i was 15 years old and he was 16 so if i kiss her for 5 minutes so i get pregnant ya not
You never get pregnant just by kissing.
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My name is Carly and I am 16 and my question is that i like this guy and from my knowledge he liked me before i liked him but i didn't know him that well when he was interested in me but later on i got to know him and he was amazing in every way but the night i told him i liked him he kind of started acting weird and saying he doesn't like me anymore but every time i see him at school he is always staring at me and talking to his friends about me but i'm not quite sure i know what they say about me and i just need some clarification on what i should do? I'm really confused on what he really feels or is he actually lying about his feelings to me or what he saying is true?
Hey Carly, the best advice would be to talk him through. Find an occasion when you two can have a little private conversation and bring this topic in and ask him the reason why he has been acting like this lately.
Put your thoughts together and tell him how you really feel about him. If he really loves you or even likes you then that moment would be more than perfect to bring that out in him.
All the best.
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My boyfriend asked me tonight if I was a virgin because he is and has never done anything at all. We've been dating on a couple weeks and I didn't know how to answer it though. This is why:
I've gave a few guys head
I've been fingered A LOT
I had anal twice
I masturbate like once a day
I never had like...sex sex, you know? Like the making babies kind LOL. You know what I mean. Does that mean I'm a virgin?
You never had real sex. That pretty much means that you are a virgin.
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I uploaded pictures along with a status on Facebook, which was automatically in the Mobile Uploads album since I uploaded the pictures from my phone. However, I then moved the pictures to another album, and the pictures got removed from the posts on my timeline. Is there any way to have the pictures show up on my post again? I tried moving it back to the original Mobile Uploads album, but I wasn't successful. I googled it, and it said that you can't move photos into the Mobile Uploads album. Does anyone know if there's anything else I can do?
Thank you.
If you just want those pictures to be visible on your timeline then try this:
Go to that album and share it on your wall. In this way all the pictures will be visible on your wall under one post.
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I'm tired of everything. I'm tired of everyone in my life. My family is mean to me. People at school are mean to me, especially the stereotypical high school girls that dress all provocative say mean things about me. Don't get me wrong, I'm no where near ugly. I actually think I'm quite attractive yet I can't find any guy that likes me for me.I feel like I'm such an annoying person. I'm a burden to everybody that enters my life and nobody even likes me. I've talked to the guidance counselor in my school but she hasn't help me at all at feeling better. It seems as if she thinks I deserve all of this mistreatment. I'm a nice person. I care about people and listen to their problems. Yet when I begin to talk about my feelings or problems two people that I trust always say 'here we go again' or they judge me. I don't know what's wrong with me that people see fit to treat me this way. I guess it's because I'm shy and kept to myself. I don't really even know. I want to end it all already. Everybody will be happier if I am. All of these people that say they care are probably just saying that just to try to make me happy but lying to me will just make me even sadder. I practically drove away my best friend. I sent her a mean message and I wasn't exactly thinking about it but once it was sent I regretted it. She said she understood that I just wanted some space but I think I've lost the only person that actually wanted to be around me. I've lost everybody that I either cared about or loved. I'm not depressed. I'm not sad. I just feel empty and worthless. Nobodies ever cared. Nobody has cared and nobody ever will care about the quiet loner that rarely shows emotion but is going through a whirlwind of feelings crashing inside of them. I want to die. The person that I needed the most will probably be the most happy if I'm gone. After all I seems to bother him all the time and doubt his intentions and feelings. I can't trust anyone anymore. When I turned to god I felt like he wasn't listening or being there for me. I know that god only gives me what he knows I can handle but I'm breaking more and more day in and day out each day. I'm no suicidal just lonely and without a purpose. I can't make people happy. All I do is annoy then and push them away. Nobody loves me or likes me or cares. I'm done with everybody and their mean remarks. Hopefully once I die I'll be in a better place. I want to die now that is. I'm exhausted of it all. I want to find that special someone that can make me happy already because I don't think that I can do it anymore.
The first thing that you need to do is to relax.
You are probably thinking too much.
The problem is not that everyone around you doesn't care about you or you are very annoying. The problem is that you think too deeply on these things but in the wrong direction.
People don't say that they care about you, if they don't care the least about you. Everyone has their own problems and everyone goes through a lot of stress in their lives. It might be that they do care about you, maybe only a little, but they can't show that because they are preoccupied by their problems. You want to listen to them and solve them, but everyone doesn't like sharing their problems.
Just because someone acts or speaks in a way which is not very welcoming doesn't mean that you are a skunk.
You just need to calm down and stop taking these things in a negative manner. That will help a lot.
Be cool. Do things that you like. Pursue your hobbies. Make some dreams. Try to fulfil it and when you live your life as you want to, people will start behaving in a manner in which you want them to. You will not become their queen, but you will soon get a better place in their lives.
Regarding your best friend:
Stop thinking that you have lost him.
He was your best friend. He was there at times when you needed him and he will again be there if you try to be a best friend to him. Try to approach him and tell what you feel about him. But do everything very cautiously. Do not react instantaneously. Relax. Listen to what he is saying and then say what you should.
He will surely be your best friend again.
Regarding your parents:
Don't think that they don't love you. Imagine that you created a very beautiful painting and then some bad person destroyed it completely. Won't you feel bad. If you love a painting which you created then how won't a father or mother love you which they created. You have to realize that in addition to being your parent, they have their personal and professional lives as well. There are many things which stresses them and many things which makes them irritated. Because of that frustration or anger, if they talk badly with you then it doesn't mean that they don't love you.
Just be relaxed. Don't be too hard on yourself.
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So I was on a website at school that shows other websites that have the Konami code, my schools computers have this thing that blocks social networks and stuff like that. I was going through the links on the page and I clicked on one link, and is said cannot access because of porn. I clicked the red x button before anybody could see it. I am really scared that the school will find out and get me in big trouble, I swear that this was by accident! Am I going to get in big trouble, what should I do? Please help!
No. The school can't find out who opened what websites.
The system works in this way:
Your school blocks different types of websites and protocols.
Everyday many students use the facility provided by your school to surf the internet. The school does not have enough space on their system to store the details of the surfings.
It's like the guard at the gate will stop you from entering the castle but the king will not know if you had, just because so many people try to come there each day.
However, from the next time try to slow down while surfing the internet in the school.
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Once I have anal sex and it didn't slipper to my vagina, am I still a virgin? (Stressed)
Firstly, use a medical device to find our whether you are pregnant or not ?
Secondly, a virgin is a person who never had sex. You had anal sex. Unfortunately, you are no more a virgin.
But that shouldn't call for any harassment until and unless you get pregnant.
Take needed measures. You won't get pregnant, if you do so.
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I am a girl,age 23. my father has died in 2009, my mom is alive but she never take care of me. i live with my elder sister,she has 3 kids. she always quarreled with me. if i don't do any household work, she got angry with me. i have boyfriend,who never let me cry,he love me so much.i didn't meet with him for last 3month because my sister never allowed me to meet with him. i stay my room whole day lonely.nobody of my family call me or ask me anything. my study is also hampering day by day. for my condition my boy friend also feeling very bad for me and his study also destroying day by day.i cant tolerate this anymore.it is seem to me that my death is the nice solution for all.my family will get rid of me and my boyfriend will get a better life.i have no way to live.what should i do beyond this?
See, I can understand that your situation is very bad. Suicide would seem to you as the only valid option and that's natural, but impractical. I'll tell you why.
Everyone, be it an American, an Indian, an African or any other has some problem with his or her life. Sometimes, it becomes too much to handle, like your quarrelsome sister, your haughty mother, the death of your father (extremely sorry for that) and things like that. I agree. But, sometimes life also gives us moments and reasons to be happy and enjoy life, like the moments when you are with your boyfriend, the moments when he has made you laugh, the moment when you have taken in the great smell of a beautiful flower, the moment when you have seen a baby smile, the moment when a girl becomes a mother, the moment when your boyfriend kissed you for the first time... Life is full of them...
The glass is never full for anyone, neither for Steve Jobs nor for you. But, it will always be filled, only the extent varies.
So, first of all drop the idea of suicide. Your boyfriend will be in a trauma, God forbid, but if something bad happens to him what could be done. You won't be there anymore with him, neither will he be able to give you his love.
Your family is very bad, I agree, but you are not living for them anymore, because they don't care for you. You are living for your boyfriend-to-be-husband, you are living for your married life, you are living for yourself and the family that you will create, you are living for your dreams, your ambitions.
So, just let go off this idea of suicide and just laugh on your situation and work hard to make your life worthwhile. ACT SMART sweetheart!
Things will turn fine. :)
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So, I'm a 14 year old girl and I honestly can't cope with the way my parents tell me to live, I feel like I am trapped in my home and I can't do anything!
They have these rules that I cannot go on my iPad/phone until 8pm every night, even at weekends I'm not aloud to use them. They say I'm to antisocial and I need to get out more, I go almost everywhere with them! I do go to town with friends aswell. They won't let me out of my town, I live in Barnstaple, devon and I'm not even aloud to Exeter or Bristol to go on a shopping trip with friends which is only about 2 hours away. Also I'm not aloud to be friends with a few people I know, one of them because there is a rumour going around that her mum is a prostitute and the other one who is my best friend and I still hang out with her secretly because she said something rude on Facebook like 2 years ago! It annoys me how I can't be friends with who I want to be friends with. My parents won't let me go out after school and I always have to be back home at 4pm if I go anywhere, which means I can't go out in the evening or at night and have a laugh :(
They also won't let me use social networks other than Facebook and Twitter, I want to be able to use snapchat, Instagram and tumblr but I'm not aloud to have it on my phone, another thing is that my dad still reads my texts and my messages with friends online!!! I'm 14 and I literally have no privacy! It's really annoying I want to just tell him "no, I won't give you my phone" or just not tell him the lock to my phone but he always makes me! :(
This is really annoying me now how I feel like I am stuck with nothing to do and no privacy at all :(
Anyone know what I could do?
The situation that you are facing is severe. But the first thing that you should know is that you are not the only one facing these circumstances. Here in India there are many places where even boys face harsher homemade rules than you. However, neither does this justify your condition nor does it mean that your problem doesn\'t have a solution.
You are suppressed by your parents\' overprotectiveness. But that is the symptom of the problem. Just like sneezing is a symptom and not a disease in itself. The root cause of the problem as far as I can understand is that they feel that you aren\'t mature enough to understand that who\'s good and who\'s bad, what\'s good and what\'s bad for you.
That\'s why they are so overprotective. For a moment, just to calm yourself, ponder over this:
There is a sense of care and love in your parents towards you. However, it has taken a monsterous form !
So be calm. There are parents who don\'t care whether their children are hurt or even whether they are alive or not. You are lucky that your parents care for you. The only thing is that this care has made them a bit blind.
The remedy that you can use is that somehow show them that you are mature and you can take responsible decisions relating to your life. How you will show this is upon you to find out. You are 14 - Big Enough ! If you\'ll remain calm you will soon get the opportunity.
तथा अस्तु
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Im a female 18 years of age. i was having sex with a friend. 20 minutes in the bed and he had a condom on and did not cum. An hour in the pool on and off and he did not have a condom on and he said he didn't cum. He said it was frustrating him because he couldn't cum. And then we had sex in his car for about 10 minutes. And he still did not cum. I gave him a blowjob, and he still did not cum. He went home and master bated while watching porn and came within 15 minutes. I do t understand how this is possible? I'm really scared. Supposed to get my period next Thursday and this happened 2 nights ago. I'm worried he came when we were in the pool and didn't feel it? I don't know how a guy doesn't cumin 3 hours of sex..... He is also very sexually active.he said he didn't cum at all and he said if he felt it coming then he would have pulled out. I don't know I'm just really worried.
As far as I know I don't think that it could be true. There are sexual problems when people delay in cumming, but not cumming at all, doesn't seem possible. I advise you to check for pregnancy.
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Is boredom an emotion, or just the default state you're in when your mind isn't busy with anything?
Well, boredom, like any other emotion doesn't have a well-defined definition. It varies from person to person. Personally, I would define it as indecisiveness to do something. When you are not having something to do and you can't just go out to sleep or relax and it doesn't feel fine. That is boredom. Sorry, if the answer is a bit confusing. Every emotion is like this.
Regards.
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I (24/f) have had a few serious relationships in my life, and they have been great - for the most part. I am in one right now with an amazing guy that I can see a future with. The problem is, I am always insecure, though I've hid it well with all my relationships including this one. If I don't get a text/call for hours, I get worried or suspicious. If my current bf is out and girls will be there, I get myself all worked up, feel sick to my stomach and it's all I think about. It's driving me insane, because I've never been cheated on/betrayed (to my knowledge) and have no reason not to trust my bf. I'm terrified I won't be able to hide it much longer, and it will ruin a wonderful relationship. How can I fix this? I'm exhausted from being so insecure.
Well, I would like to give one remark here. You are acting much like an Indian girlfriend. You seem traditional when it comes down to relationships. Well, don't worry about it. The problem I see is that you have quietly turned overpossessive which is not good for a relationship. You don't need a psychiatrist or anything for that. You just need to change your viewpoint. The thing you need is a little trust in your relationship. It will take a little time. When he is out, even if there are girls around, try to relax yourself by telling yourself that he loves YOU, that's why he is in a relationship with you. Otherwise he would have had already left you if he didn't love you. So, chill and move your focus away from it. You might like to call him or text him when he is out for long but that shouldn't be an interrogation. He might not like it. Instead, it should show a little bit of care for him. Ask whether he is fine or not. How is he feeling. Is he enjoying or not. When will he be back, because you are missing him, not because you are feeling insecure. Hope that helps. And remember, since it is a relationship, it might take a little while for things to get better. Don't hasten. Don't panic. Try practicing "pranayam" or meditation. It will help in relaxing you. Good luck.
Regards.
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Nothing makes me feel happy anymore. I have no drive to do anything. I have been to various doctors and taken various medications but nothing helps. Im not sad or anything just really un interested in doing anything.
Have you ever been to a seashore ? If not then try going there once. You would see STRONG waves of water streaming down your legs. After a while FEEBLE waves would kiss your feet and go. Life is also like that. Sometimes, we feel strong. Full of emotion. Enthusiastic. Ready to act. Sometimes, we feel lonely. Depressed. Out of order. Slow. This is what's happening to you. And it's perfectly normal. Just as it's perfectly normal for the waves to vary in its strength. So, first of all stop taking medication for your mental state. (If it's for some physical disorder, then don't stop taking them). Now, after having realised this, try to recollect your memories. Try to recall something which excites you, like your favorite song, your favorite tv show, your favorite dish, the sound of BMW etc. You can even go out on a drive, relax, walk into your garden, do some "pranayam" (no not yoga), read a book, read a biography. There's so much to do. Follow your fantasy. Move a little. Shake yourself. Take a deep breath and do something funny. Make funny noises. Be the worst joker you have ever seen. Have fun. Don't waste the moments you can have fun with. Party with your life. Just do it. Good luck.
Regards.
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This is a question of what you think of my craziness. Everyone is insanne, because we all see different things from the same things. Our ears turn noise into something comprehensible. Maybe, what each of us hear from the same thing is different. Same for seeing. In turn, what I hear or see happening is based on what I think I said or did. So, in a way, we are all living in our own little fantasy. There's no way for me to even know your real opinion, because you could think I'm saying something totally different than I am. I just see the words, and, from what my brain says I typed, I interpret what anyone would say back. So in a way, we are all completely alone. By the way, I'm 13, so excuse my oddness for being a teenager, and hormones, or whatever people say. I don't see why knowing that I'm a girl would help you in telling you my thoughts, but who knows, right?
They are perfectly fine. Everyone has their own interests. Some are interested in fashion, some in interior designing, some in painting. You seem to be much of an observer which is the basic requirement of all these professions. So, don't stop yourself. Inquire. Observe. Be mesmerised. It's teenage and you should enjoy it. Good luck.
Regards.
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So I'm with this guy (let's call him Trevon), we aren't exactly dating, ut's bot official but we are a "thing" and I'm worried that he might start thinking he owns me it something. See what happened is he is going to be doing this rap battle thing soon and he doesn't want me to come because he said I'm "too innocent" (we r pretty opposite, he's more from "the hood" and I'm a "goodie two shoes") I told him that it would be fine and I can handle it but he said "no u can't go I won't let you" maybe the word "let" just slipped out but he doesn't have the right to allow me or not and if he doesn't think he owns me at all then that word shouldn't even be in his mind. I talked to one of my really good guy friends about it (he's also best friends with Trevon) and he said it might be because while they are rapping they could start rapping about eachothers girl and he might not want me to get hurt
But I don't know because just a few days ago I was talking with Trevon and he said to me "you always say the opposite of what I say" so I asked him "what am I suppose to do just agree to everything even if I don't" and all he told me was that he was tired and was going to go to bed
Are these early signs that he thinks he owns me?
I'm 16 and a female
Well according to the details that you provided, it seems that being strongheaded is his nature. If you are happy with him for some other reasons, like the way he makes you feel special by giving gifts or something like that, then you should keep on living with him. Otherwise, if there's nothing about him which can give you happiness when you are with him, then it's better that you leave him before it's too late. Being with the wrong person is totally stupid. So, if you think that you are totally not having a good time with him then leave.
Sorry for the awfully late reply. I was undergoing some pathetic circumstances, so I wasn't able to come online and check my inbox. I'm sorry. Hope you will sort out this problem fast. Good luck.
Regards
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For starters, i have never been able to reach orgasm before by masturbating (im a virgin still) its always been a frustration because id feel like i was close for so long and its like it was just impossible to finish. So id always give up. Anyways, i was masturbating the other night and I felt really close like I had before but this time my legs went completely stiff and felt they were both asleep or something because they tingled. I honestly felt like I was possessed for a minute or something because I could not move my legs lol (of course while this was happening I wasn't stopping masturbating) and I kept going and the pleasure did feel greater than it had before but there was no big intense pleasure wave or whatever they say an orgasm is like. I didn't feel super relaxed or anything after but needless to say I stopped (I was tired considering id been like an hour) so I'm not sure if I finished, if that was even an orgasm, and when I went pee and wiped there was a lot of white cum, usually theres just a little bit and the rest is clear..
18/F
Well. Just a small answer. When you feel that you are right at the verge of it, start imagining the most sensual moments you must have experienced or seen in tv etc. Don't focus on your fingers. Just feel your beauty. Feel erotic. Feel sensual. Feel your vagina filled with energy. Feel the smoothness of your thighs. Feel the curve of your hips. Feel the enjoyment catching up on your nerves. Feel as if someone is really having sex with you. Focus entirely on sexual arousal. In one or two tries you would start feeling the magic. Go. You'd feel at the top of the world. Yeah ! All the best. ;)
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-3x+5y=3
3x+4y=24
x= ?
y= ?
Just add the two equations together. That will give y = 3
Put this value of y in any of the two equations then you will get the value of x
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19/f
I play a sport for my university. I really love this sport, and honestly i have thought about what it would be like without this sport in my life, and its just a blank image in my head.
The problem? This one girl on my team that is just really annoying and always has to get everything she wants. She always sucks up to the coach (very annoying), and she can be a bitch to the rest of the team. Call me jealous, but I know sometimes she goes to the gym to practice at like 6am..
I know this sounds insanely jealous, but I really want to beat her. Last season she got to play all the time, and I never got to play in the games. All throughout high school I never got to play in any games either.. so pretty much 5 years of only practicing my sport and never playing.. Its just so frustrating because I would really just love to beat her and play this coming fall season. I have all summer to prepare.
So i guess i'm asking for advice on how to beat her out? How do i not let her decisions affect me? Its just so annoying that she always has to be the best.. how do I do that?
I know one thing for sure.. i'm not giving up.
I have read your question with patience and you know. I can tell - you are going to beat her and be the best. :) You know why ?
Just read the last sentence of your question. It says - one thing is '' sure '' I am '' not '' giving up. And you know sweetheart, if you are really not giving up and go on with this attitude then it's not only this annoying bitch, each and every bitch in this world will bow down before you. :)
You just have to keep up this spirit. What I am going to say now, might sound a little wierd, but I have experienced this many-a-times.
Don't ever think '' how '' are you going to beat her. That will worry you and will degrade you performance level. Think, plan and make a strategy of how you are going to perform your best. Think about yourself. Let that bitch go in a ditch. Dump all thoughts about her. Just focus on yourself. Don't think that you have not played that game much. In my country we have a proverb : Dawn is, only when you wake up. Start now, start afresh, start from the fundamental. Be jovial throughout, don't lose heart, burn her annoyance to ashes and practice with happiness. This will increase the speed of practice, will keep you motivated and will make you outperform her. And I tell you, YOU ARE GOIG TO DO BETTER THAN HER. Because she's annoying and you are confident. Moreover, she's just a bitch and you are a sweetheart. :) You will do best. I am sorry, I don't know your name. Just read your last sentence everytime you lose heart. Well, however I am just an aquaintance, I will pray for you. Now run to practice. :) :)
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i am 17 & i work in a candy store. it gets really busy during the holiday time & ifor the last few weeks before christmas they are open sundays. my mom told me that she will, for no reason, allow me to work both days during the weekend. i forgot about this (it was a few months ago when she told me)& i just looked at my work schedual & in a few weeks from now they have me on on saturday & sunday!!!!! i don't want to work this either, but i feel like my boss will be MAD if i tell them this, because we are SO bust during the holidays! how do i please my mom, my boss, & myself? should i work for like 1 saturday & sunday in a row but tell them i can't for the rest?!?! or what do i do??
As far as my brain works, I see one way out.
You can pursuade your boss by promisng him/her that you will work for not only one sunday and saturday but for two saturdays and sundays !!! BUT after christmas. Try it. It might work. Or you tell him that you can afford deduction in salary with extra work after christmas, if you are really repelling working on weekends. Hope it helps.
Akshay Anurag
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Hi!!! Im bored... hihihihihihihihihihihihihihihihihihihihihihihihihihihihihihihihihihihihihihihihihihihihihihihihihi!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
whoa !!! This is kind of a tricky and unique question to answer !!! Ah well, just to tell you - You are much too same as me. I get bored very easily too.... and well, you can search the internet for stuffs you like, you can hang out with family members, you can watch some movies or TV shows, eat something, groom yourself, shop online, play some cool pranks on people you hate, watch yourself in the mirror, ask some more questions here or give some answers or you can start a blog, you can dream or have a sleep..... You may even chat with your friends online or make new friends (You can start off with me !).... There's a bunch of things to do, only if you hunt for it !!!
I hope I helped ! :) You can mail me if you desire.
Have a nice day. :)
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