Sex should be with someone you love and trust. If you're just calling him "This boy at my school", then you don't know him nearly well enough! Second, you have to take into account how serious he is. Guys are usually all talk, and young ones like to make comments to a lot of different girls. You might have heard a serious proposal to have sex, but he was probably just flirting and isn't serious. MOST IMPORTANTLY, do you have any idea what he's done with other girls? How do you know you'll be safe? You can't ask him, because, well, people lie.
orphans answered Saturday April 14 2007, 11:12 am: hey
well, it depends on how old you are. if you are a proper age and know the risks and consequences of having sex, like the possibility of being pregnant, & no matter WHAT you do, there is ALWAYS a chance you can get pregnant... then if you want to, then do it.
if you are younger than 16, no. you shouldn't have sex. 16 is young enough. i still think it's too young to be having sex because 16-year-olds and even some 17-year-olds are not mature enough to take responsibility for their actions, and the risk of getting pregnant is not even worth it because they aren't truly in love. that's why there are so many underage pregnancies.
if you don't want to have sex, say no. and if he persists, either ignore him, say NO everytime, or get parental / school help.
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