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Why are preps always bullying people?
I'm in 7th grade they always call me and my friends "stupid emo fags" and make cutting gestures whenever we walk by them. There was this one prep with some friends (well she's not a prep in the sense she's unpopular but dresses like a prep) and said, "does it hurt?" I thought she meant I was wearing bracelets high up my arm, but I realised since a bunch of kids were laughing she meant cutting. And when I was walking with a male friend and someone asked if he was homosexual and I said,"just because he wears make up doesn't mean he's homosexual -_-" and then they started making random comments about our "fag music", laughed about what we were wearing and walked away. These people are the same people who changed their profile pics to rainbows and wrote about how happy they were #lovewon when gay marriage was legalized. What. Anyway it's like preps favorite passtime to bully people. Not just us "raging homosexual emo faggot cutters" (I've literally heard that from someone) nerds, goths, etc etc...it's so annoying. Why do they do it and what do I do about it?
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Many people make fun of other people no matter what. And just so you know, the reason why they do it, is because they have nothing else to do in their life than make fun of people, wear preps clothes and stuff. So, what do you have to worry about them. No worries. These people don't mean anything to you. You have friends that are just like you, and these are the only people you should be paying attention to. Not to the stupid people who make fun of you everyday. There's ways of not paying attention to them. You can ignore them or stand up for yourself. If I were you, I would stand up. I wouldn't let them walk on me like a carpet. You should be confident, and strong and tell them to shut up. Because you want are you. And you like you. You love you, and I wouldn't change!
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Okay so, you have to know that those kind of people really don't matter. After middle/high school they won't even be anyone. Usually those idiots are the ones who actually feel bad about themselves and they don't think that they have any other release. I would know, trust me, I am most definitely not the most popular person ever. I think that you need to stand up for your self. Tell them off. You don't deserve being called a "fag" every damn day of your life. After you tell them off, make sure that you never talk to them douches ever again.
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Some people around that age are just assholes. Its a phase where they try to fit in, or make themselves feel "cooler" than the kids they bully. When I was that age, the bullying was relentless. Not just me, but all kinds of different kids. Small kids, nerds, dorks, fat, skinny, foreign, dressed different, the list goes on. This era of school was like a gauntlet of assholes for years until they stopped. Guess nothing has changed. I think the best way to avoid (tho it might be too late) would be to fit in and be as "normal" as possible. Either that or ignore them or play along until they get bored. This is the part of life where we see how many assholes there are. Fortunately, most grow out of it. But until then it can be hell for victims of bullies. Take pitty on them. They are idiots who have something wrong with their heads, so they pick on others to make themselves feel superior. Its nothing personal, eventhough it feels that way. I recommend the show "bully beatdown". Talk about a feel good show.
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