So I'm with this guy (let's call him Trevon), we aren't exactly dating, ut's bot official but we are a "thing" and I'm worried that he might start thinking he owns me it something. See what happened is he is going to be doing this rap battle thing soon and he doesn't want me to come because he said I'm "too innocent" (we r pretty opposite, he's more from "the hood" and I'm a "goodie two shoes") I told him that it would be fine and I can handle it but he said "no u can't go I won't let you" maybe the word "let" just slipped out but he doesn't have the right to allow me or not and if he doesn't think he owns me at all then that word shouldn't even be in his mind. I talked to one of my really good guy friends about it (he's also best friends with Trevon) and he said it might be because while they are rapping they could start rapping about eachothers girl and he might not want me to get hurt
But I don't know because just a few days ago I was talking with Trevon and he said to me "you always say the opposite of what I say" so I asked him "what am I suppose to do just agree to everything even if I don't" and all he told me was that he was tired and was going to go to bed
Are these early signs that he thinks he owns me?
I'm 16 and a female
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MrAkshay answered Wednesday May 1 2013, 9:50 am: Well according to the details that you provided, it seems that being strongheaded is his nature. If you are happy with him for some other reasons, like the way he makes you feel special by giving gifts or something like that, then you should keep on living with him. Otherwise, if there's nothing about him which can give you happiness when you are with him, then it's better that you leave him before it's too late. Being with the wrong person is totally stupid. So, if you think that you are totally not having a good time with him then leave.
Sorry for the awfully late reply. I was undergoing some pathetic circumstances, so I wasn't able to come online and check my inbox. I'm sorry. Hope you will sort out this problem fast. Good luck.
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