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2years ago my mum went on hoilday and left me at home with her bf. one night ewarly in the morning i heard my bedroom door open when i leend over to see it was her bf in a shirt and undies. i screamed and he shouted sorry and slamed the door but i new it wasnt a dream coz you have to lift the door to shut it. I was so scared . now i lock my bedroom door and cart sleep i have to fall alsleep to the tv. last night he was at my door saying he didnt no who to go to bed with me or my mum how sick i cart tell my mum i no ur goin to say i much but i dont no what to do i have a bf but i cart talk to him hes older and lives in london he said i could go live with him but i dont have the cash i wanna get out of here i cart stay with my dad coz he died when i was young help
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I edited this answer because I misunderstood the question...
Anyway, this is NOT good. You never know what could go on in situations like this. If this guy said these things to you, then YOU HAVE TO TELL YOUR MOM. Pretty soon she may be marrying him for all you know.
If anything gets worse call teh police and then tell your mom. Or tell your mom and let her deal with it.
Don't go live with your boyfriend in London. You have no idea what you're doing, (because by the way you type you seem young). AND THE FIRST THING YOU HAVE TO DO IS TO TELL YOUR MOM!!! You don't want her going out, let alone ACTUALLY MARRYING THIS PERVERT SOMEDAY!
Even if he's changed for the better since that night...STILL TELL YOUR MOM! This really isn't good. If you're ever alone with him again, KEEP A PHONE IN EVERY ROOM. But I expect after you reading this you will tell your mom. It's really important you do this. Not just for you, but for her too. Trust me, it's for the best.
A guy like this may rape you, become abusive, or take advantage of you or your mother. DO NOT CONFRONT HIM ALONE. You may make him angry and get him started with something.
Tell your mom.
~GL~
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Hey I really think you need to tell your mom. I know you dont want to ,but it will do you better in the long run. He could end up raping you. You really need to tell your mom. If you dont bad things can happen. Or if you dont want to tell your mom tell the cops or a friend or someone. Before something bad happens. I hope the best!!!
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First and foremost, you need to talk to a trusted adult about this situation. Go to a friend's parent, or someone at your school, who might understand and help you to deal with this. Second, you and your mother seem to have some serious issues if you cannot discuss this with her. It's time to sit down and talk to her. Moving in with the boyfriend may make things worse. Tell your mom that you want to go to counselling, and that you'd like her to go with you. Maybe this can help you both work through the issues that you both have.
~AlexiaJayn
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Sweetie, you are in a bad situation. You know you are. Are you close with anyone at school, like maybe a teacher or something? I know it's not an easy thing to do...telling someone, but if you don't, it could lead to further actions from your "him" and we both don't want that. If you look at your options, it seems to me that the only proper thing to do is to tell someone who might be able to at least be there for you if/when he does try to get to you. What about an Aunt or Uncle? Even a friends' parents or older sister? Please get help sweetie, or it looks to me as though there would be nothing to stop him from going further.
Be strong, and you can do anything!
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you have to tell your mother...she's the parent...the person that has to take care of her blood.
or he is probably trying to be sarcastic...and failing miserably. if that is it, then tell him to stop.
going to live with your boyfriend can make matters worse...will your mother know? does she even agree to it?
if he tried doing more two years ago when your mother was going returning from her vacation...then you have to report him.
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1) grammar. you can't tell anyone the problem if they cant understand *glares*
2) you should definitely tell your mom about this, especially if he said that he didnt know which one of you to sleep with (once again, grammar issues).
Also, this counts as emotional abuse, seeing as it caused such distress, even after 2 years.
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