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a girl is following me and my friends
im a girl. Me and a few of my friends have known her since we were 5 years old. now we are teens and she keeps following us around school. shes very quite and doesn't have an input into our conversations. if we are sitting down at school she wouldn't sit down beside us she would stand up on front of us in the middle of the group to hear the main conversation. we tell her to sit down and relax but she says she likes standing up. we try to avoid her but then our group of friends is split up and some people are stuck with her. she seems to be there all the time and you can't say anything you want in confidence to your frinds cause she'll hear it. my friend told me one time that she had a hospital appointitment and when my friend wasn't in class the girl that follows us told the whole of my class about my friends hospital appointiment. me and my friends are getting really frustrated with her but i really don't want to hurt her feelings. I was going to tell a teacher in the school but im afraid she will tell us that we are bullying her! I have known her now for 12 years and still don't know her parents or siblings names! please help.
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I used to have someone who would follow me and my friends around too! What happened with me was that the girl couldnt take a hint that we didnt want her to be around us. Dont tell a teacher, they never help with anything. Just I think you should sit down with her and tell her that you and her used to be friends but things changed and you arent besties anymore. Tell her that she needs to find her own friends. But whatever you do dont ditch her. She will only follow you more (known from experience) Anyways, hope this helps =)
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