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First Kiss Gone Wrong

Question Posted Tuesday February 17 2004, 6:19 pm

Toady I had my first kiss with my boyfriend. I guess I kinda wanted to do it but I wasn't 100% comfortable. I thought it would be really great but now I think that it was totally horrible. And to make it worse my friend got online afterwards and told his I liked it...ew. What should I do, I dont want to break up with him...maybe i do...oh i dont know! Help!

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endilwen answered Sunday February 22 2004, 3:32 pm:
You probably didn't like the kiss you shared with your boyfriend because you weren't 100% comfortable with it. First kisses are often akward, and that doesn't help either. I think you should tell your boyfriend that you weren't prepared for it, and that you wanna take things a little slower until you're certain it's what you want. Don't ever feel pressurised into doing something you dont want to do, and if he gets mad then he doesn't deserve you :)

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Here-To-Help answered Friday February 20 2004, 12:00 pm:
I just answered your other question...BUT DON'T BREAK UP WITH HIM BECAUSE OF A KISS. It will get better, and if it doesn't just do what you think feels more comfortable.
But I've never kissed anybody yet but it's almost a fact that first kisses (whether your FIRST one or your FIRST ONE WITH A NEW PERSON) can go very wrong.

Just give the boy a chance...don't judge your relationship because of a first kiss...if thats the only reason you want to break up with him then DONT...just give him a chance...

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Kendra answered Wednesday February 18 2004, 4:46 pm:
if he's your boyfriend and you really like him than just don't kiss like that. love s6tinks deal with it

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Girlwithamansname answered Wednesday February 18 2004, 11:35 am:
Don't worry, my first kiss was a bit of a disaster too. My no means sholud you break up with your boyfriend but maybe you should have a serious talk with the friend you mentioned.

Lots of practice would probably sort you out.Was it your boyfriend's first kiss as well? You would both have been nervous and not sure what to do-it's not suprising that it didn't go too well. Just kiss your boyfriend how you would like to be kissed back and you'll be fine.

If you can try to talk to him about it but make sure you don't upset him.

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PepeLePew answered Tuesday February 17 2004, 9:54 pm:
how do you know when a kiss is good or sucks? a kiss is a kiss!

well...i never had a kiss *shuts up*

but because the kiss went wrong doesn't mean it had or is over between the two of you.

unless you don't like the way things are don't have to be with him if you don't want to.

the choice is yours...good luck!

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Siren_Cytherea answered Tuesday February 17 2004, 9:34 pm:
Hey, my first kiss sucked. I mean, some of them still suck. The other day my boyfriend and I were trying to walk and kiss, but he hit my teeth, lol. If you don't want to break up with him, don't. However, relationships should be private. Just keep the little details to yourself and have fun with the relationship. ^_^

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icanhelpcallonme answered Tuesday February 17 2004, 7:48 pm:
You should probably not be that girls friend anymore. You should defiantly keep the guy peace out home g.

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Anneth answered Tuesday February 17 2004, 7:28 pm:
I agree with MysticalSwirls in saying that you need to talk with him.


I also say that since it's your first kiss, it's sort of expected. Most first kisses aren't 100% comfortable like they portray to us growing up. So try again, maybe this time you'll like it. Any first time is usually experimental.

Let me know how it turns out ^_^()

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Cspinoza1 answered Tuesday February 17 2004, 7:19 pm:
Because a kiss went wrong you want to break up! you must be young, everyones first kiss isn't the best especially if you try to get really into it because your inexperienced.


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MysticalSwirls answered Tuesday February 17 2004, 7:07 pm:
From how you are talking about this, i think you should rethink your relationship with him, because you dont sound happy. i dont know much about a first kiss, but i think it should be private as well, so maybe you should talk to your friend beacuse she had no business telling him that.

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