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mk well ima freshman in highschool 15 n well i already have a horrible reputation n i didnt do it on purpose i started off jus kicken it 2 guys (4) n i didnt realise they were all friends n they all fingured me n i gave 2 of thme head. total mistake of my life!!!no 1 talked 2 me for atleast 2 weeks n worst of all the guy i liked which i also kissed doesnt like me that way ne more were good friends n all n we flirt but i rilly liike hiim n i just want a steady boyfriend. but my real question is should i let the rumors cool n then wait 4 sum 1 to ask me out or jus some 1 2 be with by the way i alreadytold him a million times i liiked hiim n i rilly have no clue watso ever wat to do b/c i like him so much

wow.. i went thru the same thing.. bcuz i got drunk at this party and made out with SIX guys.. yeah SIX guys!!! and like ALL the girls called me a slut n stuff yeah.. but lol all my guy friends didn't have a problem with it.. they actually.. liked it.. lol maybe bcuz I only made out with 6 guys lol instead of fucking them or w.e. IdK!! Try talking to the dude you like and tell him u made a huge mistake and you don't know what you were thinking.. and tell him you wanna move up a step with him.. and you would change everything for him.. if he would just trust you n all.. just be urself babe! I hope things work out.. I TOTALLY know where your coming from!!

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i was w0ndering if there is anyway i c0uld get a free ab0rti0n with0ut my parents kn0wing? =( ManDie x0o

no there isnt im sorry.. but please don't get an abortion.. if u are pregnant.. u HAVE to tell ur parents.. bcuz theres no way u can get away with them not knowing.. keep the baby or give it up for adoption.. abortion is not the answer.. u did the dirrty deed.. it was your choice.. dont punish the baby that YOU created bcuz u cant take care of it.. dont kill it please..

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when is the best time to take a prenancey test? i heard 3-4 days after you were suppossed to have you period, 12 days after you have sex, right after, a couple of days before your period is suppossed to start ... i'm so confused!!!

if uve had ur period.. ur not pregnant?

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ok well my mom told me last week she thinks its time i go see a gyno. well i dont have a problem with it b/c i am sexually active and i think i might need to go. well im guessing she obviously thinks me and my boyfriend are doing stuff if she's making me go there. well im really scared to tell her so im going to keep it from her as long as i can. my friends have told me that the questions they ask you are confidentail.. well is there any way i can ask the gyno if i can get birth control and they can give it to me without my mom thinking anything like can they tell her she should probably put me on it to regulate my period? i know this is weird but what do u think?

the only way u can get birth control without ur mom knowing is if you go to planned parenthood and get it.. tell ur mom u dont want her to go with you bcuz u feel uncomfortable and for her to just give u the money or something.. lol.. i hope everything works out for u

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OMG all my friends (in my age range ~14~) say its okay and that they dont think its bad to have sex at this age and half of them like, arent virgins!! I just relaized this today but i think having sex at this age is just plain stupid!! Am i weird or crazy? IS it okay to have sex at my age?!!

do not have sex.. just bcuz ur friends are.. thats stupid.. i think ud be cooler if you waited.. 14 is too young.. and VERY slutty.. babe u just wait till u find someone u absolutely love.. then give it ALL you got.. hahaaa

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First off, I'm not sexually active and am pretty much a 'good girl' when it comes down to getting serious and sexual with any guy. The problem is, I have these very sexual, heated fantasies. When I meet a hot guy, and we start talking, I start to daydream about us having sex. I don't mean normal sex either - like rough, hard and in odd places. Is there something wrong with me? These fantasies are taking over my life and mind.

haha your just normal girl.. happens to me alllll the time..

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This may be kinda long, but I need to ask someone. I just started taking birth control pills 3 weeks ago. I think I may be pregnant but, I havent missed my next scheduled period. Since I just started taking the pill, that messes up my cycle for this month. I have other signs of possibly being pregnant. Being on my pills the nurse told me I should be getting my period around the 13th of this month. My boyfriend and I are very sexually active..in fact every night. I know we shouldnt do it, but it is unprotected each time. Is there a way that I could find out now if I could be pregnant..like take a pregnancy test tomorrow and find out? Im really nervous and want to know if I am now. I need to know what to do soon. Thanks.

get about 4 preg. tests and do them all.. just to make sure the answer is correct.. if ur pregnant.. srry babe.. but u gotta talk to ur mommah!

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can a 18 year old get in trouble for dating a 13 year old?

yeah.. and that's nasty.. u can go to jAiL!

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ok i think i have a problem, i love sex so much i cant explain and me and my boyfriend only do it like once a week, and when we do he satisfies me alot in everyway but when we're done,10 minutes go by and im ready for another round, he'll give me like two good rounds but i always want more,and he'll be worn out. am i un normal or somethin cause i feel liek i need it all day everyday what is wrong with me.

haha babe! ur like me.. a freaking NIMFOMANIAC!! which means.. UR ADDICTED TO SEX! haaa.. there's NOTHING wrong with that.. maybe you need to find a man that can handle you! haha..

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me and my bf recently slept together and now i fink i mite be pregnant but im wondering can somebody under 16 have an abortion whitout their parents knowind thanx

NO DO NOT HAVE AN ABORTION! NO THERE IS NO WAY U CAN GET AWAY WITH IT WITHOUT UR PARENTS KNOWING! im srry i just REALLY don't think people just get abortions.. i mean YOU HAD SEX it was YOUR choice.. its not the bays fault.. dont create something and then kill it for no reason! DONT DONT DONT! Go buy some pregnancy tests DUH! are u really that freaking stupid!! GO GET A PREGNANCY test! I'm sorry I know I'm being really mean.. but if you could just understand where I'm coming from.. then.. don't get mad at me! lol.. PLEASE do not kill your baby.. IF your pregnant.. go get about 4 preg. tests and do them all.. just to make sure the answer is right! THANKS!

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I'm 15 n I love my boyfriend with allll my heart n we've been together for a long time n we really want a baby. It might sound crazy but. Dont call me a slut or anything, cuz im not. I wouldnt just want a baby with any guy. I love my boyfriend n he loves me n we feel we're ready to take care of a kid. We'd be able to raise it no problem, we have money n stuff. I just dont kno what people would think. My boyfriend promises he'll never leave me, n I kno he will be there to support me in anything...what do you think..

First of all.. if u want a baby.. you've GOT to tell your parents about it BEFORE you make it.. you might think your ready.. but your really not.. you still have school n all that stuff.. JUST WAIT.. dooo noooot get pregnant.. it will RUIN all of your fun.. you'll never be able to go out with friends as much.. you won't be able to have sex as much.. u'll get really moody.. u won't be able to finish school.. JUST WAIT AND DONT BE STUPID! YOUR ONLY 15 GIRL!! You've got SOO many more years in your life.. who knows.. u might NOW be with this dude forever.. bcuz u'll get older and prettier.. and there are SOO many other guys out there.. DO NOT HAVE A BABY!

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ok well lately ive really had the urge to have sex. im a female and gonna be 15 soon and i know its too early but i dont know what to do. i dont even know how to have sex but ive been having dreams about it and everything. i dont want to be a slut! please help

please..please..please.. DO NOT have sex.. wait till u have a boyfriend u love.. and wait till your a lil older.. don't worry.. everyone has dreams and urges to have sex.. ohh babyyy trust me.. EVERYONE does.. lol NO SEX!! ITS BAD! lol

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hey u kno how some people talk about a grl like having numbers sumthin like 36/25/34 or suntin like that?? what do those numbers mean?????

Those numbers are like.. Your hip size.. breast size.. and ass size.. for instance.. Say u wear the bra size.. 36 B.. one of ur numbers is 36.. say ur hips are a 24.. then that number is 24.. and say the length around ur ass is a 36.. then ur a 36.. its how many INCHES you are around ur.. hips.. ass.. n breasts.. like.. u kno how u get measured for dance or cheerleading? they are ur MEASUREMENTS? Get it?

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ok my friend thinks she may be pregnant because her stomach is really warm, and the smell of food makes her sick and shes ALWAYS hungry. She has had her period but shes still scared and she also told me she is taking a depression medication called lortex (i think) and she doesnt know if its because of that or if shes prgnant and shes too scared to ask her parents! Please help asap! Thanks!

She's definitely not pregnant if she's had her period.. if she's still scared go to the dollar store er something and buy a PREGNANCY test.. then when it tells her SHES NOT pregnant.. have her tell her mom what's going on.. and get her to a doctor.. she's probably just imagining things.. shes prolly a hypocondriact like i was.. lol.. which means.. u always think somethings wrong with you when there isn't lol..

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Alright .. so im 13 .. and i had sex for the first time with my boyfriend last night .. meaning i was a virgin until last night .. well i heard your supposed to bleed your first time .. and i didnt .. it hurt like SUPER SUPER bad .. but i didnt bleed .. and i was just wondering if thats normal or not . Thanks :)

13! wow.. i wish you wouldn't of had sex.. your so young and still have MANY years ahead of you.. sex IS NOT the greatest.. but.. yeah.. ur all normal.. you not bleeding just means he didn't pop your cherry.. or at least.. didn't pop your cherry all the way.. it's all normal don't worry.. some girls don't ever bleed from it..

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ok, I was 12 whenever I first had sex...( I know Kinda young but...I was turning 13 soon) Well...it hurt SUPERSUPER bad but they say that after it hurts it's supposed to feel godd...but it didn't...it never once felt good...then the second time (i've only done it 2 times) it still didn't feel good..it kind hurt..adn once again NEVER once felt good?!?! whats wrong with me?!?!

Nothing is wrong with you it's just that your.. "you know" is still tight and not used to it yet.. if u want it to feel good.. u gotta keep doing it.. BUT you'd be better off just to like.. not have sex till you married.. your way to young to be having sex!

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This is a really.. stupid.. question.. but.. here goes anyway:
I want to buy some condoms (im a girl) and i think its kind of embarrassing.. i mean.. i dont want everyone to know im having sex. I cant drive.. and if my sis or parents found out i was buying them.. they would KILL me.. Anyway.. when i work up the nerve to buy them.. whats the best kind to buy... i prefer lifestyles or trojan.. so whats the best.. and cheapest at that.. to buy

thanks!

If you have a Planned Parenthood around where you live.. you can go there and get Lifestyles for free!! And if ur gunna buy them.. Get Trojan.. I think they are more reliable.. lol even though I've only used Lifestyles.. Either one really.. just be careful babe! OH! And if you've got a Planned Parenthood by where you live.. You can go there without your parents get get on Birth Control.. that would be a very good idea.. it's only like.. 15-30 dollars!!! Good Luck! Be Safe!

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Okay, I'm friends with my best friend's ex boyfriend.We've always been friends. But I've also always hada little bitty crush on him. He lives in PA and we live in DE though, so boy me and my friend never get to see him. Lastngith he said he missed me and he wanted to come visit me. I asked him why he didn't ever call, and he said he didn't have any minutes, but if he did, I would be the first person he would call. Is that just me or does he sound like he likes me just a little bit? Help me! I rate good!

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I would just forget about him bcuz it's not right to still be friends with the girl and like her x boyfriend.. friends don't date friend's old boyfriends.. you just don't do that.. and it's stupid to try to even get started in any kind of relationship bcuz he doesn't even live near you.. just forget about him.. you WILL find someone else.. and if it's just a little itsy bitsy crush.. u'll get over it like THAT! lol

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what are some things to say to turn a guy on?

what are some things to do to get him horny?

my boyfriend and i traded a few risque pictures... any way i can slip that into conversation with out it being obvious?

so please, all wise one, heeeeelp!

im not sure what to say to him bcuz.. i dont usually do that.. but to get him horny wow i know MANY things u can do for that.. okay this might sound nasty but.. hay.. im the love doctor and im here to help! lol.. try licking his stomach and guys love it when u lick their nipples.. lol also.. try licking up n down his neck.. and definitely his ear lobe.. then blow verrry softly over where u licked.. u can also rub the inside of his leg.. and squeeze it.. yah know.. things like that..

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I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months and we really love eachother. We've talked about the whole sex thing and agreed that we'd wait until we were together for a longer period of time. My boyfriend said that he's ready whenever I'm ready but he doesn't want to pressure me into anything that I don't want to do. The thing is, I really AM ready. I know that he is the one that I want to lose my virginity to him and he wants to lose his virginity to me. Every time I see him, I get tempted to do more and more with him but I have to stop myself. It's not that I'm scared it's just that I feel that we haven't been together long enough to be doing anything like that. I trust him and I know he won't hurt me. I don't want to become tempted and do that. Does anyone have any ideas as to how I can avoid myself from being tempted? I can't have sex with him, it's not the right time for us yet. Thanks so much if you can help! If anyone is in or has been in my situation, tell me how you handled it or how you are handling it.

Oh wow.. trust me.. if you tell him your ready.. HE WILL okay it.. I mean he's a guy.. all guys are the same.. lol.. Go for it! As LONG as you KNOW you love him and he loves you.. But be prepared.. once u have sex.. U'll never wanna stop.. it's THAT good!

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