of school i really want to know what a good thing to say to everyone in their yearbook i need good ideas like not the simple ones like have a great summer i want mine to stand out so can you people give me some good ideas please i reaslyl need them
please help thanks yearbook girl (link)
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dear yearbook girl,
If you like someone and dont have the guts to tell them them maybe you can put i like you i just never could tell you or you could put you have been a great friend stay cool fro ever you could put l.y.l.a.b. or l.y.l.a.s. which means love you like a brother or sister hope you like the ideas.
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