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this guy i like
My name is Carly and I am 16 and my question is that i like this guy and from my knowledge he liked me before i liked him but i didn't know him that well when he was interested in me but later on i got to know him and he was amazing in every way but the night i told him i liked him he kind of started acting weird and saying he doesn't like me anymore but every time i see him at school he is always staring at me and talking to his friends about me but i'm not quite sure i know what they say about me and i just need some clarification on what i should do? I'm really confused on what he really feels or is he actually lying about his feelings to me or what he saying is true?
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If he's still staring at you, then there is an attraction or interest of some sort. It just may be that in the meanwhile, he found someone else he started to date. If there's no one you can see that seems to be his girlfriend at school, then it may be an LDR. So you'll need to talk to him.
Tell him you've had some time to observe him since he asked you out or said he liked you and came to like what you saw. Then say something about how maybe it wasn't fair to just reveal you now liked him without finding out first if he is still single or seeing someone or made a commitment to someone. If thats the case you want to apologize. But you would like to know now if that is the case. If he says no, then you could ask him if his interest in you has changed. If he says yes, then you could say that his body language says the opposite because of how often he is looking at you. Or, maybe one of his buddies he's been talking to while looking at you is actually interested in you now. If so, you would still like to know where you stand, as far as who is interested in who. Good luck
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Hey Carly, the best advice would be to talk him through. Find an occasion when you two can have a little private conversation and bring this topic in and ask him the reason why he has been acting like this lately.
Put your thoughts together and tell him how you really feel about him. If he really loves you or even likes you then that moment would be more than perfect to bring that out in him.
All the best.
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