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being the best?
19/f
I play a sport for my university. I really love this sport, and honestly i have thought about what it would be like without this sport in my life, and its just a blank image in my head.
The problem? This one girl on my team that is just really annoying and always has to get everything she wants. She always sucks up to the coach (very annoying), and she can be a bitch to the rest of the team. Call me jealous, but I know sometimes she goes to the gym to practice at like 6am..
I know this sounds insanely jealous, but I really want to beat her. Last season she got to play all the time, and I never got to play in the games. All throughout high school I never got to play in any games either.. so pretty much 5 years of only practicing my sport and never playing.. Its just so frustrating because I would really just love to beat her and play this coming fall season. I have all summer to prepare.
So i guess i'm asking for advice on how to beat her out? How do i not let her decisions affect me? Its just so annoying that she always has to be the best.. how do I do that?
I know one thing for sure.. i'm not giving up.
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I have read your question with patience and you know. I can tell - you are going to beat her and be the best. :) You know why ?
Just read the last sentence of your question. It says - one thing is '' sure '' I am '' not '' giving up. And you know sweetheart, if you are really not giving up and go on with this attitude then it's not only this annoying bitch, each and every bitch in this world will bow down before you. :)
You just have to keep up this spirit. What I am going to say now, might sound a little wierd, but I have experienced this many-a-times.
Don't ever think '' how '' are you going to beat her. That will worry you and will degrade you performance level. Think, plan and make a strategy of how you are going to perform your best. Think about yourself. Let that bitch go in a ditch. Dump all thoughts about her. Just focus on yourself. Don't think that you have not played that game much. In my country we have a proverb : Dawn is, only when you wake up. Start now, start afresh, start from the fundamental. Be jovial throughout, don't lose heart, burn her annoyance to ashes and practice with happiness. This will increase the speed of practice, will keep you motivated and will make you outperform her. And I tell you, YOU ARE GOIG TO DO BETTER THAN HER. Because she's annoying and you are confident. Moreover, she's just a bitch and you are a sweetheart. :) You will do best. I am sorry, I don't know your name. Just read your last sentence everytime you lose heart. Well, however I am just an aquaintance, I will pray for you. Now run to practice. :) :)
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