Currently, I have been single for one month, but I still love that guy. We broke up becuase he said he needed time. But to all that there is this other girl with two kid and she is only 18 years old. She work with him and on New Years, I went to Cali for vacations, when I come back I heard that he picked her up becuase they are friends. I know he cares and loves me too but I feel so betrayed. What should I do?
Sincerly, Beautiful in Love
Additional info, added Wednesday March 3 2004, 2:28 pm: Well I have moved on and I found someone new. Thanks to all of you. But He keeps on calling me and if thats not all the other girl and her sister and leaving messages on my cell phone telling me all sorts of dumb shit. I told her that when I see her Im gonna kick the shit out of her and her sister. Do you guys think that was very mean? Well I really dont care cuz I havent said anything to these girls at all.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? lilattitude2004 answered Thursday March 25 2004, 4:31 pm: well tell him that you need time now and you 2 r just friends and thats what he gets 4 dumping u. when u and your boyfriend brake up your gonna like your ex so dont say it in a rude way just trust me on this. still triy to be friends with him and good luck. can u please rate my answer [ lilattitude2004's advice column | Ask lilattitude2004 A Question ]
endilwen answered Sunday February 22 2004, 3:11 pm: I was in your situation. I loved a guy and he was an asshole. My advice: Try to move on. This guy sounds like a jerk, and you deserve better than that. [ endilwen's advice column | Ask endilwen A Question ]
sandy2004 answered Friday February 20 2004, 11:23 pm: hello beautiful in love
well my advice is that if it is meant to be give him the time to figure that out if not let him go i would give him like a month deadline and let him no that is what you are going to do if he knows how you feel then he will respond either with the willingness to continue or he will not respond at all then you will have your answer take care and good luck [ sandy2004's advice column | Ask sandy2004 A Question ]
ameristar answered Friday February 20 2004, 11:14 pm: Honey- Hit the road and go back to Cali, or get away from this dude for awhile, date others and then see how you feel 3 months from today. [ ameristar's advice column | Ask ameristar A Question ]
Pandabalism answered Friday February 20 2004, 9:08 pm: Well, it took me months to get over my ex. And, to be completely honest, I still love him. But, that's ok. 'Cause I realized, I don't need him. There's more to life than just sitting around, waiting for somebody to come back to you. And, he found someone else, to. I like to think he still has feelings for me. And, I think maybe he does. But, he's happy where he's at. If your ex is happy with the way thing's are, let him go. If he's truly yours, he'll come back to you. And, I wouldn't expect it to be any time soon. Just, go on with your life. Be happy, and prove to YOURSELF that you don't need him. It'll make you a stronger person, and it might even make him realize what he's lost. Good luck. :) [ Pandabalism's advice column | Ask Pandabalism A Question ]
Siren_Cytherea answered Friday February 20 2004, 6:13 pm: Ah, I feel your pain. It doesn't sound like he really betrayed you, though. Are you so sure he still loves you? Chances are, if he's with someone else, his feelings have faded. As hard as it may be to admit, he's an ex. Give it time. You'll get over him. Maybe it just wasn't meant to be.
-Siren [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
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