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I've only given one boy a hj and each time I do it seems like it takes forever. do you know how long it takes usually? Any ideas to get him to cum faster? Thx

Um ask him what he likes. Thats what I do. it usually takes untill he cums which can vary

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how old were you when you 1st had sex?

I'm 13, and I am still a virgin.

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Hey everyone. My friend and I bought tampons for the first time yesterday (I'm laughing if your reading this now rae) and I just wanted to know if you guys think 13 is too young. My mom and I argued a little over it but I won, so I just wanted to make sure I was fair in my argument. Thanks a bunch ♥

I am 13, and I use them. No, its not too young at all.
Its all in preference, and responsibilitys. [ as in changing them, and not leaving the wrappers everywhere, and things like that ]

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can you pop your cherry from masterbating ??

Yes.

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well what does it mean when people say they are into bonding now...or bondaging? i know it means something sexual..it it like going down on someone and all that good stuff?? lol

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bondage_(BDSM)

Check that out :]

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14/f

i was taking a shower, and like i dont know what i did, but i was moving around, because i was dancing, haha, [ i was like really hyper and in a good mood.] so anyways, some how it got inside me, like in my vagina area, and i dont think i even really realized it at first, but then it gave me this REALLY weird feeling. and then when i moved away, water came out, what happened? am i okay?

If the "it" you're talking about is water, its probably good for you. It cleans it out. I wouldn't recommend spraying water up there, but its not going to hurt you, at all. Don't worry. You're perfectly fine.

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i'm not sure why, but i just so happen to be a girl that moans and breaths heavy a ton during anything sexual with my boyfriend... should i try to contain myself, or do you think my boyfriend enjoys it?

Most enjoy that, its probably preference.
Ask him about it. :]

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theres this song and its by a guy and im not sure of the name, but theres " Beautiful" in the title but other words and one of the lines is like "she makes me suicidal" or something
does anyone know it?

Use google next time, please?

It is called "Beautiful Girls" & It is by Sean Kingston

Here are the lyrics.

Chorus:
You're way too beautiful girl
That's why it'll never work
You'll have me suicidal, suicidal
When you say it's over
Damn all these beautiful girls
They only wanna do your dirt
They'll have you suicidal, suicidal
When they say it's over

Verse 1:
See it started at the park
Used to chill at the dark
Oh when you took my heart
That's when we fell apart
Coz we both thought
That love lasts forever (lasts forever)
They say we're too young
To get ourselves sprung
Oh we didn't care
We made it very clear
And they also said
That we couldn't last together (last together)

Refrain:
See it's very define, girl
One of a kind
But you mush up my mind
You walk to get declined
Oh Lord...
My baby is driving me crazy

(Repeat Chorus)

Verse 2:
It was back in '99
Watchin' movies all the time
Oh when I went away
For doin' my first crime
And I never thought
That we was gonna see each other (see each other)
And then I came out
Mami moved me down South
Oh I'm with my girl
Who I thought was my world
It came out to be
That she wasn't the girl for me (girl for me)

(Repeat Refrain and Chorus)

Verse 3:
Now we're fussin'
And now we're fightin'
Please tell me why
I'm feelin' slightin'
And I don't know
How to make it better (make it better)
You're datin' other guys
You're tellin' me lies
Oh I can't believe
What I'm seein' with my eyes
I'm losin' my mind
And I don't think it's clever (think it's clever)

You're way too beautiful girl
That's why it'll never work
You'll have me suicidal, suicidal, suicidal...

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i was over my boyfriends one night. and he wanted to have sex. and i want to wait till im married so i said no. he flipped out and got on top of me and hes much bigger than me and stronger and he started fingering me. and then his friend came and helped hold me down and he stuck his penis in my vagina and it hurt i kep tscreaming for him to get off but he didnt. and now he keepsasking me why i wont talk to him. what should i do. i really honestly love him also.

What your boyfriend did was commit rape, which is a serious crime.
You need to tell someone about this. Your parents, a trusted friend, or adult, and definitly, the police. Rape is a crime. It's forced sex. You need to call a rape hotline. (210) 349-RAPE

On the other hand, I know you still might love him, but is there a reason for it? He obviously doesn't respect you. He isn't nice, and he is a dirty, rotten jerk. Give yourself reasons to not love him, because in my opinion, you have to reason to love this guy.

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someone told me that if i sleep on my stomach, itll like stop my boobs from growing, will that happen?

No, your boobs are going to grow no matter how you sleep.

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what you said about suicide was DEEP. truly amazing. mind if i put it on a blog on myspace? just for my friends to see. don't worry, i'll give you credit. mind?

Of course you may. Today I had a really hard time with my parents, and I was close to the edge, and I had a knife in my hand, but reading that really changed my life. So don't do it, ever :D

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Some people get to be pretty, do everything right, be popular, and make it seem like easy work while others stress constantly over everything and life...this is serious ive considered suicide A few times and I need help. how do thet do it? be so well perfect

Nobody is perfect. The people who are pretty and popular, aren't pretty because they made theirselves that way. Sure, you can fix yourself up to look decent, and better, but some people are born differently. Nobody can give you that answer, except god. He made you that way.
As for being popular, you make yourself that way. Getting in with the right people, being nice, being yourself, being "in style" is what makes people popular.
Nobody is perfect.
As for thinking of suicide, just remember, it's not the way out -- so please don't do it. It won't do you anything.

Here is something that inspires me, sorry if it is long.

Ask the 25 year old who tried to electrocute himself. He lived, but both of his arms are gone.

What about jumping? Ask John. He used to be intelligent with an engaging sense of humor. That was before he leaped off a building. Now he's brain damaged and will always need care. He staggers and has seizures. He lives in a fogt but worst of all he knows he used to be normal.

What about pills? Ask the twelve year old with extensive liver damage from an overdose. Have you ever seen anyone die of liver damage? You turn yellow. It's a hard way to go.

What about a gun? Ask the 24 year old who shot himself in the head. Now he drags one leg, has a useless arm, and has no vision or hearing on one side. He lived through his "fool proof" suicide. You might too.

But who will clean your blood off the carpet or scrape your brains from the ceiling? Commercial cleaning companies may refuse that job but someone has to do it.

Who will have to cut you down from where you hung yourself or identify your bloated body after you've drowned? Your father? Your mother? Your wife? Your son?

The carefully worded "loving" suicide note is of no help. Those who loved you will never completely recover. They'll feel regret and unending pain.

Suicide is contagious. Look around your family. Look closely at the four year old playing with his cars on the rug. Kill yourself tonight and he may do it ten years from now.

You do have other choices. There are people who can help you through this crisis. Call a hotline. Call a friend. Call your minister or priest. Call a doctor or hospital. Call the police. They'll tell you that there's hope. Maybe you'll find it in the mail tomorrow or in a phone call this weekend but what you're seeking could be just a minute, a month, or a day away.

You say you don't wanna be stopped? Still want to do it? Well then I may see you in the psychiatric ward later and we'll work with whatever you have left.

Remember, suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.

If you need someone to talk to, feel free to inbox me :)

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in your opinion, should sex wait until marriage or before? (if before, then what age is appropriate) just wondering, thank youu

Both. It should wait till you find your true love, who you want to spend your life with.
That is my opinion.

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15/f. Is it possible to be at such an early age?

1. I don't trust ANYONE. Not even my parents. Nobody understands. Nobody WANTS to understand. They don't want it to be their problem. They shrug it off. My parents make up excuses to not have to deal with me, since I'm at the *uncontrolled teen* stage of my life.
2. I cut myself
3. I don't talk to anyone. I'm antisocial, and I seem to hate everyone/everything.
4. I cry for no reason. I'm very sensitive and have gone through a lot of personal pain in my life. (getting raped).
5. My parents's pressure over school is KILLING me
6. I seem to have the need to be PERFECT at all times, and it's driving me CRAZY.
7. I think life is worthless. I think *I'M* worthless. I'm incredibly pessimistic.
8. I want to see a therapist and have had suicidal thoughts.
9. I have a really serious case of OCD.
10. Nobody in school like me. People reject me/ignore me, and never want to talk to me. I have absolutely NO friends. And the people that ARE supposedly my friends, have no trust from me. I believe they're there to just use me and screw me over. I don't consider them anyone towards me.
11. I have no one to talk to. Nobody to spill my feelings onto and have them help me.
There are many more *symptoms*. But I didn't want to make it too long. This is pretty much an outline of what is happening to me. Am I seriously depressed?

I am 13, and I suffer from bipoalr. And yeah, most kids aren't bipolar, but I am.
Of course you're not too young. You certainly sound like you sound depressed. Please go see a doctor, see a physcologist, but please, stop cutting yourself. I did, and it doesn't do anything but leave scars. Get help, now. IF you need anyone to talk to, please feel free to email me at jds1294@gmail.com or IM me, you can get all that on my page.

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this boy at my school want to have sex me with me what should i do...............

Um..be like. NO.
Unless you want to..
then have protection.
But if you have any doubts then don't do it at all.

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me and all my friends are 13. my friend and her boyfriend have been talking about oral, and fingering, ans sex.. he has a concom, and she says shes ready, and shes been talking about it with my other friend who also really wants it too. they say there prepared, and so are there boyfriends. the problem is im not supposed to know this, so i cant talk to them abou it. and plus im not sure if she was telling the tuth, or just saying that, but when everyone found out, she got mad, and i think it means it was true. i really cant do anyhting to help her, but i wanna know if thirteen is too young. I thik it is, but she doesnt, and im scared for her....were not that good of frends , but im still scared!

You need to help her.
13 is way to young for any of that. I am 13, so I know its way to young. I've never even been kissed!
Weather she wants it, or not, you need to talk to her about it.

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is it impossible to make out if both people have braces?

I've made out with a guy with braces, and I have them.
You just have to be a little extra careful, because they will stick. If they do, just laugh it off :D

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Me and my boyfriend are sitting here...bored ish and I'm looking for some sexy things to do

Sit on his lap and just flirt with each other, play with each other's hair. If you want you can make out, but make sure your parents aren't anywheres close to the room ;)

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Is it illegal like if say theres a couple and the girl sends the guy nude pics and there under the age of 18? Cause my friend gets them alot just from his girlfriends and i was curious??

Yes, because they could be charged with child pornography. I would tell them to stop, now, before they get caught.

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