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Skating
I went skating with my friends and my boyfriend..
And he had to leave early, and my friends when he was there were all comming back and forth back and forth to us.. and we didnt skate but I could tell he wanted to.. and I didnt but I should of for him.. but I didnt even wanna be there because skating is boring as hell.. and I just wnated ot see my frineds and get out with Alex.. but it was the worst day.. because after he left my frineds kept leaving me and I tried calling my bf form a damn pay phone but ti wouldnt work.. and when he left he just said bye and I'll see you on monday.. and my friends (NAme) and (Name) just got a boyfriend and thye already hugged and kissed ont he cheek, and me and my bf have been going out for liek 5 days and he hasnt kissed or hugged me.. I reeeally love him but I duno.. what do I do??!!!!!
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First off, watch how you use the word "love." That word gets thrown around a lot and a lot of people don't even know what love feels like. That's a pet peeve of mine, but anyway...
Give it a little time. It took my boyfriend over a week to even kiss me on the cheek. Lol. In this day and age, however, it's perfectly acceptable for the girl to make the first move. Or, if you don't feel comfy kissing or hugging him, just give him some li'l hints...Guys are dense. We have to kinda poke them awhile until they get it. Good luck. =)
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To begin with how long have you known this guy to be saying you love him? If you want to hug or kiss him you move in for the kill. Its been a couple of relationships i had to kiss or hug my man. maybe he is scared to kiss or hug you. you never know about guys. so you move in for the kill.
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First thing: you really shouldn't judge your relationship on the basis of your friends' relationships. People are different, and relationships are different, and what's appropriate for some people may not feel quite right in others' situations.
There's no reason to be nervous if he hasn't kissed or hugged you yet. You've been going out less than a week, and it sounds like you're quite young, so he's probably not entirely sure how to behave around a brand-new girlfriend. Maybe he just likes to take things a little slower than your friends' boyfriends, or maybe he's not quite as self-confident. And anyway, you could always give him a hug and a kiss, you know, if that's what you feel like.
Next time, plan to do something that's fun for *both* of you, and just try to relax and enjoy being with him, rather than worrying quite so much about whether you're doing everything right. :)
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ok first of all if u have only been dating for 5 days than u probably dont really love him. Also it dosent matter if you havent kissed. Just come one day and kiss him on the cheek. Im sure he feels the same way. start talking to him more often. hug him then im sure he will start making moves too. well peace out homes^
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