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Some people get to be pretty, do everything right, be popular, and make it seem like easy work while others stress constantly over everything and life...this is serious ive considered suicide A few times and I need help. how do thet do it? be so well perfect
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Everyone always thinks it's so easy being attractive and popular, but it's really not. People are always watching and expecting and are expecting things that are unrealistic. No one's life is perfect. I've actually attempted suicide before and trust me, it's not worth it. Things WILL get better. When you hit rock bottom, the only place you can go is up. Remember that.
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Life isn't fair, but there are ways to deal with it. A lot is based on perspective. Everyone has problems but they manage to find ways to deal with it, you can to. Besides that, I can't really explain anything without first knowing your exact problems.
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those pretty popular girls with what you think is a perfect life , im one of them , i no that sounds cocky and crap but its the truth and trustttt me my life or the lives of my friends are FARRR from perfect. live looks glamorous loooking at the pretty popular girls but its just because you HAVE to be strong, i honestly considered sucide to. and me and my friends had a talk about it and guess what soo did all of them. and never ever put yourself down EVER you make your self think your not pretty , everyones pretty in there own way. even the UGLYEST person you can think of is gorgeous in there own way , and how do we do it ? you put on a fake smile and a fake laugh and trust me it foools everyones. and you look around your school at those 'pretty popular girls' and i guarentee you every single one of them wishes they werent that , wishes they didnt have to do what was 'cool' , wishes they could shop where evre they want. so i guess in the end its all about being strong confendiant and NEVER put yourself down babe NEVER you are gorgeous.
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Nobody is perfect. The people who are pretty and popular, aren't pretty because they made theirselves that way. Sure, you can fix yourself up to look decent, and better, but some people are born differently. Nobody can give you that answer, except god. He made you that way.
As for being popular, you make yourself that way. Getting in with the right people, being nice, being yourself, being "in style" is what makes people popular.
Nobody is perfect.
As for thinking of suicide, just remember, it's not the way out -- so please don't do it. It won't do you anything.
Here is something that inspires me, sorry if it is long.
Ask the 25 year old who tried to electrocute himself. He lived, but both of his arms are gone.
What about jumping? Ask John. He used to be intelligent with an engaging sense of humor. That was before he leaped off a building. Now he's brain damaged and will always need care. He staggers and has seizures. He lives in a fogt but worst of all he knows he used to be normal.
What about pills? Ask the twelve year old with extensive liver damage from an overdose. Have you ever seen anyone die of liver damage? You turn yellow. It's a hard way to go.
What about a gun? Ask the 24 year old who shot himself in the head. Now he drags one leg, has a useless arm, and has no vision or hearing on one side. He lived through his "fool proof" suicide. You might too.
But who will clean your blood off the carpet or scrape your brains from the ceiling? Commercial cleaning companies may refuse that job but someone has to do it.
Who will have to cut you down from where you hung yourself or identify your bloated body after you've drowned? Your father? Your mother? Your wife? Your son?
The carefully worded "loving" suicide note is of no help. Those who loved you will never completely recover. They'll feel regret and unending pain.
Suicide is contagious. Look around your family. Look closely at the four year old playing with his cars on the rug. Kill yourself tonight and he may do it ten years from now.
You do have other choices. There are people who can help you through this crisis. Call a hotline. Call a friend. Call your minister or priest. Call a doctor or hospital. Call the police. They'll tell you that there's hope. Maybe you'll find it in the mail tomorrow or in a phone call this weekend but what you're seeking could be just a minute, a month, or a day away.
You say you don't wanna be stopped? Still want to do it? Well then I may see you in the psychiatric ward later and we'll work with whatever you have left.
Remember, suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
If you need someone to talk to, feel free to inbox me :)
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i know it may seem like some people are perfect but really no one is. trust me i know what it feels like to hit rock bottom and see no other escape, but suicide is not the answer. each person is different. i used to want to be one of the popular girls with the perfect grades and perfect life. but then i realized that even their lives arent perfect. not at all. stress is a normal part of life. everyhitng seems to be going crazy in life rite now: school, parents, friends, relationships. EVERYTHING!! but you are not the only person who is going through this. those people who make it all seems so perfect. they have problems too. they just know how to keep their heads up high. folow that example. dont let things get to you. look for friends who love and support you. one person can make all the difference in your life, one good friend to listen to all your problems. hope i helped. anything you need. if you ever just want to talk, leave me a message in my inbox.
SAM
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