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i was over my boyfriends one night. and he wanted to have sex. and i want to wait till im married so i said no. he flipped out and got on top of me and hes much bigger than me and stronger and he started fingering me. and then his friend came and helped hold me down and he stuck his penis in my vagina and it hurt i kep tscreaming for him to get off but he didnt. and now he keepsasking me why i wont talk to him. what should i do. i really honestly love him also.
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im with that person too thts reakky fuckin bullshit well yeah im a guy but that is fucking messed up if i knew him i kick his ass up and down that fuckin bedroom until he cried bloody murder if i caught him doing that to any girl or even my girlfriend im dead serious dont talk to him again break up with him and tell someone its the best thing to do he deserves it more than anything else in the world
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uhm rape?....
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you're really dumb if you still love him after that... that is considered rape and you should tell a parent or police about it. you shouldn't talk to him anymore, because he went against your wishes, and what he did was extrememly wrong. if he really loved you he would have listened to you when you told him no. breake up with him and never talk to him again, because people who rape people need help !!!
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I'm sorry to say but you've been raped, dearest. You do NOT love him and he does NOT love you. Do you really think that if a guy loves you, he'd rape you and not respect your decision to be abstinent until you're married? He raped you and his buddy over there helped in it.
It's a felony, which means that it is punishable by imprisonment and his friend there, by just helping out can get himself in prison for 5-20 years. You need to get help fast and report this right now. Right now you may say that it wasn't rape and that you love him and he loves you. But in reality, it's not true. You've been raped. He doesn't love you and you don't love him. Right now, you need to put aside your feelings and go report this to a police or a counslor if you don't want to tell your parents yet.
This will sound all exaggerated and weird but please do this:
Call the police or report this to someone. Write everything down--everything that has happened in his house. Write down every detail you can remember. If you still have the clothes from that night, don't wash it and keep it in a little bag. Get to a hospital and see if they can do a rape test on you. And please get counseling.
Please put aside your feelings for him and just do it because he will rape someone else in the future and right now, he seems like he doesn't know what he did wrong and that is a terrible thing. Tell him that you don't want to see him again and not to come near you. As I've said above, report this to the police--please!
Good luck and I hope that this guy and his friend lands in prison.
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He DID rape you. That is a crime in this country. He obviously doesn't respect you, your morals, and your feelings. If he would do something like that to you, then he probably doesn't really love you. I suggest that you tell him how you feel, and that you don't think he respects you for doing what he did to you. And, not to be rude, but we're only teenagers, relationships are meant to end every once and a while, it's not like we're going to marry the first person we date. So, tell him how you feel, let him know that you didn't like what he did, and if he makes up excuses for himself, then I would say, dump him, and you should probably tell someone he RAPED you!
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What your boyfriend did was commit rape, which is a serious crime.
You need to tell someone about this. Your parents, a trusted friend, or adult, and definitly, the police. Rape is a crime. It's forced sex. You need to call a rape hotline. (210) 349-RAPE
On the other hand, I know you still might love him, but is there a reason for it? He obviously doesn't respect you. He isn't nice, and he is a dirty, rotten jerk. Give yourself reasons to not love him, because in my opinion, you have to reason to love this guy.
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He RAPED you. Whether you love him or not, you said no and he did it anyways...that's the definition of rape. There's no way that you should stay with him after that. He forced you into doing something you didn't want to do. If he loved you, he wouldn't have done that. Hell, that's a crime! If you told the cops he would go to jail for that! And that's what you should do. If he did it to you, he can do it to anyone.
I can't force you to press charges, although you should consider it, but I can advise you to no longer talk to him and to NEVER be alone with him again. Who's to say he won't do it again? You can't stay with someone you physically hurt you on purpose just because you think you still love him. You can get over him, but if you stayed with him you probably wouldn't be able to get over what he did to you.
Just stay away from him...break up with him, and move on. And again, I strongly advise you to press charges. It is what needs to be done so he doesn't go and do it to some other girl.
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Hey. Well, what he did is not okay. Actually, It's rape. The best advice I can give you is to stay away from this kid, he's bad news, and so is his friend. Also, you should tell someone. Like, a guidance counselor or something. I can't stress to you enough that no matter how much you love him, you have to leave him and not go near him again. Technically, he and his friend raped you, and as you probably know, that's illegal. I'm really sorry this happened to you, but you should be thankful that it wasn't worse. Don't give him enother chance, he's NO ONE you wanna get caught up with. Really, please, break up with him and never go near him again, what he did is just fucked up.
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